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26 f sick of this already

[angerkorok]

Hey, in all seriousness, why the fuck would we put two toddlers in the care of someone who called the suicide prevention hotline because he broke up with his own girlfriend and she accepted it and wouldn't let him go back on it? Why would she want her exbf to watch her kids, especially when the older one has been telling her he doesn't even watch them, he just sits in his room and yells at them?

Also, he called the suicide prevention hotline and then was shocked when they forced him to go to the hospital and stay for 72 hours. He genuinely believed they'd talk her into staying with him. Emiel Mulligan is an abusive worthless pos, and I'm glad my sister is standing up for herself but she needs to start taking screenshots and videos and posting them. His dads, Tim Mulligan and I can't quite remember the other one, clearly did a pretty shit job when he was a kid bc there's a reason he thinks everyone owes him whatever he wants. Also Tims cookbook is super weird.

[angerkorok]

I wish he'd make the threats he posted publicly come true.

[angerkorok]

I wish we could help my nieces without helping my sister. She wants us to help but not be treated as though we help her, and she intentionally excludes us because her bf says to. She doesn't care about anyone but him and tries to prove it daily.

[angerkorok]

My sisters boyfriend is not allowing her to sleep and she doesn't think he's abusive ☺️ he tells her children that she's a monster and he's a better dad than their dad is, but he's not trying to alienate the kids according to her 🫠 he got but by my niece because he put his hand over her mouth and squeezed, and "mommy thinks that he's going to work on it", so it's fine. He rips the blankets off the kids beds when they're misbehaving, he cuts up their toys when they don't listen to him, he leaves them walking over 20 feet behind him in parking lots, he stays in his bedroom when he's supposed to be watching them, he's outright told multiple people that he hates the way they look IN FRONT OF THEM. he's failed at keeping a job consistently for the last year even though fast food and movie theaters are not that difficult to stay employed, but he's a "great guy". He picks someone out in every area of his life as the scape goat for why everything around him falls apart. He's threatened to kill himself when they're arguing, but she won't call a wellness check because he's "had bad experiences with police".

If it weren't for the kids, I'd say she's choosing what she thinks she deserves and I can't help her. But the kids will always deserve better and I still can't help because she doesn't think it's an issue. I hate this guy and I am beginning to hate my sister for allowing him to treat my nieces like this. She can choose how she wants to be treated when she's not responsible for the care of two toddlers.

[angerkorok]

I might be calling CPS pretty soon here. The lines she is allowing her boyfriend to cross are making her a worse parent than their father and they deserve better than her. Wdym you let your boyfriend take your children's blankets away when they misbehave? And knowing him, they probably asked why and didn't actually misbehave, but you're more worried about keeping him around than actually protecting your kids. I hope they're taken, even though I know that'd mean I probably wouldn't see them. They deserve better.

[angerkorok]

The toddler bit her boyfriend and she didn't ask any questions. Grandma did! BF had his hand over her toddlers mouth and started squeezing and "it kinda hurt a little" so she bit him.

[angerkorok]

If you have someone watching your kids, wouldn't you message that person instead of their roommate? Apparently not my sister, because she's been messaging me instead of our mother who is actually supposed to be watching the girls. She does this constantly, she expects me to parent her children for free and to do it more often than anyone else. Next time I'm going to tell her I'm not in the house. I want to see if she actually believes it's my responsibility and if she responds how I believe she will, I'll post screenshots on my fb with all of our friends and family and prove what kind of person she is.

[angerkorok]

I might be calling CPS pretty soon here. The lines she is allowing her boyfriend to cross are making her a worse parent than their father and they deserve better than her. Wdym you let your boyfriend take your children's blankets away when they misbehave? And knowing him, they probably asked why and didn't actually misbehave, but you're more worried about keeping him around than actually protecting your kids. I hope they're taken, even though I know that'd mean I probably wouldn't see them. They deserve better.

[angerkorok]

I'm just incredibly angry at every little thing happening to me but I don't think it's my place to complain about it to the people in my life so I'm dropping it here

[angerkorok]

My sister is a moron and I don't know how to deal with it.

It would be one thing if she was just affecting herself with her bullshit, but she has two children and two cats. I'm fairly sure her cats are safe from the decisions she's made rn, but that could change any moment.

My sister got a new boyfriend, and I think that was the beginning of all her common sense disappearing. He's had conflict with every single one of her friends that I know, and all of her family. He's refused to give her rides at times and hasn't had a job for more than 3 weeks since he moved up here. He mistreated her cats in front of her, and when I pointed out how disgusting he acted towards them, she agreed with me but spoke poorly about me with him in the kitchen for 2 hours when she thought I couldn't hear. I was able to hear into the kitchen from two of the bedrooms I was in(we moved rooms around so her kids could each have their own room), and she didn't believe me when I told her that. I repeated something she said in the kitchen, and she went and told our mother that I was "listening at the door of their bedroom". No one believes her besides herself and her bf, but it's incredibly disheartening to hear someone speak badly about you for 4 months straight while you clean up after them and watch their children.

I got sick of hearing her and her boyfriend talking shit in the kitchen one night when they said something about our mom's cat and how he's never in either of our rooms. At the time, I had a routine with this cat AND HER CATS that I'd wait until around midnight, then give them treats, and while they were eating treats I'd snatch my mom's cat up and get him to snuggle in my room. My sister would get home at 1am and not see him anywhere, but he was "never" in my room? So I walked out to say something, and the only thing I could think of was how stupid it was for either of them to say that when her cats have never been allowed in her room, and when everyone was awake, they hung out in my room most of the time. When I walked back, I looked into my sisters eyes and said "Good luck with your third toddler."

She told mom he'd laughed it off, but a mutual friend who was trying to keep from choosing a side said it really got to him and he whined about it to her constantly. Within a week they moved out together. A week from living together, my sisters cats were hissing at her bf. She doesn't believe he did anything to them, but those cats have NEVER been anything but sweethearts for the 5-6 years she's had them, and her kids father was awful to them. They were nicer to her baby daddy while he was tossing them into the shower than they were to her current bf, but apparently he's never mistreated them. She sent them to live back here a month or so in. They were perfectly happy and perfectly sweet within 20 minutes.

Her kids come over here when it's time for their dad to pick them up, and if my sister is working, her bf doesn't want to deal with him alone, so my mom and I get the kids. The older one has begun to tell my sister that she doesn't miss her mommy when she goes with dad, but she misses grandma. I'm absolutely sure that hurts, but I feel like that might be another red flag for my sisters behavior or who she's with.

My sister had a half day at work and her boyfriend planned to take her out, I guess. She would have come here to see the girls before they went to their dads if he didn't have something planned, but decided to do what he wanted to, which is fine, the kids were with someone who loves them deeply (my mom lol).

Her bf canceled their plans. So my sister didn't get to do what they were going to AND didn't see her kids. She texted my mom that it made her feel like a bad mom. I don't think this incident specifically makes her a bad mom, but the things I've been hearing about that I've left out of this post do make her a bad mom. This incident should just be another indicator to her that her bf does not care about her or her children, but she's not going to listen to it. I'll rant more later.

[angerkorok]

This is my rant journal now lol