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“It’s not always easy to give someone a second chance. Before you can forgive a person, you have to recognize what they did to hurt you and to what extent you were hurt. You have to remember how close you were to them, which only makes the fact that they hurt you more painful. However, beneath the growing resentment and simmering betrayal lies the person you once opened your heart to. Yes, they’re still there. Just because a rock is thrown at a window doesn’t mean that the glass has shattered permanently. Forgive, don’t forget. In doing so, you’re healing yourself as well as the fractured relationship.”

— Noor Shirazie

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there’s a misconception that grief only happens when we lose people. this is not true. we can grieve circumstances, relationships, missed opportunities. in fact, sometimes when you find yourself plagued with waves of emotion from sadness to melancholy you may be grieving yourself. the version of yourself that you might have been if things had been different, or if only you had said something, or if someone had stood up for you.

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*me smelling marijuana in the air*

I want some.

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I’m convinced that time spent idle makes for a healthier state of mind. We want less and are more at peace when we get it. We sleep better and work harder. Simpler things bring us joy. When we daily observe our immediate surroundings, we are more grounded in our context, more attuned to the rhythms of whatever season or place we are in.

Plus, the changing shapes of clouds need our attention.