[pt Yet another Culture Is blog but for asocials! /End pt]
PFP: The Asocial flag I'm using (link) + a random transparent png of a pangolin I found
Banner: The dictionary definition of asocial
Rules Are As Follows:
Everything must be related to asociality. You can "cross post" ("asocial + aplatonic culture" "asocial + alterhuman culture" etc) but they have to be included in the asocial experience.
Typing quirks are allowed and I will do my best to provide a translation.
Asks containing censored words (excluding slurs, please do not say slurs in the ask box) will be deleted. I can tag triggering topics, no need to censor murder or death or some shit like that.
Can be updated as need be.
You can call me Pango, preferably no pronouns but you can make up any pronouns for me that aren't he, she, or they if you want. I'm asocial, AroAce, and aplatonic. I'm also a college student so please forgive me if I get a bit too busy to get to the inbox sometimes.
welcome to demigender-culture-is! i'm molly, tyler, robyn or slushii (she/they, @live-through-thiss) and i have been running this blog since july 2021, during the inital influx of culture-is blogs. although i do not post often, i do try to keep this blog active.
before i delve into the most well known demigender terms, i want to point out other active culture-is blogs for anybody who wants to find them! (if you want to be added, removed or untagged, please let me know!)
this list may never be fully up to date or accurate; i found out there is a culture-is catalogue @cultureiscatalogue !
(last updated: 22/06/2026; i cannot have more than 50 mentions per post, so some of these cannot be tagged directly. additionally, i may need to add to this post from time to time, and as a result some blogs will likely be retagged and notified. apologies if either of these happen to you)
- (some) demigenders -
note that you can identify as any demigender regardless of your assigned gender at birth.
i am putting the identities under a read more because it is a lengthy section of this post. at the very bottom i have included some sources that i used, for if anyone would like to read more about these :)
demigender
feeling partially, but not fully, like any gender. demigender and deminonbinary share the same flag, although there are some variants of the deminonbinary flag, one of which i will post with the deminonbinary explanation. the flag was created by deactivated blog @/transrants.
demigirl
feeling partially, but not fully, like a girl/woman. both flags were created by transrants.
demiboy
feeling partially, but not fully, like a boy/man. both flags were created by transrants.
deminonbinary
feeling partially, but not fully, nonbinary/enby. as stated earlier, demigender and deminonbinary share the same flag. deminonbinary has a few variants, including the second flag below. both flags were created by transrants.
demiagender
feeling partially, but not fully, agender. the first flag was made by enbygsrd, while the second was created by goatsjourney.
demigenderqueer
feeling partially, but not fully, like a gender outside of the man/woman binary. it is unknown who designed this flag.
demifluid
someone whose gender is partially fluid with the other part(s) being static. both flags were created by the deactivated blog @/pride-flags-for-us.
demiflux
someone whose gender partially fluctuates with the other part(s) being static; this differs from 'demifluid' as '-flux' indicates that one of the genders is neutral. it is unknown who designed this flag.
sources:
pages i used for many reasons, such as for flags, definitions, and oldest known information about certain identities.
the demigender page on the nonbinary wiki, which also shows variants of a few demigender flags, and lists some notable people (both in real life and in fiction) who use any of the identities listed above. (nonbinary wiki link)
the nonbinary wiki also has a gallery of demigender flags. (nonbinary wiki link)
the lgbtqia wiki has also compiled some demigenders. i used these as partial sources too. (lgbtqia wiki link)
the demiboy, demigirl and deminonbinary flags. though i did find these in my other sources, i am linking the post here because transrants, the creator of the demiboy and demigirl flags, has since deactivated, though druxydeity, who made the deminonbinary flag, is still active. (tumblr post link)
five demigender definitions from 2014. the nonbinary wiki used this as a source in some instances. (web archive link)
finally, @/pride-color-schemes has made some posts on demigenders with their alternate flags; demigender, demigirl, demiboy, deminonbinary, demifluid, demiflux and demigenderqueer.
the lgbtqia and nonbinary wikis have brief history sections and plenty of sources of their own as well :)
Questioning asocial spectrum is: Having a voice in the back of our head that goes "SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP-" whenever we talk to someone for too long. (the length depends on the person and topic, but it's usually pretty short.)
And just assuming it'll go away, and that you're just irritable with people. (Which is always)
Question: Can someone be asocialspec and still get lonely? /gen
Absolutely! Everything in life is a spectrum after all and while some asocials might not get lonely, others will. I get pretty lonely sometimes myself despite being asocial.
Questioning social repulsed culture is: Hating when other people start a conversation with you, and being repulsed at it. Like- ew, let me contact you at most once a month, please. Don't try and make our relationship closer then it has to be.
asocial aplatonoc culture is inviting people with avents to you so you dont go alone/they have the ability to go, & praying they wont want to talk much.
Asocial culture is seeming unapproachable and almost blending into the wall and absolutely preferring it that way. I'm genuinely so happy I perfected the 'completely forgettable and unimportant stranger' thing in 5th grade.
asocial culture is thinking ab joining an aspec discord server and then realizing that would require actually . talking. to the other people in the server and ouuauhshw yeah i don't,, wanna do that actually. desire for more fellow aspecs in my vicinity VS disinterest in social interaction FIGHT
