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Dan - 18 - Autistic - Trans - SPD - DMs Open

[autismproblems]

autism problem #1310

Interacting with humans… that’s it

[dankmemesreasonforliving]

[autismproblems]

autism problem #1295

Having that one particular clothing item and people complain that you wear it too much but you are very attached to how it feels.

[spongebob-autisticquestions]

Any other autistics have trouble going down stairs? I can't go down them without looking where I'm going to place my feet next. If I don't look, I almost certainly will take a tumble. I've always watched other people be able to walk down stairs while looking wherever they want, and I've never been able to figure out how they manage it...

[hikikomourning]

yeah sure neurotypicals can focus on things they dont like for more than 10 seconds but can they do this????? *chugs a bottle of coke and instanly falls asleep*

[autistic-flirting]

please lay on me

[lettering-is-my-music]

[eggcup-deactivated20180129]

[mellifexfarm]

today we eat lentils and watch the rain

[stimman3000]

cindylaneart

[cwote]

Congratulations If...

You got out of bed today.

You did your dishes or dirty laundry.

You finished some homework you’ve been putting off.

You cleaned up around your home/apartment/dorm etc.

You resisted temptation in any form.

You found a reason to smile.

Little victories are worth celebrating!!

[unhappy-opinions]

Hey, here’s a tip for people living with autistic individuals.

Don’t fucking make fun of or tease them for their food fixations.

Don’t say shit like “what do you want me to make? oh, wait, let me guess: [thing they’ve been fixated on for however long]” or act shocked and surprised when they ask for something else or be an asshole and say “ugh, [thing] again?” as if they’re forcing you to eat it too.

Don’t fucking do it. It’s not cute. It’s not funny. It’s annoying and probably just makes the person feel like shit because apparently answering your question honestly and telling you the thing they know they like and want to eat regularly instead of spending thirty minutes trying to figure out what it is they even can eat at this point between all the foods they can’t stand the texture of, things they just don’t like the taste of, things they don’t have access to, things they’ve been previously fixated on and now can’t so much as stand the smell of, and things that they are in the mood for. If you already know what they like (for instance, tacos), then maybe give them some similar options (like, for instance, stroganoff) instead of just being a bitch about them giving you the first answer that they know is the correct one.

[stranger-stim]

some really soft grass i found the other day

[judestims]

orgochemist

[lovelysuggestions]

you have made so much more progress than you realize. you will get past these bumps in the road, the bad days, the heartbreaks, and find you are stronger than you were before.

[scretladyspider]

Hey. Do you need a hug?

Maybe you’re having a stressful day. Maybe you just need a deep breath. Maybe you just didn’t realize how stressed you are. It’s okay! You deserve love and warmth in your life.

Are you comforted by words? 

Here’s an Emergency Compliment

Here are some kind words you can personalize with your name 

Here are 15 more emergency compliments 

Here is a Self Esteem Boosting Confidence Machine 

take a moment - video 

believe in yourself - video 

Inspiration from Jacksepticeye - PMA 

encouragement from Mr. Rogers - video 

you are ENOUGH - video 

Do you need to hear some pleasant ambient sounds?

How about rain sounds you can customize? 

You can listen to a cafe here  

or how about a crackling fireplace?  

ASMR? Stimming? 

Soap cutting ASMR - video 

more soap ASMR - video 

a 4 hour ASMR video to help with sleep 

ASMR face and scalp massage - video

ASMR slime - video 

the most satisfying video in the world 

more satisfying videos 

Lora Zombie speed painting - video 

Agnes Cecile speed painting - video  

the fastest workers in the world - video 

how candy canes are made - video 

Mr. Rogers shows how crayons are made - video 

How about a game or activity distraction?

Play 2048 here 

A whole website of free games!  

play chess against a computer 

Here are some coloring pages you can do online!  

Play Flow online here 

here’s a game where you stretch a giraffe’s little neck to give kisses 

Learn about the history of life on earth with PBS Eons 

Do you need something soothing?

Control the pattern of rain here! (flashing colors warning)

try doing nothing for two minutes 

Vent to a stranger online for FREE!  

weavesilk, where you can create a soothing pattern 

have you ever been to the nicest place on the internet? 

watch Bob Ross bring joy to painting - playlist 

How about a laugh?

Vines you can show your grandparents 

History of the entire world, I guess  

History of Japan 

Rhett and Link caption fails 

Thomas Sanders Vines 

The Demented Cartoon Movie (warning for flashing colors) 

The ASDF movie 1-11 

The Horribly Slow Murderer with the Extremely Inefficient Weapon by Richard Gale  (warnings for some bruises and some violence)

Rhett and Link VS Hank Green - SHUT UP AND DANCE 

It’s going to be okay. Today may be the worst day of your life - but tomorrow won’t be. Life is a series of ups and downs, and that means there’s going to be good and bad. Drink some water, let yourself cry if you need to, and get a good night’s sleep. You’ll feel better in the morning. 

[autism-artism]

A personal stim of mine is rubbing my little finger with my thumb.

Love your stims, big or small, common or unique, they’re yours and they’re awesome.

(Im trying out some new drawing software… what do you think?)