The Endā¦. For real this time.
Got a long text yesterday from former bff. Itās been a few weeks since our talk and walk with the pups.
The text didnāt land the way I think she intended? To be honest I donāt really know her intentions anymore so maybe that doesnāt matter.
What stuck out or struck me most was that she views me as less than. (This has been our dynamic for a bit) That all the work Iāve done is āAwesome!ā But I needed to be ācapableā before, if Iād just done this or done that, then things wouldāve been different. It felt very āall my doingā with a casual āwe both arenāt perfectā thrown in there to soften the blows.
I worked very hard to come to her with boundaries and to be vulnerable with her. But it was taken as me āstanding upā to her, and when I shared my feelings it was perceived as an attack.
She ended it with a no possibility of a friendship.
While I had come to a similar conclusion after our talk I was wanted to take it slow and see if we could find our way back to a friendship using a different path. I thought with the time and knowledge we gained we could be better prepared to navigate to a healthy friendship.
It seems that we are both determined to misunderstand each other.
I took a few hours to reply. I wanted to convey agreement with ending our friendship and lightly close the door. I wished her happiness.
Overall Iām sad, but I feel that this is the right choice for the both of us.
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