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the connections between trauma and sexuality just became a little too obvious as I got older and older.

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when I see promiscuity in real life these days I just get curious because i'm like what happened to her?

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Let me summarize.

I could not live with myself if I hurt someone and demonized them when they were just doing their best to cope with such horrible abuses.

That's why I don't slut shame. I realized at some point what looked like promiscuity on the outside was just women trying to cope with Trauma on the inside.

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Reaching out for human faith is unfortunately a journey I don't have a map for. Nobody told me that Women who got Sexually assaulted often e

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so I don't judge women's promiscuity when I see it I just think Oh god did something happen to her?

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seems to me if a girl is sleeping around Why she's doing it ought to be important.

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For her it was just frustration and the ridiculous double standards.

For me it was a growing sense of awareness of the way SA altered women's sexuality.

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Jenn and I reached the same conclusion from different points of origin.

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To be fair though I deny the charge of being a White knight.

I'm just Trauma informed so I took Jenn's Side.

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It's like I said on Video. Why is she sleeping around? Because Someone Raped her.

I don't slut shame for the simple reason that I'm Trauma Aware and Have had enough experiences with women to realize the impacts of SA on their sexuality.

That's why I'm still upset with RBK. I didn't say what I did to sleep with Jenn.

I'm saying it because I genuinely agree with her but got there from a different vantage point which is to say that hypersexuality is a very common trauma response.

as a result of being so aware I don't want to demonize anyone's coping mechanism

You won't find judgement here, just understanding. this is what it means to be Trauma informed I guess.

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I have better social skills than the disorder implies.

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It's like I said on Video why is a the woman sleeping around? oh right. someone raped her.

Despite my Autism, I'm very aware.

it's why I wasn't totally shut out of dating I think.

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So that in effect means slut shaming runs a huge risk of demonizing a woman for what is Trauma response which is next level cruelty and if Not being enough of a dick to do it makes me a white knight then I'm proud of what I am.