i wanted to girlblog more about how i've been romanticizing my life and curating a lifestyle that is very much pampered, princessy, utterly glamorous, very pink and very very happy...💬🎀
ROBES CASUALLY + CUTE LOUNGEWEAR ;
buying cute loungewear has been an absolute GAME changer, i feel so adorable lounging around while i read, or listen to my "dolling in my room" playlist on my speaker that i decorated myself. i wear my victoria's secret silk robe literally all the time, and if im too cold for that its okay because i have an adorable fluffy pink robe.
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KEEPING A CLEAN AND BEAUTIFUL SPACE ;
i have the best dad in the whole world and he built a canopy for my bed so now i LITERALLY have a princess bed. i also have cute bedding, a bedskirt, fluffy throw pillows. anything that'll make me more comfortable. my room screams pink and girly and is truly a reflection of who i am.
HAVING A CALM MIND ;
im a loa girlie through and THROUGH and i specifically love to saturate my mind. i saturate my mind for about an hour a day, sometimes even more. i listen to subliminals literally 24/7 (cuz thats why im so pretty) and i love to mindlessly affirm, or dance around to music while affirming or visualizing (there's no right or wrong way to do this people).
but to have a calm mind to do all those things i love to meditate in the mornings. i just close my eyes and affirm to myself and just talk to myself and tell myself pretty things. i try to meditate everyday. im also really offline. my screen time is 2 hours or less on my dolly phone.
i also read a lot (so far i've read 2 books this year) i try to read 1-2 books a month just to feed my brain. i sleep 8-10 hours a night. and again, i've severely reduced my screen time. it's helped me to feel so much less cluttered and irritable.
SCHOOLWORK ;
i romanticize my schoolwork with pink stationary and writing cute and aesthetic notes. as u guys probably know by now i do online school so i really choose my own schedule. i could honestly do better in romanticizing this aspect of my life but i have a cute school playlist, i do focused hour blocks to get work done bcuz i find that that works the best for me.
HOBBIES ;
❤︎ tennis - im actually the captain so i play tennis a lot and train privately a lot as well.
❤︎ dress-up - getting to try on all my clothes and make combinations and be creative is super fun. highly recommended.
❤︎ piano - i love to learn pretty pieces and play them. definately a princess hobby.
❤︎ beauty rituals - keeping up with my beauty rituals and pampering myself is the best hobby you can develop.
❤︎ shopping - not just mindlessly shopping though, i CURATE, everything i buy is a reflection of myself. i regret nothing i buy.
❤︎ makeup - doing new makeup looks, trying out new techniques. i love it i love it.
❤︎ dancing - im currently getting back into dancing. so far so good.
❤︎ girl blogging! - what im doing right now, this encompasses my magazine as well.
let me know if yall would like a part two because i will literally make one...💬🎀
the hard candy (truths) of being an ambitious girlie⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍪💕
ambitious girlies are really the best and there's so much that comes with it. you hold yourself to a different standard, you don't just hope for excellence but you expect it. and thats what makes us so great and that's what i wanted to talk about in this post...💬🎀
UNDERSTAND THAT EVERYTHING IS A CHOICE ;
everything, and yes i mean everything, in life is a choice. how you choose to spend ur time, the relationship ur in, the job that you have, the friendships you entertain. everything. remember that you have free will, you don't HAVE to stay in something that drains you. you don't have to stay in something that keeps you small.
you have free will to not robotically do the same thing that everybody else is doing. i heard someone say once that everyday you wake up ur casting a vote for the life that you wanna have, and this resonated SO much with me. look at ur actions and look at what kind of vote their casting. is that the life that u wanna live? if not, tighten up.
LIVE FOR YOURSELF ;
what is ur life centered on? it shouldn't be centered on men, or your parents, or the opinions of others, or your age, but rather it should be centered on YOU. only when ur life is centered on you do you start living for yourself.
but living for yourself comes with something really important that you have to develop which is honesty, be HONEST with yourself. what are your dreams? what do u want out of life? what do you see for yourself? those are really scary questions but you need to know the answers. journal about it, think deeply about it because it's not just something that u can answer off the rip.
❤︎ you're the only person who gets to experience YOUR life, so stop living for others. it's YOUR life.
be HONEST. am i happy right now? am i choosing x over myself? am i living up to the standard i set for myself? being honest with yourself doesn't equate to being mean to yourself, but it just means that you're choosing to face the truth even if it's a hard pill to swallow -> so that you can live the life of your dreams.
HOT TIP ; i know this can be daunting, especially for the girlies like me with big dreams and ambitions... but the sooner you're honest about what you want, the sooner you can go after it fearlessly...💬🎀
SPEND SOME TIME ALONE ;
alone time is so so important. don't get me wrong, im a super social girl. i love to hang out with people and i will talk to literally anybody... but im also by myself 90% of the time. and while im by myself im analyzing things about myself.
how i manage my time, perfecting my craft, pursuing excellence... how i can get that much better. not because im competing with anyone but because i aim to outdo myself little by little every single day. when you're constantly around people, subconsciouslly your thinking the way you do because they do as well.
you adopt the mindset of those around you if ur not careful. when you're by yourself you really learn yourself and understand yourself on a different level. it's important to remember that you are all you have. so build a relationship with yourself!
MAKE YOUR OWN RULES ;
listen as long as ur not hurting anyone and ur doing ur own thing, do what you want!! im not saying that for u to go and break the law... ambitious girlies aren't dumb...but make your own trends. move on ur own accord and not for anyone's amusement.
