From Best Friends to Wives in 12 Increasingly Common Steps
More and more often, the following is happening to bored and frustrated women who are married to men.
They discuss with their best friend their husband’s declining adequacy as a lover. The typical pattern is that their husband once was mediocre or ok as a lover, but gradually came to care less and less about pleasing his wife. She rarely comes any more and has largely given up either making specific suggestions or tying to spice things with with sexy lingerie, role plays etc. They’re in a downward spiral.
The best friends tell each other they have to satisfy themselves, by jilling, and that they do jill quite often.
The wives admit that they look at internet porn while they jill. (Like most women, their favorite porn is lesbian porn. They start by looking straight porn and then realize that the girls, and girls making love, turn them on the most. At first they do this only occasionally, but soon most if not all of their internet searches are for lesbian porn. But they’re probably reluctant to admit it, even to their best friend. if they do, this can shorten the 12 steps dramatically.)
They start to discuss the jilling techniques and toys that they use. Their conversations grow more and more intimate and explicit.
They decide to watch porn and jill together. (If they watch lesbian porn together, they usually go straight to step 9. Moreover, much or most “straight” porn contains at least one lesbian scene, and if one of these scenes comes on while they’re watching porn together this can cause them to skip to step 9.)
They watch porn together and rub themselves through their clothing until they each come, more strongly and more times than ever before due to the presence of the other woman.
They watch porn together, either wearing underwear or naked, to make the jilling easy. And of course they come even more strongly (Sandy and Robin are pictured doing this, above).
They rub on each other until they each come. They also touch each other and kiss.
They make love, including oral love and possibly tribbing. Sometimes they justify this as not really cheating on their husband because 1. its with another girl, and 2. their husband isn’t doing his duty to them because he’s essentially abandoned caring about her sexual needs.
For each girl a lightbulb goes off in their head. They already know that, sexually, they’re much better off with the other woman as their partner. But at some point they realize that non-sexually, that overall, they’d also be better off and much happier with the other woman as their partner.
It often takes a lot of time and courage, and depends upon the status of any children they have, their finances, etc. But they finally decide to leave their husbands and move in together.
They divorce their husbands and marry each other.
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