if i donāt message back, itās not your fault. you are not bothering me.
if i donāt message back itās because
a) i didnāt see the message - This oneās pretty common. Notifications arenāt sent, I forget to check stuff, I close the message window before i see the message but after itĀ āarrivesā, Iām afk, etc. Iām not a busy person, I just miss a lot of messages.
b) i donāt know what to say - sometimes I just donāt know what to say. sorry.
c) iām having a hard time processing that you are, in fact, actually messaging me - or iām crying because excited but also nerves.
-youāre bothering me: if you were, iād say so
-i donāt want to talk to you: iām not a social person, iām better at doing the askbox thing than PMs, but if you message me, iāll message back eventually. unless youāre a porn bot or something.
-iām ignoring you: i donāt try to ignore people- if iām online (especially on Skype/Discord) I usually have sounds and notifications off. Skype itself is open in a different browser (download version crashes a lot), and Discord is usually minimized/closed if I have it on at all.
-anything to do with you: i honestly suck at the social/friend thing. just give it time.
feel free to PM me with anything. Questions, hugs, memes, just saying hi, Iāll talk about a lot of things if you want. If Iām not okay talking about/sharing, Iāll tell you.
I know Iām difficult to keep a conversation with. Iām sorry. Just please remember itās not you.
and please donāt apologize for messaging me or not messaging me. sometimes I take a while to message back, sometimes i miss the message and sometimes you take a while or miss the message. we are human beings. donāt apologize for it.
