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Hi everyone, just a tip here. If someone says it's a coping mechanism, remind them that coping mechanisms can be maladaptive. They are not exempt from being criticized. Someone can cope with anxiety by self harming. Hurting yourself or desensitizing yourself to harm to others is not justified by your useage.
As a fan of horror, its always good to resensitize yourself to how bad things are and be considerate of how others feel about things. If you realize you could probably see a corpse and be unaffected, you need to resensitize. Same with any dark or horrible thing. You need to be self aware.
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new theory: white queer ppl need problematic edgy kinks in their art to elevate it from mediocrity
also we have GOT to collectively come to terms with the fact that me or any other stranger online disliking or even making fun of something you like is not saying “no fun allowed” “no one can ever enjoy this” you have simply got to grow a spine and be able to like the shit you like. you don’t even have to defend it! like 90% of the media i really enjoy is divisive and half my friends actively hate it. i really don’t give a fuck though because i like it. you can write whatever you want! you’re allowed! even if it’s MY least favorite genre or style of writing and i have active distaste for it!
there is only one white boy in the movie project hail mary. 90 seconds into trawling the tag on here i learn that the fandom's solution to the terrible problem of not having two white boys to ship together is to ship him with the markiplier character from the iron lung movie. markiplier. they're shipping him with markiplier. with markiplier. markiplier. markiplier. they're shipping him with markiplier.
one of the most frustrating subgroups here is people who have made no attempt to curate a sense of taste and get threatened by and lash out at people who have. like its not enough for them to enjoy wildly successful mainstream media, they need to be able to enjoy it without ever feeling self conscious for this. and you can make them self conscious about it just by straightforwardly talking about your own subjective preferences for less broadly appealing works. i feel bad for them because if you can only like stuff as long as majority consensus said its good youre just hardlocking yourself out of 90% of media on the planet. must suck to feel like any complete stranger with a blog has the capacity to prevent you from enjoying the kind of art you like.
There's a recurring online tendency to aestheticize consensus itself. The imagined future village is full of emotionally compatible people who enjoy communal gardening, conflict resolution circles, acoustic folk music, mutual aid potlucks, and repairing bicycles together at sunset. Which is nice for the people who genuinely enjoy that lifestyle. But plenty of humans are solitary, prickly, obsessive, urban, nocturnal, sensory-seeking, technologically attached, contrarian, novelty-seeking, private, or just plain difficult. Those people do not evaporate after the revolution. They do not get Left Behind while you are Raptured into the Utopia. They become your neighbors.
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The term "radqueer" is so funny to me because when you hear it for the first time you might think it refers to politically radical queer people, like anarchists or something
BUT NO it's just a bunch of people who think that their desire to fuck children and corpses somehow makes them queer.
Ig the term map became too stigmatized. They'll just keep cycling through terms forever I fear.
Ik that you can't control having a paraphilia, and I don't believe in thought crimes, but you have to fully recognize that it would be immortal to ever act on, costume explicit content of, or even talk about in a way that portrays the action as positive. If you can't do that you need professional help. The second it's more than a thought in any capacity it is harmful.
I just found out through Pinterest that proshippers have made up these characters called proship Chan, Comship Chan and Anti Chan. Proship Chan and Comship Chan are as white as possible where as Anti Chan is very obviously black. I've come across multiple pieces of 'art' involving PC and CC assaulting AC.
The racism is not lost on me. Proshippers are so fucking vile. I'm furious
Me too
The reason that leftists can’t get anyone to mask even a little bit is because people care more about looking hot than being nice or woke. I literally don’t think an appeal to morals or rationality basically ever works in any situation like. At all. But especially not here. Your only real option is to make people feel part of an exclusive and desirable club. I think people just have to halt production on Infographics and focus everyone’s energy on getting hunter schaefer or Sophie thatcher or charli or even Addison Rae to be photographed in an n95
White privilege laid bare.
something something gender. AZ, a man, valuing his want to see Floette, a woman, over her autonomy and ultimately choosing a fate for her that she had no say in. he stole her death, her natural role in the world. Eternal Flower Floette is in the undiscovered egg group, i.e. she’s infertile. I doubt her coloration and rare flower are the reason for her infertility, given the implications that the black flower was more common in ancient times and she’s the sole survivor of an ancient variant rather than a completely unique pseudo-mythical. since Floette cannot evolve due to her death and unnatural resurrection, I wonder if she is infertile for the same reason. meaning that that’s another thing AZ took from her
Fuuuck I just loss 20000 dollars in adverisement revenue and potential sales when that guy over there didn’t look at my flyer because he was talking to the girl he was walking with. The sensible option here is to ban talking while walking since it’s literally theft.
a couple of people in the tags of that post i made earlier are talking about masking and although obviously masking is a very real thing a lot of autistic people have to do to get through their day, i think framing any and all attempts to meet other people where they're at interpersonally as masking is pretty unhelpful and has some bad implications.
if we say that caring about other peoples preferences for how they want to be treated or spoken to or thinking of social interaction as more than just a potential opportunity to info dump count as "masking", then we're essentially presenting a version of reality where autistic people are innately self centered and any effort that is put in to not be that way is Hiding part of yourself or otherwise inauthentic. but i don't think that's true at all.
and importantly it's not like The Neurotypicals get to act exactly like they want with no consequences in social interactions either! everyone has to put the effort in to treat each other decently. there is no person on the planet who can just speak to everyone around them exactly as they're inclined to with no consideration or effort and end up with a bunch of healthy mutually fulfilling interpersonal relationships that way. everyone needs to put the work in. its just harder for some than others.