Refusal to Assimilate to Elsbachâs Stereotypes
There is no denying that stereotypes exist.  It is a fact.  We make hundreds, if not hundreds of thousands, of minute, mostly unconscious judgments about other people every day.  Piggy backing on the psychology heuristics presented to us in class, it makes sense that humans would naturally infer certain characteristics about others based on look, fashion, voice, smell, race, hair color, you name it.  These heuristics, in a perfect world, would help us identify who we want to be friends with, date, work with or invest in, and, according to Kimberly Elsbachâs âHow to Pitch a Brilliant Ideaâ need to be embraced.  In fact, she goes on further to say that there are only three groups of people that investors will want to invest in, and that we should strive to be in one of these groups if we should ever hope to have a fruiting and successful future.
What a bunch of garbage.
People may make subconscious and conscious decisions about me every day, and lump me into stereotype groups. In fact, as an educated, upper middle class white male who grew up in the suburbs, attended a state school and served in the US armed forces, Iâd say that I fit into several stereotyped groups. Â BUT, oh boy, wait for it: if I am not a âneophyteâ, âshowrunnerâ or âartist,â then I donât stand much chance at raising funding for my startup, according to Ms. Elsbach.
Whelp, Iâm here to prove her wrong. Â I was told when I was in middle school that I was too small to be on the wrestling team, yet I earned varsity letters all three years. Â My college advisor told me that I was ânot smart enough to be an engineer,â and yet I qualified as Chief Engineering Officer in the worldâs most prestigious nuclear operations entity. Â And I canât begin to count the number of folks who said that my test scores were too low to get into a top MBA program, yet I am succeeding at MIT Sloan.
You see, Ms. Elsbach, nobody fits a stereotype exactly, nor should we ever strive to be in one. People are individuals, and the personal traits that differentiate us from one another are what make us special, unique, and enrich the life experience for all. Â And, although it may get you more money or further ahead in life to play into the stereotype that you are born into, isnât this exactly the culture that future business leaders should be combating? Â My personal standards are higher than this, and I refuse to sell my dignity and personality in exchange for working capital.














