I’m back. For an hour or so.
and yeah, just a heads-up, this is a callout post if you don’t like seeing that. and because the pictures might look small, here’s a link to see them better (they’re not in order sorry lmao. the skype posts are first instead of second)
so i’m gonna take a wild fucking guess and say that most of you figured out that i tried to make a return to the TMNT fandom anonymously on @oldhcb under a different name. i did this for a reason. i also hope you guys realize there’s a reason you lost track of my roleplay blogs, and a reason why i won’t be handing out my main rp blog at the moment.
since there’s like. 20 of you who are regularly active, most of you have heard one side of this story already. miles (@tenderborn) has probably told most of you this:
also before you guys go pointing fingers, the screenshots were not sent to me by the person who took them, and they have asked me to not name them in this post. i got them from someone else, but if miles wants to call them out by name then that’s on him.
instead of taking either biased side, here’s actual screenshots of the skype conversation/s that miles and i had regarding his crush on me.
the following message was sent quite a while after the first few, when i was having some conflicting feelings about a girl who had kissed me.
(the word “crush” is highlighted because i had to search for the messages lmao)
though i politely turned miles down and tried to brush it off, what bothered me about the first few was that miles’ main concern was not the fact that we were, at the time, four years apart in age, (i was 16 and he was 20. i’m now 17, but that doesn’t make me any more comfortable) but that i don’t like guys.
along with that, he confessed to me quite a while later that he might still have romantic feelings for me and told me i was desirable. before he sent this (the message is pretty personal which is why it isn’t there) i had essentially told him that i was confused by this girl’s actions because in the past, i hadn’t been seen as a desirable person by any gender. he then proceeds to tell me that i’m desirable by people much older than me.
along with that, miles has, without fail, followed me on nearly every blog i’ve made afterwards, regardless of how well the two fandoms would mix together. i stopped promoting my new blogs because of this, as he followed me from TMNT to FNAF to overwatch to a few other places i stayed for a short time.
i purposefully stopped talking to him because continuing our conversations made me feel uncomfortable. to my knowledge, we had calmly cut our ties and neither of us would have to deal with the other again. when i returned to the TMNT fandom, i had a new set of rules (which i’ve been using on my new blogs) with this particular rule:
while this angered miles in the screenshots above, i made this rule for my personal comfort and safety on ALL of my blogs, not just the ones where he was in the fandom.
after asking her, envy (@severitus) agreed to let me mention her here. she knew about my discomfort with the situation long before my return to the fandom and agrees that miles’ behavior toward me and my blogs has been rather creepy. she has also called out miles for lesbophobic posts:
[7:26:12 PM] ᴀᴠʀɪʟ ʟᴇ-ғᴜᴄᴋʙᴏɪ ʟᴀᴠɪɢɴᴇ ( Envy / TC ): you can mention me, yeah
i HAVE called Miles out for a lesbophobic post before, which he'd deliberately posted AFTER i posted about me re: loving girls' selfies due to being gay
[7:26:29 PM] ᴀᴠʀɪʟ ʟᴇ-ғᴜᴄᴋʙᴏɪ ʟᴀᴠɪɢɴᴇ ( Envy / TC ): his post had gone along the lines of "why can't everyone be pan and flexible like me", which i'd IMMEDIATELY called him out on
[7:42:50 PM] ᴀᴠʀɪʟ ʟᴇ-ғᴜᴄᴋʙᴏɪ ʟᴀᴠɪɢɴᴇ ( Envy / TC ): “Hey, about the "I’m pansexual and why is everyone cute and not pan/flexible like me” post…that’s kind of homophobic, you’re suggesting it’s bad to not be pan (“flexible”) when gay people have to deal with “sexuality is fluid” rhetoric from even straight people. I felt really uncomfortable seeing that when it first crossed my dash, and felt I needed to say something.“
[7:43:49 PM] ᴀᴠʀɪʟ ʟᴇ-ғᴜᴄᴋʙᴏɪ ʟᴀᴠɪɢɴᴇ ( Envy / TC ): if it helps, he claimed that the tumblr message i'd sent him on anon ( because i was scared of retaliation ) was eaten, so i'd had to text him the message instead. take that as you will.
while i will admit that i should have confronted him directly when this began to really bother me, miles still flirted with and followed a minor with full knowledge of their age. no, i’m not saying he’s some sexual deviant, but this is still not good.
i know this is going to stir up a hell of a lot of drama, so i’ll stay here for a bit if you guys wanna ask me anything i guess. i’ll likely be abandoning or deactivating hob’s blog soon, and after i’m done here, i won’t be returning to the TMNT rp community.
