Life

Rants and random shit

[bedazzl3]

Im on season 7 and brick looks like he shaved a beard/growing a beard 😭😭

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[bedazzl3]

No meaning of life

Life is just a endless cycle.

Everyday

Wake up, Breakfast, School/work, Go home, Clean house, dinner, Some screentime (tv, phone, ps, nintendo, etc) shower, sleep.

Its a endless cycle of listening What people say and having to do What they say for the rest of youre life.

School -> listen to teachers

Home -> listen to parents

Work -> listen to somoene in a higher position

Everyday, listen to somoene and do exactly as they said or they’ll be consequences. Everyday for the rest of youre life not having freedom from doing What you want, the only way to escape being death. Everywhere you go, you Gotta listen to somoene and do as they say. EVERYWHERE, By the time you get home for freedom youre tired. Listening to youre body and going to sleep.

I dont wanna be controlled or listen to What people say Till i die but the only way to escape is ruthless, its scary, its “selfish”.

Nothing really has a meaning or goal, everything feels off, What do you mean i have to do this the rest of my life? My whole life? Till there comes a end? Even with freedom, What do you do? With freedom nothing has a point, nothing means anything. Scrolling on TikTok/insta/youtube endlessly for nothing. Doing youre hobbies for nothing. For a little pleasing feeling but it has nothing else to it.

Not only that- you do What youre body wants, not what you want. Body is tired? You sleep, body is energetic? You sport, body feels social? You go out, body is Hungry? You eat. Youre just a soul in a body, in a world where you get no say. You dont own the body, the body owns you.

Tbf i dont know how to Explain this feeling Cuz its deeper than “listening to somoene for the rest of youre life and having no freedom” like.. for the rest of youre life? Till you die? Youre whole life? Nobody ever thought about this? Even with freedom its just wrong.

[bedazzl3]

Frankie heck - the middle

So for those who dont know, Frankie heck is a character in the series “the middle” (on Netflix) she is the mother of 3 children and a wife. She has a poor family.

So we all know that Frankie has like a temper and is emotional. If you think about it, Frankie is really one of those famous people getting canceled, remember that Halloween ep when she egged Rita’s house with sue and then ran after her like a crazy woman, when she kinda like attacked the mailman, or when she had a full on break down on christmas night because all the photo’s were deleted. Yeah, she would get so canceled for being “dramatic” or for “harrassing” and many other stuff, but because we see things on her Side of the story, What she thought, how she is, why she did it, people kind of understand her or feel bad. Its just crazy that if somoene else irl did these stuff people wouldnt even care about a ‘story’ and straight up make the other person’s life a living hell. Watching series or hearing out other people’s thoughts always makes me think on how it wouldve been if no one knew or listened.

[bedazzl3]

“If there is no punishment from killing people, What would stop people from doing so?”

That argument is the most dumb thing i ever heard in my life

So for the people that dont get it, Some Christians have a argument that basically says if atheists dont believe in God, they dont believe there is “hell” that there is a “punidhment” from killing somoene, so they would just do it.

Like hello? Morality is stopping them, the law is stopping them, its common sense not to kill somoene and that its bad unless you are mentally crazy or something. I mean if you need a God to TELL you dont kill people then there are bigger problems Here buddy.. like youre implying if that YOU didnt believe in God you would kill somoene because there is ‘no’ punishment.

Look im al about religion Alright, I got nothing against Christians, Jesus or God but that argument is just stupid and isnt talked abt enough. Luckily i dont hear/see that sentence seriously being used in arguments.

[bedazzl3]

Clear skin

Okey since I am starting to break out, were gonna hand out Some tips.

Btw whatever i say dont take it tooooo seriously Cuz i did 0 research, like anything i say on this page comes with 0 research. I am NOT a trusted source😭✌️I just talk from experience and What I know/logical solution/common sense

- skincare

This one is obvi, i mean skincare for clear skin but get the right skincare, why you buying things for dry face when you have a oily face, like buy the right thing for youre face

- face masks

Like lit any face mask, that thing for under Eyes, that black face mask, self made, food, jelly, just anything Thats good for youre face atp

- stop touching youre face

Youre hands are full with bacteria, stop touching youre face or let anything else touch it.

- drink water

Like actually stay hydrated and also Eat Good stuff instead of junk food.

- dont stress

I know everyone says these stuff but srsly, get a bit organized, get everything done, dont stress, relax, meditate, take a nap, get the stress gone

- dont wear much make up

Im talking from experience, before I started make up I was barely breaking out and now im breaking out Alot, like every week I got smt on my face.

- shaving

Dont dry shave or wet shave youre face, use shaving crème or dont shave at al and use crème

- products

For the love of God dont waste money on products especially expensive products. Look if you already have skincare use it, use products yes but make sure they are worth it, dont buy Some €200 worth of Some stupid creme because you saw it on TikTok. I dont buy products, i only use the things i have now and my skin isnt bad, its not clear but Its not al covered in acne, i just have a few acne scars near my forehands and Thats it.

- water

Make sure to wash youre face, like seriously wash it good. Water is the most important things when it comes to acne, hygiëne or anything. Stay hydrating and clean but dont wash youre face TOO much Cuz then youre skin produces more oils n such. I personally just do at morning and Sometimes throughout the day if my face feels dirty

[bedazzl3]

Dont care

Its always better to be nonchalant, not get involved and not care in situations. If you do that you Will always get What you want and need, only prioritize What you want and need and dont care about others, im not saying be selfish or dont do favors. Let me give you a example

You have a old friend and to convince her that you dont care about her anymore or that youre doing better you dont cut her off or add her to youre private story, you dont do anything. You just leave it be. You might think cutting contact and removing them is showing you dont care but no, doing that shows you think about them and they bother you. What you Gotta do is nothing. You dont care, you dont remember them, so dont do anything. if they text you, be casual, be dry, be nonchalant, “oh you wanna hang out” “no im hanging with others” and leave the Convo short, show them you dont really wanna talk to them that much. Dont put time energy and life in people you wanna move on on, that also means targeted reposts, posts and stories

Not only act like you dont care, you shouldnt care. If you act like you forgot about them, then actually forget and live youre life.

[bedazzl3]

Ohmygod?

I love Layla 🥹🩷

[bedazzl3]

Okey Guys What the best lip combo yall got for somoene with small lips and thin lips 😭😭

[1111angelgirl1111]

post winter break depression

[bedazzl3]

Studying

Studying comes in various ways. I read somewhere that if you write What you read/heard you’ll remember it, and it did work. I study easy, I read What I need to know and then summarize What I remember, highlight the important things and then im actually good to go. I love having a good photographic memory. I feel like this way is the best and fastest way, i mean im also a good reader and remember you wont remember What to write if you dont read it out loud. You Gotta focus on whats written instead of reading in youre head and dozing off while doing so. Well im off to go, make sure to study hard and good. If you notice youre method of Studying doesnt work, dont waste time and get bad grades, change it “but I dont know how!!” Search it up, on TikTok they got a whole ‘community’ for it and Alot of methods, tips and videos for it, also they have a community on Tumblr too but i think Thats just Posts abt their easthetic n stuff instead of how to study, not sure I just glanced at it i didnt really read it but make sure to check it out.

[free-my-mindd]

Forgive yourself

[bedazzl3]

Feminism

This is just a random information rant thingy idk. Its just like a essay about sexism, Feminism and Misandry.

Feminism is when men and woman have equal rights and are treated equally

Feminism is big these days, most countries gave woman the equal right and Some also didnt but Feminism also fights for a girl in a family who never let her go to school because she was to “dumb” and had to stay home to clean, Feminism also fights for a girl in a family who never let her go out with her friends because “woman are supposed stay inside the house”

Sexism is when men see themselves superior than woman, when men had more rights than woman. Such as earning more money. In sexism men see woman as a lower life form who exist to serve men and have no purpose other than cook, clean and do whatever What a man says. All those years back if a woman wasnt married she was thrown on streets and have no worth, Thats also why in islam youre allowed to have 4 wives because you were supposed to take care of them and keep them away from the street. The 4 wives thing was to protect women.

Misandry is when woman see themselves superior than men, most woman participate in misandry to get back at men for sexism. Woman dont care about men’s feelings and hate on them merely for just being men, misandry never had a real affect like having laws that go against men for example.

The funny part is, a man can be a misandrist and a woman can be a sexist. Both going against their own gender. Nowadays Alot of misandrist woman are loved By social media but sexism still exists in laws and families.

If you said on social media/public audience that woman have to cook and clean you would get bashed and doxxed and maybe even threatened.

If you said on social media/public audience that man are worthless and do nothing in this world than you would most likely get praised but also get a bit hate for youre crazy statement. Some do get doxxed/threatened but I see that rarely happen, like almost never. Well actually I never saw/heard it happen but it probably does happen.

If you said on social media/public audience that you think that both gender deserve equal rights than you would most likely have people agreeing with you but get a bit of hate from the sexists.

Misandry is very overlooked and everyone ignores it and brushes it off as Jokes, Some people even say that it doesnt even exist because it doesnt have a history like sexism does. The arguments against that are that Misandry is making its history now, and that Misandry can get worse as sexism. Men do the same thing about sexism, saying its just Jokes not knowing how much suffering Some woman went through because once upon a time those “Jokes” were reality and stil is in Some countries. Nobody really ignores Misandry and nobody brushes it off as Jokes. Alot of people take it serious and take it to the heart. Its even a sensitive topic for Some. A misandrist and a sexist dont try to defend their own gender, theyre trying to put down the other gender. Feminism believen whatever a man can do, a woman can do that too. Feminism started from women/men protesting against sexist laws, wanting equal laws for al genders possible and wanting women to have free wil

Personally the thing that annoys me the most is missndry, I know, weird. Its supposed to be sexism but Misandry genuinely gets on my nerves in a way no one can. What annoys you the moet?

[oncce-againn]

what's not meant for you will disappoint you in a thousand ways until you understand

[raintosun]

[bedazzl3]

Change

If you think abt it, change really doesnt exist, in Some cases yes.

People changing

People dont really change unless if they really want to, you cant convince somoene to change their opinion, lifestyle or mindset unless they are actually dedicated, Some people cant change even if they want. “Oh i just debated with a sexist they’ll change” no they wont. No one wil change even if you show them how bad their opinions n such are, even if you bring physical proof. They live with that mindset and changing a mindset is incredibly hard. Its literally What you think, if you try to change What you think Deep down you’ll always have that little voice from before trying to change. Changing youre own mind is gaslighting yourself, you know youre truth and you know its true, trying to believe its false is almost impossible, in my experience and mind atleast.

Physical change is something else- physical change is easy. If you feel insecure about youre clothes, go buy new ones, dont like youre hair? Try a different hairstyle. Of course Sometimes changing physical is not easy by being short on money, illnesses and laziness but stil possible, the only thing it wil take is time. Even with natural features, Get a surgery, no money? Work harder and if you have no money then i think you have bigger problems than physical appearance.

I mean, change does exist yes, but its almost impossible and in Some cases possible, even if you change, you’ll stil have the old you within you waiting to come back. You can go around saying “i changed, i dont __ anymore” but did you really? Do you stil think it? Want it? Or make excuses to do it and say it doesnt count? You can make people think you changed By not doing it but in youre own head you didnt change.

[bedazzl3]

Arguments and mind

First i wanna start with i got my phone back, only for school so ye Lets get started

Arguments moet of the time never work, logical or emotional, Some people just dont change their mind. You could be arguing with a sexist and make incredibly good points but it just doesnt work for them, even if something is bad like its common sense its bad, Some people are just wired that way. No matter how good you argue, Some people just dont. Whats the point of arguing then? Arguing for fun? They never listen, like whatever you do their point stands, bad and good ones. You could say i am sort of one of those people in Some subjects, but in reality its infuriating. Youre gonna think like that for the rest of youre life? Arguing with them doesnt change them, it just gets them angry and provoke them to do more of What they are doing

So instead of arguing with people, trying to prove points. Go out and live youre life because nobody wil ever understand or change.