bee

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

this time i'll be stronger

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

I'm really happy your life is moving forward. I'm proud of you too.

But my heart can't forget all the worry you caused me.

[cutecipher]

science has always been political. what gets studied. what doesnt. who gets to do the studying. on and on and on.

[cutecipher]

scientists on this post: yuuuup 👍

people who aren't scientists: um actually ☝️

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

did all the teenage girls who got sold to one direction end up on the island?

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

am I agender? I'm confused...

I'm afab and socially I present as female. I don’t really mind it and I like typically feminine stuff, and I don't like explaining my gender identity to anyone I don't know very closely.

However, I just don't get the concept of gender. How is someone supposed to feel feminine or masculine or something else like non binary? (not saying that that's not valid, I get that gender is very important to many people and I respect that). I personally don't feel any connection to the concept of gender.

That said, I kinda feel like my feelings are invalid because I don't experience any kind of dysphoria regarding being labeled as female. I just don't care.

Additionally, I'm autistic, so half the time I don't even relate to most people and their weird social categories and I feel like gender is just one of those. But does that make me someone with a female gender identity who's just processing it through the lense of autism? I haven't figured that out.

Anybody else in a similar position?

[goth-queen]

[godspeedyoublackemperor]

childaborting hips

[sad-gay-loser]

“But a cat couldn’t do cuts that straight!” God forbid my cat is a perfectionist 🙏

[wendydoodles]

Sketch based on one of the pics I took seeing The Midnight in concert. They're one of my favorite bands and it was so amazing to see them live!💜✨

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

the worst thing ever (not really) is being absolutely obsessed with something that is not really popular to the point that no memes, edits or any fan content exists. My mind is cannibalizing itself because there's no outlet for my obsession. Somebody help please

[youre-only-gay-once]

"you can use ai to improve spelling and grammar"

[purgaytorysupremacy]

if you’re wondering why spellcheck and grammar check is worse now, it’s because they replaced it with AI! 🥰

now, instead of maintaining a comprehensive, nuanced, and human-maintained encyclopedia by which to check your document, they have switched to an AI that just compares what you’ve written to what other people write in, say, Google Docs, and use the most commonly used iteration.

ever have it change something like “all intents and purposes” to “all intensive purposes” or “should’ve” to “should of”? that’s why!

people make the same spelling and grammar mistakes so often, AI thinks that’s the way you say it because it is a PATTERN DETECTOR and cannot THINK let alone use language.

[youre-only-gay-once]

"you can use ai to improve spelling and grammar"

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

i have this compulsive disorder where I need to talk about my absolutely massive dingdong 30 seconds into having a conversation with random guys

[hopegrasping]

Let go of the idea that diy will inherently look shit. All your clothes are handmade you just don't see the people doing it.

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

I think there’s way too much emphasis on coming out.

My best friend since I was 4 doesn’t know I’m gender queer. She roughly knows I’m aroace (or at least; completely uninterested in dating at all ever possibly also a lesbian) she wouldn’t care if I was, I’m not scared to tell her, I just don’t see the point.

Some of my best friends think I’m bisexual, or just not interested.

Most people think I’m cis

Is it a little annoying to be thought of as “straight” or “bisexual”? Sure. But I’m not breaking down over it personally

Is it a little annoying to be only referred to as she/her? Sure. But I’m so masc looking in clothing and “speech” (apparently) that it balances.

If someone asks I’ll probably tell them.

I had so much pressure on me when I was in high school to come out as XYZ. And it’s bullshit.

I just think this “you have to come out” shit needs to die. I’m just out here vibing and being myself. It’s the best thing ever.

I’m here and I’m queer, I personally don’t feel the need to shout about my identity. I exist, my identity exists and will always exist. My existence is proof of my identity enough.

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

it's such a weird feeling as a wlw to look at pictures of female celebrities clearly meant to be "sexy" but in what can be best described as an offensively male gaze-y way

like

you know she's sexually attractive to you and

you know the pic is clearly meant to showcase her sex appeal

but somehow when you look at the picture at hand it feels wrong?

[robiberon]

i like to think that eowyn and arwen would be besties

[lilyhandmaiden]

They would bond over the sentiment "Gondorians are weird," albeit coming at it from two different directions. Arwen would help Éowyn hone her Sindarin and archery skills. Éowyn would teach Arwen all the best human swears.

[beeeeeeeeeeeeez]

I think I'm gonna make a witch king of angmar mask and bedazzle it with rhinestones