ridhima

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Intro

Hiiii!!!!! I'm Ridhima | She/Her | Desi | Lesbian | Rock and Metal Lover| Taken| Men DNI| 18

Donate to Palestine!!! Facts:

I LOVE MUSIC!!!!!! Favourite artists and bands include pantera a perfect circle , buckethead, darkthrone, xasthur, morbid angel, bathory, celtic frost, dissection , ministry, invertia etc….

I love watching lesbian and sapphic movies and content, my favourite movies are desert hearts , benedetta, portrait of a lady on fire, colette, ammonite, the world to come, my first summer, Badhaai Do, Love/Juice, Ride or die, Handmaiden, Bound

Taken by the best girl >-< (@czx-kwie)

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I love food and sleep

I like to do math sometimes

I LOVE CATS

MEN DNI

thats all :D

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STROKE: Remember The 1st Three Letters… S.T..R … My friend sent this to me and encouraged me to post it and spread the word. I agree. If everyone can remember something this simple, we could save some folks. STROKE IDENTIFICATION: During a party, a friend stumbled and took a little fall - she assured everyone that she was fine and just tripped over a brick because of her new shoes. (they offered to call ambulance) They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food - while she appeared a bit shaken up, Ingrid went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening. Ingrid’s husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the hospital - (at 6:00pm , Ingrid passed away.) She had suffered a stroke at the party . Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Ingrid would be with us today. Some don’t die. They end up in a helpless, hopeless condition instead. It only takes a minute to read this… STROKE IDENTIFICATION: A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke…totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, which is tough. RECOGNIZING A STROKE Remember the ‘3’ steps, STR . Read and Learn! Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke. Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions : S * Ask the individual to SMILE .. T * = TALK. Ask the person to SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently) (eg ‘It is sunny out today’). R * Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS . If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call the ambulance and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher. NOTE : Another ‘sign’ of a stroke is 1. Ask the person to ‘stick’ out their tongue. 2. If the tongue is ‘crooked’, if it goes to one side or the other that is also an indication of a stroke. A prominent cardiologist says if everyone who gets this e-mail sends it to 10 people; you can bet that at least one life will be saved. And it could be your own.

First reblog post that actually saves a fucking life.

This is a life-saving post.

the more you know

yeah don’t think that this can’t happen to you or someone you know if they’re young. my cousin’s wife is 33 and she had a stroke last year

I’ve had a stroke. It happens to people, and the more you know about this kind of stuff, the better.Because it could be important to know.

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its crazy how as i see more and more dark ambient art , on pinterest on tumblr, the amount of times some of those things feel so nostalgic, i have pictured the exact scenarios in my dreams as a child, it feels so comforting and nostalgic, i wanna be there..

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like genuinely

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A Compilation of Palestinians to Donate To

As you all are aware, this blog explicitly stands with Palestine during the yet ongoing genocide done by Israel. Because I've made my stance clear, several Palestinians on Tumblr have reached out to me to help spread their campaigns and get them aid. I've tracked down verifications for as many as i could, and will list them all here with links and update this list should another be sent in.

I cannot stress this enough. As of writing this, the siege on Gaza has been happening for almost a year. Most non-profit organizations at this point have incredibly limited reach in the area (if they still have any at all), and thus the most surefire way of helping is via sending money directly to those impacted. If you for whatever reason doubt the legitimacy of a campaign listed here, I humbly request you keep it to yourself. I cannot decide for you what you do with your money, but I can ask of you that you have respect for people struggling and be considerate.

@kareem-family2 GoFundMe link €10,285/€20,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #283

@abedalazeiz GoFundMe link €36,220/€90,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost

@dinamahammed99 GoFundMe link $5,795/$15,000 Verified by association to @mahmoud1995 (source 1 | source 2)

@mahmoud1995 GoFundMe link $15,011/$50,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost

@ashraf-baker5 GoFundMe link €22,863/€25,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost

@hamdishiltawi GoFundMe link €1,857/€20,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #285

@atalah-mohammed GoFundMe link €16,594/€82,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost

@samerpal GoFundMe link kr138,493/kr450,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #196

@karamalmadhoun0 GoFundMe link €17,037/€20,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #109

@danaghaith GoFundMe link $7,682/$60,000 Found on the blog of @/90-ghost

@alhabil GoFundMe link €29,140/€50,000 Found on the Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser List #166

@springbutterfly37 GoFundMe link $1,958/$45,000 NOTE: This fundraiser appears to have been verified by association, however most evidence of this has been lost to blog deactivation. A brief reverse image search of the blog's photos came up clean.

@abedallhferwanagaza GoFundMe link €5,502/€35,000 NOTE: According to this post, this fundraiser has been vetted by a Telegram user by the name of Femme Intifada. I am unfamiliar with this person, and have no knowledge of their validity as a vetter.

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HAPPOPYYYTYYY LESBIAN VISIBILTY WEEK AUAIAIAIAIWIA WOHOOOOOOOOO🧡🧡🧡 🧡🧡🧡🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷TO ALL THE DYKES ON MY PUTER AND ALL MY FRENSSSSSS!!!!

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PSA: FOR ALL DESIBLR GIRLS AND BOYS AND EVERYONE IN BETWEEN

Ok I'm going to keep most of this in english so that maximum people understand but i may slip in hindi here and there. 

I am honestly fucking tired. Mentally drained and emotionally unstable. Yes I've got a lot of health issues that is true but you know what exacerbates them. Creepy men here. And no the solution ain't keep your dms close. Because the real ones know creepy people first make friendship and then coyly asks you nasty stuff and then you are in a dilemma whether is this normal or not. Im sure there must be creepy girls as well but this post is mine and i am telling my experience. Y'all can add yours to this if you want. (Edit: I've just heard some harrowing tales of creepy women so yeah they exist too) 

I've been here for around 11 years i was in kpop tumblr then langblr, blblr, bookblr and finally from past 5 months in desiblr. But desiblr have left me perturbed. I had my dms open at first and oh lord the number of creepy people asking me indecent questions were so much. So i closed my dms. I found some cool boy tumblrs but the more i talked to them the more i realised how fucking manipulative they can be. Asking for a sext or a pic. And on top of that if you are having a civil conversation about intimacy or sex they take it the other way round as an invitation to sex. When will peoples brain develop that you can talk about taboo topics without getting aroused urgh. And no you creepy idiots, if a woman is comfortable around you and does talk about taboo topics they do not want to sext or do a "video call". 

But, puja aachi ghar ki ladkiya don't talk about such things and especially about sex and lust so openly you totally deserve what happened to you. You are a hoe. 

Ok. Im a whore. What next. I admit im a sleezy slut. Then. Consent nahi samajh aata logo ko? Jab i have said NO openly with all my demeanor why do men have a problem understanding that. 

Its difficult to even be a open bisexual person here. Maximum dms are about asking me for a threesome or that they can un-gay me. (Seriously wtf does that even mean) I no longer am comfortable in saying im bi cause I've either got idiots thirsting on me or other idiots asking me how the dynamics work in a condescending jokey manner. 

In these past few months, I've had the urge to destroy and delete this account because of men. But, I've got good men as my best friends who tell me to not give the power and remote control to them. I owe my digital existence and survival to them. Thank you. @natkhat-sa-shyam and @ansh-18

As a SA survivor, I cannot help but feel like I must save everyone. I really want this post to resonate with young girls especially girls who are no longer minor but are still young in the age bracket of 19-21. I'm not calling you all fools but i can see how sleazy men manipulate you. How they act as cool figures but then act differently on chat. Y'all want a cool partner and boyfriend and search those positions in them. Maybe you do maybe you don't. But the truth is this is not a place to make relationships. The online world is predatory. You will say puja but you are a hypocrite you met your gf here then why stop us. Im not stopping anyone. Im just reminding you all to tread carefully. Never worship anyone here blindly (not even a women) just because they make sad sloppy jokes or spam you or you find yourself in their online persona. That's right a persona. Everyone here is playing a role. No one is 100% authentic. After all why would anyone be themselves completely when they've got a whole ground to be anyone. Sounds motivational right. Well even manipulator, narcissists and evil people think the same. 

Idk what has got me but one thing is true i forbid myself to be scared from these men. As my block list increases i attain more peace. Communicate with men, be friends with them, enjoy their company but always beware of any outlier action or manipulation. 

Ok, enough of bad talk. I am not a man-hater, trust me, it's just I've had experiences with them. I want to appreciate the good people here as well. I've met my gf here, my best friend here, my well-wishers here, and truly some good friends who are always ready to hear me rant. I owe my tumblr to them. 

May we all receive good people and good aura through our entire life. 

Yours truly,

Puja 

PERSONAL IS POLITICAL 

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I'm tagging my lovely people here~ 

@viscabarcaviscacatalunya10 @natkhat-sa-shyam @ansh-18 @viraah @bingobango9 @czx-kwie @tooferaltobeheard @icanttellyoueverything @lutt-le-gaya @paneer-with-benefits @yearnerray @sparksfromhell @amar-hiyar-majhe @3amtokyo @aamtreeanalogy @kool-kards @love-laugh-daydreamarevolt @detectingeagle310 @gamla-nahi-vase @incrediblysaltyfable @seeerat @nazuk-kali @sheilakijawaanii @aaru-aaruji @im-too-messy @leherology @shatbhisha @hands-off-my-dinosaur @seqcrux

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I have listened to this an unhealthy amount of times now