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The world is nothing but a pure blur in which people around add up to the complexity of life. People will always find a way to swerve your chances, undo your certain decision and replace them with inconsistencies. People will always find a way to confuse you. Sometimes, they will start putting words into your mouth. They will force you to listen to their phrases yet won’t even lend an ear if it is your turn already. It is quite unfair but most people had always been selfish to the extent that they ended up dictating your faith and force your heart to beat in their own pattern. The world will never be perfect; it’s far from possibility because the world has always been poisoned by manipulating words and a pair of hands from people who won’t accept criticism.

People who have lived with this toxicity will always be the definition of people who will constantly promise you to meet you halfway but won’t show up as expected. People who will shout that their doors are closed and you’re frankly unwelcome when you’re just about to knock. People who will constantly bring you their dark clouds because they cannot handle it alone then blame you for their rains. They are the people who will always keep their walls high so their opinions are the only things that will bounce back to their walls and it will be the only sentiments that will echo and will matter to them. They are the people who will embrace their belief way too tightly and hush the ones that are contradicting to them instead of listening to them as well. These people will always be closed-minded to the point that toxicity will take the greatest parts of them until they run out of reasons to be just and moral. And just as much as they should reopen some spots of them to see the point of others, align and assess the difference and understand what really matters most without considering personal egos, they still preferred to take what they think will give them the satisfaction of superiority.

The ability of people to manipulate became a reason why a certain situation remains stagnant, with no spark of hope and reconciliation. It divides everybody from living harmoniously as they tend to suggest that building higher platforms and silencing the rest will make them louder and greater.

And the best thing that we are left to do is to just leave everything that we felt like was just leaving stings and stains to our beliefs. We ended up contemplating the process of leaving the table when one-sided opinion became the only thing that mattered. It is silent brutality to manipulate and to discourage a collaborative exchange of thoughts. And that toxicity is contagious and the only thing you could do to save yourself from this is to pluck up the courage and just leave what deserves to be left behind.

It will be the greatest sign of relief. Subtracting your circle with people who only did nothing to contagion you with their crab mentality is the best thing to clutch. Avoiding toxic people is more like eradicating bad pollution in your air and at that moment, you will realize that you are now breathing such fresh air that is enough to give you a clear chest to breathe in. Sometimes, walking away is the only bravest thing left for you to do because it is the only way to save yourself out from a bad equation. You cannot force people to understand you, but at least, open yourself to understand them. Or if things are assessed to be getting worse, always take the courage to leave the area when words seemed to be floating only on the surface. Leave people who shout right into your face the opinions you should follow while rejecting your thoughts. Leave the ones who only see your mistakes and overuse it to grow that power against you. Leave those who will never ask for your insights after, those who think so little of you and those who don’t and will never open their hearts to see what really matters and what should be discussed eagerly and keenly to come up with the betterment of the majority. Never allow them to constantly ruin your life by allowing their tints to expand widely overtime until it takes you up entirely.

This is the biggest step that should be taken and that it is sad how we tend to stay because we wished and hoped for them to just simply change and that maybe, by understanding them, it will give them the sight to see things clearer. But sadly, everything was making them viler and unconscious. Today, we should learn to trust our instinct and that there’s nothing wrong with creating such space in between when words are way too naked and unhealthy for us to digest with such peace of mind. We should never be reluctant to move out of the picture who only made us their own subtle background. We should learn to evaluate who deserves our apologies and just simply wipe off the list of people who make us feel less and ungrateful. There will be people who could infect their bad behaviors in us without us noticing it and it comes out way too late when we realized that we’ve been contaminated with their negativities and personal casualties. We need to just leave the cynics, people who close their eyes to the positivity and only acknowledge the negativities, people who will only talk to you so they could spread the notion of hatred. We should never allow guilt to take resistance inside us and prefer staying despite how lethal things are. We should learn to liberate ourselves from this poison and give ourselves the best that we deserve and that means, we deserve a solemn and peaceful mindset with only good people who know how to appreciate both our bad and good sides and consider our opinions as new knowledge for them. We only deserve those who value us and not just those who only value us just because they could use us to ascend their power. We deserve the ones we see a reflection of ourselves with.

When Elephants Fly. Mental illness and animal rights in one book. The plot/storyline, especially the ending, is quite similar with Turtles All The Way Down. I don’t want to compare, I love them both. 💜 #bookwormdiaries https://www.instagram.com/p/B6FLSl1FVCbZVYFHyN5jEtM0hZOKswJoxpIsoA0/?igshid=16wbdljsspvaq

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