Your Black Secret

My obsession is white wives and girlfriends. For more information, see my pinned post. All are welcome. Enjoy.

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Welcome to my blog.

Black male, Late 40s, athletic, financial professional. Travelled widely in Europe, Asia, North America for work.

Since my late teens, drawn to white wives and girlfriends.

Some posts on the blog do talk about incidents in my past that got me started. For these posts and a few other thoughts, click on the tag #mystory Not the complete story, of course. Feel free to ask anything you like. I always answer unless the blog asking is basically empty. I will often block such blogs, if I can be bothered.

Not into hooking up on Tumblr. Especially not into men hooking me up with their wives or girlfriends. Not into the cuckold / wife-watching scene at all. Most of my posts stem loosely – or closely - from real experiences. Any posts where women are speaking are actual words I have heard women say.

I had a sideblog, The-Black-Daddy, for a while, but have now migrated those posts to this blog (if any of you are wondering what's going on. I won't be maintaining the Black Daddy blog separately, and in a short while I'll shut it down).

Live and let live.

Use this link to find tag #mystory

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you're such a good girl... I'll keep you for now

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Your Black Daddy has expectations, that's all. I could keep you a long time.

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Be proud. Daddy loves to own your pussy.

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yes, princess. Pretty. Virginal. Sexy. Ready to be ruined by my black cock. Now Daddy is going to corrupt you. Just what you want, isn't it, princess?

...recently I have taken an interest in girls younger than I used to. Before it was mid-thirties or older. I'm having a change of heart.

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This dress reminds me of one of the occasions when my girl was able to get away from her husband for a weekend when I went on business to San Francisco. I didn't have to tell her how to dress for me, she knew - pretty as a picture, yes, and her body very available. Over dinner she loved to tell me how arousing it was to think of all the ways my black cock was going to destroy her. She would finger herself at the table and let me taste. She spent a lot of time touching herself, talking about what she needed (my black cock). Touching her pussy and her nipples. She was very good at it. A couple of times in a lull she fingered herself to orgasm. A very memorable girl. The main difference between this pic and real life is that she always wore her wedding ring. She loved to talk about herself as my whore, my cheating whore. Her secret.

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The girl from Japan.

I had a relationship for almost two years with a wife from Japan who moved here as a child. It was exquisite. Almost always she wore very fine lingerie, matching bra and panties and stockings and garters. Reserved and correct in public. The first time we fucked it was like a dam breaking, a volcano erupting. We worked at competing companies, and she said she had been wanting this for about a year. Her desires were intense and kinky. That's probably why it lasted so long. Very fond memories. Every once in a while I will get a note from her. She always says she has never forgotten my black cock.

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Your correspondent Jeff wants to know the name of Chloe's bull. I guess it gives a sense of minimal control- he knows what to call the superior competitor. She shouldn't tell him. That way, a woman, a bitch (I'm one too) keep the reins. Jeff doesn't have a right to know shit. He just needs to know what space Chloe is willing to carve out for him. He's obviously allowed to lick her clean when she gets home. worship her cunny. Be grateful. Make sure he's good at it. Privileges can be withdrawn! Jenny

You have probably analyzed Jeff's motivation absolutely correctly. As for the next steps, I am curious as to what in fact does happen. I don't know if Jeff will in fact report back. It's a scenario I have no experience with or inclination to pursue. But it works for some, obviously.

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If she's fucking with them, this hard, this often, then there's got to be a risk- right? She could damage her heart? She could take ill? But they've triggered so much desire in her. When I said vaguely, she should 'live gently'. she slapped my face. she just have to have it. There's got to be a reverse gear somewhere? What do I say to her? For pity's sake..then I'll stop posting. Jeff :-(

I doubt she's in any danger of harm... And she seems to like the intensity of it, so living gently isn't an option. As for what you say to her - I really have no idea. It seems to me you're doing all you can.

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Further to my last, the scent, smell and taste of my wife, with him, with them....please, tell me that the relentless pace of this, the frequency of this eases off. I have never known my wife seem to enjoy sex so much, to need it so much. This is devastating. Jeff.

This I have seen: the intense need of a white wife. Every time. It's like a switch has flipped. As for if it will end - probably, I would say. But when, I don't know.

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So what next? My wife Chloe smells and tastes of other men. Black men, that she goes to weekend parties with. Her sex tastes of cock. Not one cock, there are different scents and tastes. One of them eats a lot of garlic and spices- some things transfer.Her hair smells of their earthy scents, musky, woody, physical heat. Her mouth tastes of cock, perhaps the dominant boyfriend. I wish she would share a name, I wish she would explain. But she's warned, if I intrude, it might get rough for me. He shares her, whoever 'he' is. That normal? It normal that she seems arrogant on account of the discoveries? I taste her cum, she responds to them, she climaxes, I know that she does. It's driving me quietly nuts. Jeff (be honest, advise me, will she ever back out of this?)

Not sure I am the one to ask. Every one of my relationships has been of a very different kind. A much more discreet and separate relationship. They all ended - all with sadness and great bittersweetness, but no regrets. Chloe's relationship is different. You are probably better off to ask women who have been involved with black men.

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Thank you for your thoughtful blog. the black guys, the correspondence is amazing! I need a man to be very physical with me, very masculine. I need to feel taken, and owned. Gabriel, my black lover does that. He is essential, the essence of my sex life. if I have a baby, it will be with him. Mike, my husband, is sweet, kind, attentive, and since Gabriel, pliable. At first Mike panicked when he realised I was seeing Gabriel. but Gabriel was calm, consistent and quietly authoritative. He assured Mike that as long as he didn't get in our way, as long as fucking and dating weren't interrupted, the two of them, as guys could get along. I think we have a world where a lot of white men have been reared to be metrosexual, too 'nice' as it were. I like considerate, kind men, but not in my bed, not out dating. I need to ne desired. We've found an accommodation. I love Gabriel and appreciate Mike's submission to Gabriel's mastery. Close friends understand. Some girlfriends are jealous, but you have to understand yourself very well, your essential rules, if you are to live as a selfish bitch. Estelle xxx

Thanks for this note, Estelle. Interesting what you say about the metrosexuality of white guys - there are probably lots of macho white guys who would disagree with you. Are you a selfish bitch because you want your needs met? Seems like a tough situation. Seems like you've worked it out.

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I suspect I know your answer to this from past posts, but would you fuck a girl's husband, if that helped establish the correct hierarchy, if it seemed super sexy for a wife like me? N ?x?

No, that's not my thing at all. I am sure it could be super sexy, but I am just the wrong guy for the job. i have no desire to fuck men, to start with. Also, my relationships are simple ones, and longish ones - a year or two, and only with the wife... I am not interested in the husband at all. I am well aware of the kink, but it's just not for me.

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Has a boyfriend or husband ever found out about you?

As it happens, no. It's part of a double-edged sword of the kind of longer term relationships I have had with white wives or girlfriends (one to two years). I have come to think there is actually less risk with someone you know well. I don't do short term hook ups. The girls I have had these affairs have all been pretty smart. I guess I've been lucky also.

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Sir, am I right that you're huge as fuck?

Huge is relative. I am 9". 6'3" if that's the measurement you're looking for.

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my princess is still in a daze from fucking all night, cumming on my black cock... Good girl.

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Good girl.

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Good girl. you were meant to be my whore.

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Reading the Kirsty correspondence reminded me of a friend (Ruth). Ruth is bi sexual and back a while she was seeing a girl called Megan. Sensing her husband's submissive nature, she bent him to her and Megan's rule. Both she and Megan were mistress to that sap. Then along came Lucien, a black stud. A really physical guy. Megan was pushed out and the husband bent to the service of his new master. The husband is grateful, Lucien is relaxed as long as he can take Ruth where he wants, do what he wants. Ruth gets a lot of black cock and the husband does a lot of toileting. She dresses like the arrogant bitch Lucien has turned her into. But the cruelty potential was always there in that girl. She knew she had power between her legs. Ben.

I am actually glad to hear it when people manage to work out all of their unexpected kinks and everyone is happy. This scenario is not for me - I am girls only, and I focus on one girl... But although some people would cringe or be disgusted by this solution they all discovered, as long as they are happy, then good for them.