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Part of women's work is learning to be more gentle and patient with one another in deeply compassionate, tangible ways. We heal not only through how we tend to ourselves, but through how we hold another woman who may need a little tending.

— India Ame'ye

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"Konke engidalelwe kona, kuyofika. Ngisho noma ilanga selishonile."

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I am learning to live gently with myself to not punish my heart for remembering, to not blame my lungs for breathing through pain, to not hate the parts of me that are still healing. Growth isn’t loud. Sometimes it’s just surviving the day.

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Women are naturally oracular. We hear, see and feel the signs very early but don’t take them seriously. Our intuition tells us that something is not right about the person. Begin to let go of all acquaintances, potential friends or potential lovers who show early signs of lack of care and consideration for your wellbeing. Nip it in the bud early. Don’t be a pawn in their game of carelessness and heart trauma. Don’t give 2nd and 3rd chances because what happened in the past will likely happen again. In other words, don’t ignore red flags because you desperately want the connection. Trust yourself and be done with them. —India Ame’ye

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Never forget that how we have sex is how we were unconsciously imprinted upon and conditioned to have sex or perceive sex to be. All the performance, tension-holding, goal-orientation, ego, fear of making organic sound, sucking in the belly, frigidity, need to look cute or cool, insecurity, etc., drowns out genuine connection, exploration, curiosity, playfulness, and the natural ability to project cosmic light through the magnetic field of the genitals, anus, perineum, belly button, womb, cervix, nipples, deep back throat, tongue, eyes, fingers, crown, and a heart that readily pours love out from the ribcage at any given moment, upgrading basic sex into an otherworldly, expansive, regenerative force. —India Ame’ye, Author

begin to explore and re-define “what is sex?”to you.

what other ways can you open up inside and beyond penetration?

do not be afraid to explore your deepest most hidden desires or that which may feel taboo in safe ways…surrounded in a container of care and love.

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I’m obsessed 😍

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I love Jayne Mansfield.

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As a woman, when you initially start to wake up in this lifetime, the first stage is to allow yourself to grieve after realizing that you have been lied to about nearly everything. Your true nature of power has been hidden and suppressed. You have been indoctrinated into systems of thinking, processing, and being that easily weaken your body and potential overtime.

Do your heart, breasts, and womb a favor, and grieve it all. If you try to skip this step, grief can show up in other ways in your body. I turned to nature to move out all of my grief and the accompanying hurt, lack of trust, and agony from my heart for 9 rebirthing months. Lots of laying supine on large rocks, partially nude hikes airing out my lymph nodes, hugging trees, barefoot dancing, coughing up mucous, deep breathing, breast-shaking, ass bouncing, crying, sweating, deep squatting, and river/lake dips. —India Ame’ye, Author