Anonymous Boyfriend Asmr Confessions

[boyfriend-asmr-confessions]

Welcome all to my blog. You may refer to me as priestess if you choose to address me.

THE COMMANDMENTS ✨

All confessions must be on anon. You may make an alias to identify yourself/your asks (examples: "butterfly anon", "ducky anon", etc, etc). Confessions accidentally sent off of anon will be privately sent back to you and you may resubmit them on anon if you so desire.

No mentioning other fandom goers by name/URL. We vague-post here. (Positive recommendations by name are an exception)

Confessions containing bigotry of any kind will be deleted.

I will not be providing responses nor adding my own opinions to confessions ( depending on what was asked : example- recommendations)

Confessions that i deem overly aggressive, antagonistic, or inflamatory will be deleted. This applies only towards other people, like specific anons or people with certain opinions within the fandom.

NSFW confessions are accepted and will be tagged as "#the sinners of sinners bfac”

Confessions must be related to boyfriend asmr ( a fandom, channel etc. ) if not, they will be deleted.

Rules are subject to change in the future if necessary

This is inspired by one of my favorite blogs and a confession they received. I took most of their rules because I really liked them and wanted consistency. @anonymousredactedconfessions < totally should go give them a follow and check out their blog

Now child, confess your sins to me

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I’ve been a longtime fan of Zsakuva ASMR roleplays his immersive storytelling and vocal range are undeniable talents. But over time, I’ve noticed like so many of us a certain repeated pattern concerning the plot  : every single villain or evil protagonist in his work is mostly a woman*. Not only that, but these female characters are almost exclusively reduced to multi-dimensional caricatures of cruelty such as: the female predatory teacher in the professor serie , the stomach_stabbing by the nanny in the boss serie , the evil heiress in the master one with his listener being neglected from their previous owner because of a mistress , the lord gang's son who was being cheated once by his ex girlfriend, The best friend and his jealous girlfriend with all her hatred towards the listeners who are originally all males no matter the audience's headcanon which can be the main reason behind!? since a female listener doesn't spark the creator's motivation which is completely understandable and respected since the end goal for both sides is telling a good story  but this kind of unintentional feminine dismissiveness undermines his potential as a storyteller and alienates his largely female audience which he is highly aware of this demographic statistic as he proudly stated in one of his posts, and please bear in mind I'm not accusing him of internalized misogyny , laziness creativity over malice or sexist trope instead he can for instance introducing evil male protagonists with his future characters not necessarily voiced by him if it's also the supposed reason but through collabs with other creative Asmrists.

I believe saku is talented enough to do better. Great storytelling challenges tropes it doesn’t recycle them. If he truly values his audience, he’ll reflect on this critique and grow. If not, well that’s its own answer.

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[boyfriend-asmr-confessions]

I stopped listening to Pebble after he started using AI for thumbnails I genuinely couldn’t stand seeing them whenever he posted

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[boyfriend-asmr-confessions]

hey, So fun fact,

it has been scientifically proven that when parson A decides to make a headcannon a character that was made to represent the viewer as person B will still be able to wake up the next morning to find that the character is still there. Another person’s head cannon that you don’t agree with is none of your concern and will not in any way disrupt your viewing experience with the same media. Hope this helps! And have a nice day!

~🩷❤️🩷🩷❤️🩷❤️

sorry if this comes off as rude but policing the way that people are allowed to engage with media is one of my personal pet peeves

also I don’t know how to directly reply to a post but this is a reply

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[boyfriend-asmr-confessions]

one thing i remember seeing from last year is someone posting what they believe the listener looked like in a m4m roleplay. Their ideas for what the listener would wear was all extremely feminine, and their design was a woman. on a m4m roleplay, where the listener was stated to have a traditionally male body type and was referred to with he/him pronouns. And they hc'd him with she/her pronouns.

All this goes to say is everyone please, PLEASE, do not hc MALE LISTENERS as FEMALE LISTENERS. It is hard enough to find m4m storylines, so please do not pretend that the listener is not male! You are erasing a huge part of the actual character! especially since us guys in the asmr rp community barely have any m4m audios, meanwhile there are so many m4f or m4a ones to choose from. So if you want a female listener, I'm sure you'll find a similar storyline that is m4f! or even m4a!

Im sorry if this was a rant, Priestess, I just have been bottling up this up for a while, and I'm finally actually acknowledging it and getting to talk about it. thank you

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[boyfriend-asmr-confessions]

I enjoy storyline asmr, have any recommendations?

Here are a few of my personal favorites to get this started : M4A unless otherwise specified.

Zsaku Va

Gav Va

Obsidian lantern

Redacted audios

Icey asmr ( mf4 )

The guy not high ( mainly m4f )

Yuuri vocies

Jouska

Orion audios ( mainly m4f )

Hallow Va

Yuzuya ( if you enjoy my hero academia and other anime)

- the priestess 🩷

[boyfriend-asmr-confessions]

Is this still alive or dead?

Yes

- 🩷 the priestess

[boyfriend-asmr-confessions]

YOU GUYSSSSSSAAAAA

I'm here for the ones who enjoy plot based audios-

Jouska:

Vampire Hunter series for those who enjoy bonnie and Clyde type of dynamic (supernatural x human)

Old enemy series for those who like rivalry fantasy slow burn (supernatural x human)

Stardust and cosmic series for those who enjoy science fiction and mafia (I personally don't like either, but this series was surprisingly alright)

ZsakuVa

The noble trials series for those who enjoy royalty/ kingdom fantasy. (Old friends to rivals to ...)

Desmond Asmr

Castin, the warrior from Intacia, for those who enjoy misunderstood feelings, marriage of convenience, a little healthy jealousy, progressive plot line. (Can you tell I actually love this storyline sm)

Hank Miller audios

Cinderella story for those who enjoy billionaire x helpless plots. (Now listen - I ate this up when I first listened to it but after re-listening to it a few years later it didn't hit the same- the first two videos even felt outright degrading but it does get better so-)

Now I would suggest cherry'sh, but all his audios are in Korean, and most of them don't have English sub.

PLEASE SUGGEST IF YOU KNOW GOOD ONES AS WELL, THANKIES

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