I think the people that are mostly or completely left off could argue that itâs not actually inevitable. Clearly there is a purpose; youâre right. There is though a difference between people watching, and even imagining what could be going on, and malicious gossip. If people actually waited until they knew someone, or a situation, then AAâs gossip wouldnât hit so hard. There is something to be said about walking a mile in someone elseâs shoes. Our decisions are often influenced by our experiences.  Â
Their time will come, Iâm sure. See, to me, the gossip isnât the problem. Weâre humans. There will always be gossip, assumptions, rumors, etc. Itâs inescapable. Itâs human nature to want to take a look at the lives of others. Weâre social creatures, and unfortunately that isnât always a good thing. But, whatâs even more important is how you react to these things. How you choose to respond. Something my father always says is, âlife is 10% what happens to you, 90% how you react to it.â Thatâs something Iâve always lived by, and will continue to live by. Sure, it sucks that people talk. But itâs reality. Itâs life. So, rather than sitting and wallowing, complaining, and wishing it wasnât reality, I find itâs best to get up and make the choice to live anyway. It canât all be sunshine and rainbows, I think itâs a little ridiculous that people around here seem to expect it to be.Â