Take Me To a Safe Place With Pink Skies and Puppy Dogs
The last couple of weeks, we have been learning about a couple different topics, but the ones that stood out in my minds were Fans and Amateurs, and Embodiment and Exhaustion. We learned about the Brony phenomenon and Lady GaGa as well as Jenna Marbles and Ryan Higa and their contribution to YouTube and genderization. The Bronies were being taunted and bullied just because of the socialized norms of gender norms in today’s society. Gender norms are socially constructed. Who is to say that something is a “girl’s” thing, or that something is “manly”? It is all based on what society says is acceptable. In Watercutter’s article, “Bronies are Redefining Fandom- And American Manhood,” Watercutter writes that,“the reasons why people enjoy brony fandom are complex, in part because of the gender assumptions surrounding the show and its “intended” audience” (Watercutter). When people go around spitting out ideas about gender that are not “normalized,” people start to get offended and tend to attack what is not normal by society’s standard. For the Bronies, it has been a difficult world to exist in. People are made uncomfortable by things that are not what they are used to. So when a bunch of grown men start enjoying a show about little ponies, which was intended for an audience made up primarily of young girls, there is some backlash to be expected.
The internet is supposed to be a safe place, yet the second that something that is not accepted is brought up, there is immediate rebuttal. Being on the internet should allow the internet user to be anonymous and not judged, the whole reason most people go on the internet. It is important to understand that, “having a safe place in fandom ‘is a fight from that, it’s a retreat to something which is happier, which stresses getting along with others’” (Watercutter). If everyone could stop fighting with each other and arguing about what is “supposed to be,” we could get around these social norms of gender, etc.
A few weeks ago I attended a Drag Show up at Purchase College in upstate New York. The drag show included males dressing as females and vice versa. There was no stigma of who should be doing what and how one should be acting. It was a melting pot of people who were all there for one reason: to perform and to witness. In this place, it was a safe space of the performers and the audience alike. There were no norms to abide by, even though, interestingly enough, it was sort of a parody, or satire, on the whole gender norms situation. Watercutter explains it best when he mentions that, “identity is a tricky thing, and being a grown man wearing a My Little Pony T-shirt can get you harassed—it’s much easier to find like-minded friends on the internet” (Watercutter). Or in the case of the Drag Show, at a college in Upstate New York. The girls dressed as guys performed stereotypes of how a man should be and the same went to the men dressed as women. Finding a community like the before mentioned is extremely important in today’s society, especially if one expects bullying and isolation to be eliminated.
This connects with the idea of fandoms. Fandoms come about when fans feel some sort of connection with an artist or a celebrity. In Click, Lee, and Holladay’s article titled, “Making Monsters: Lady GaGa, Fan Identification, and Social Media,” Click, Lee and Holladay discuss the idea of how fandoms come about and how “imaginary relationships with media figures, including celebrities, are encouraged by the media industries, which “lavish considerable effort on techniques that not only invite but virtually force this kind of identification’” (Click, Lee, Holladay). Not unlike the Bronies fandom, the Little Monsters feel an attachment towards Lady GaGa because of the message that she exudes. Lady GaGa is all about loving each other and being free and feeling comfortable in your own skin. So why is it that these fans who cling to the mere idea of Lady GaGa cannot be comfortable in the real world and most reside in this imaginary society? It all goes back to gender norms.
So whether you are a Brony or a Little Monster, or something similar to that nature, it should not, in the end, matter who you are. The fine line of gender roles needs to be blurred around the edges. Fandoms are created in order to establish a safe place for the fans and to create a world and a community that can share ideas concerning the beliefs and ideals that the fandoms create. It should not matter whether or not the fan is gay, straight, bi-sexual, white, black, yellow, green, blue, or a male or a female. It is what that fan has to bring to the table and what they have to offer as a fan that makes all the difference.
Lindsey Wotanis & Laurie McMillan (2014): Performing Gender on YouTube, Feminist Media Studies, DOI: 10.1080/14680777.2014.882373
Melissa A. Click , Hyunji Lee & Holly Willson Holladay (2013) Making Monsters: Lady Gaga, Fan Identification, and Social Media, Popular Music and Society, 36:3, 360-379, DOI: 10.1080/03007766.2013.798546
Watercutter, A. (2014, March 11). Bronies are Redifining Fandom- And American Manhood. Retrieved November 25, 2014, from http://www.wired.com/