SFbrownSugar

Put your money where your mouth is.

[brownsugarsugarxo]

Happy Thanksgiving!

[brownsugarsugarxo]

Just curious, how dig of a role do you think a good education plays in making money flow in your favor?

In my opinion, a huge role. Not only will POTs or your SD find it extremely attractive to know that you have a strong head and knowledge of what you want to do with your life, but you should find having an education background a necessity in anything you do! In specifics, it will greatly improve your relationships with SD’s, as well as improve your self-being.

Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of people out there who are successful with not that great education backgrounds. But having it is a HUGE plus.

[brownsugarsugarxo]

It's a Chanel day 💕

[la-goodlife]

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chxnelxvogue 👼🏼✨

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I'm meeting a sugardaddy next week and we've just started talking he asked if we I could go into his hotel room, do you think I should?

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[brownsugarsugarxo]

Have you found that Asian men tend to stray away from AA women? As I was going through SA, some had "no AA women please"

 I pay them no mind, babygirl. There are men who aren’t interested in AA women, and that’s fine! We’re beautiful, and there are PLENTY of men that are attracted to african american women. They’re missing out - Oh well! 

Keep hustling.

[brownsugarsugarxo]

Omg you're located in the BAY?! I can't find and fellow SBs that are in the bay.

YASSS. I’m here lol <33

[brownsugarsugarxo]

Is it safe to give a sd your real name?

Depends on how long you have known him, and how comfortable you are.

I wouldn’t give it out until I am in the position in where I know what to do when shit goes wrong!

[brownsugarsugarxo]

I wanted to ask, being the aspiring SB that I am, is it best to keep my naturally red, wild, curly hair? Or should I get a chemical relaxer? I always see tons of dark skinned SB's with relaxed hair/weaves and I feel pressured to conform.

hey sista!

If you don’t want to conform, you don’t have to. There are men out there who LOVE a natural girl. When you mean “red and wild” hair, is it a natural red? Relaxers (to me, as my mother is a hairstylist) are the devil. I tried it years ago for a long time, but found being natural is better for your hair! If you want to try weaves, go for it! They are a great alternative to letting your hair grow. I personally wear clip-ins because my hair is already quite long.

 Natural or weaves - as long as you got that spark of seduction, confidence, and determination in this lifestyle, you’re good girl.

xo

[brownsugarsugarxo]

I’m back sugarbabes - I took a while off as I was trying to make myself live a regular life and take a break. But somehow it always crossed my mind. So I’m back at it. 💕

[a-disciplined-life]

Four rules for a disciplined life

(Credit to reddit user ryans01).

No zero days. ‘What’s a zero day? A zero day is when you don’t do a single fucking thing towards whatever dream or goal or want or whatever that you got going on. No more zeros. I’m not saying you gotta bust an essay out everyday, that’s not the point. The point I’m trying to make is that you have to make yourself, promise yourself, that the new SYSTEM you live in is a NON-ZERO system. Didn’t do anything all fucking day and it’s 11:58 PM? Write one sentence. One pushup. Read one page of that chapter. One. Because one is non zero.’

Be grateful to the three yous. ‘There’s the past you, the present you, and the future you. If you wanna love someone and have someone love you back, you gotta learn to love yourself, and the 3 you’s are the key. Be GRATEFUL to the past you for the positive things you’ve done. And do favours for the future you like you would for your best bro.’

Forgive yourself. ‘Maybe you got all the know-how, money, ability, strength and talent to do whatever is you wanna do. But lets say you still didn’t do it. Now you’re giving yourself shit for not doing what you need to, to be who you want to. Heads up champion, being disappointed in yourself causes you to be less productive. Tried your best to have a nonzero day yesterday and it failed? So what. I forgive you, previous self. I forgive you. But today? Today is a nonzero masterpiece to the best of my ability for future self. This one’s for you, future homes. Forgiveness man, use it. I forgive you. Say it out loud.’

Exercise and books. ‘Pretty standard advice but when you exercise daily you actually get smarter. When you exercise you get high from endorphins (thanks body). When you exercise you clear your mind. When you exercise you are doing your future self a huge favour. Exercise is a leg on a three legged stool. Feel me? As for books, almost every fucking thing we’ve all ever thought of, or felt, or gone through, or wanted, or wanted to know how to do, or whatever, has been figured out by someone else. Get some books.’ 

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My friend linked this to me on reddit when I was feeling really down and it changed me. Excellent advice!

[lacortigiana]

My Goals & Transformation

I came across a post the other day that made me realize that I haven’t taken the time to go into detail about what my transformation/journey will entail and what my goals/reasons were for entering this lifestyle. 

I only had a vague idea of what I wanted to do and accomplish. I kept it all in my head and never thought to write it down in detail. Sure I knew that I wanted to travel and that I wanted to make money but that was about as far as I went. I never asked myself questions such as “Where did I want to travel?” “How much money did I want to make?” “What kind of benefactors did I want to have and attract?”

So I took the time to write out a plan for what I want out of this lifestyle and the type of woman I want to become…

I want to travel - frequently. And I’m not talking about flying economy and “backpacking” it. I want to travel first/business class and via private jets. I want to live, eat, breathe and sleep in the lap of luxury. Whether it’s five-star hotel suites, villas, penthouses, yachts, etc., I want to experience all of it. 

I want to be able to shop wherever I want and never have to look at a price tag. I want to be dressed in designer attire from head to toe. 

Whenever there’s a party - I’m on the list. Either I will know the owner/host personally or I will be the date of someone that does. Red carpet events, members only clubs, galas or world renowned night clubs; it doesn’t matter, I’m on the list and receiving VIP treatment. 

And speaking of dates and parties I want to network and surround myself with the best. Connections are vital and be it the entertainment industry, financial, tech or political sectors I want to be surrounded by success. 

I haven’t gone into detail about the type of benefactors I will be aiming for. That’s because I know that each man will be different and therefore will require different tactics. However I do know that I want a man of high caliber {pretty much goes without saying} that has no problems with providing me the kind of lifestyle I desire because he knows how invaluable I am to him and his life. 

And to be that kind of woman, the type that would be hard to replace will require me to step my game all the way up. In the words of RuPaul, we’re talking “10s across the board”. 

Hair and makeup needs to look perfect as if it’s been professionally styled every time. A fit and toned body. Perfect teeth. A skin care regime to remove as many imperfections as I can. Increasing my knowledge by reading and studying art, history, finance, learning a second language and so on. Having impeccable etiquette, poise and conversational skills. 

But it doesn’t stop there. My top priority is to become a pro at seduction. Recognizing body language and knowing how to counter it. Becoming a more positive person overall with so much confidence that it overflows. Embracing and heightening my femininity, sexuality and sensuality. 

I know there will be people that will say that what I want to achieve is impossible; especially if you’re starting from the “bottom”. But these people underestimate a woman with a plan. I know that there are women living the lifestyle that I just described and come from backgrounds far more destitute than mine. It may sound cheesy but I truly believe that whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve. But what you achieve will depend on how much effort, hard work and determination you are willing to put in. As for me, I’m willing to give it my all. 

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Reblogging again.

[brownsugarsugarxo]

Many tumblr sugar babies seem to prefer cash or using services or gift cards that hide the money. What about student babies looking to pay tuition? Allowances are all "gifts" on tax returns, correct?

I still prefer cash for tuition. It's one of those things that you have to know your bank, in order to deposit money in a way that does not look suspicious. Or, if a sugar baby is close enough with her SD, she could just ask for him to directly pay sometimes for her. But for me, I like it in physical form so I can balance it myself.

[brownsugarsugarxo]

hey love your blog, do you have any tips on how to get started? anything would be great

First: ask yourself why do you want to be in the sugar lifestyle! If it's geared towards "bettering" yourself for the future, then you're off to a good start. Next, please research the bowl by searching tags here on tumblr - such as "sugar baby", "sugar bowl", "sugar baby tips", etc. This will answer most of your basic questions you may have regarding starting out in the bowl. If you have anything more specific to ask, please feel free to ask! :)

[brownsugarsugarxo]

Hey do answer mmsg privately?

Yes I do!! ☺️☺️ message away! xo