The Benefits Of Getting Spanked (a re-post that has been posted by so many people before)
Many people believe that if someone likes to get spanked, it is all sexual. That is not the case all the time. Even though getting spanked has some sexual effects or enhances sexual arousal, there are many non-sexual benefits from getting spanked. What can spankings do for you?
1. Getting spanked relieves stress.
2. Getting spanked is calming.
3. Getting spanked generates endorphins and puts you in a euphoric state.
4. Getting spanked generates adrenaline and gives an adrenaline rush, especially if you are anticipating getting a very harsh one.
5. Getting spanked lifts moods. Russian psychiatrists have found success in treating depression with bare butt whippings.
6. The marks left from getting spanked is like an art of its own.
7. For some, it can restore feelings of youth.
Don’t be ashamed of getting spanked, enjoy it! For those who never tried it in your adult years, give it a try. You never know, you may like it.
Rodney Calmes
I am not in anyway ashamed of being spanked, but would only want people who agree with spanking to know that I am spanked.
Stepping Into Your Power: A Gentle Guide for Women Curious About FLR
If you’re reading this, chances are…
You are a caring woman.
You give deeply in your relationship.
You put your partner first.
You avoid unnecessary conflict.
You don’t like hurting anyone’s feelings.
You try to keep things peaceful.
And somewhere along the way, you heard about Female-Led Relationships.
Maybe through a post.
A reel.
A conversation.
Or (and the most probable one) from your own partner.
And something inside you stirred.
Curiosity?
Interest?
Excitement?
Maybe fear?
or Hesitation? (Read : Helping her overcome her hesitations in an FLR)
“Isn’t this too much?”
“Am I to become selfish?”
“Won’t he feel bad if I….?”
“I’m not dominant…”
“I’m not that kind of woman…”
Let me tell you something gently.
Almost every powerful FLR woman started exactly here.
Right where you are now.
For Men – How to serve your wife and make her more dominant?
You Are Not Weak. You Are Untapped.
Most so-called “vanilla” women are not submissive by nature.
They are conditioned.
Conditioned to:
Adjust
Compromise
Stay quiet
Keep peace
Be nice
Put themselves last
From childhood, society teaches women:
Being strong is “bossy.”
Wanting control is “rude.”
Enjoying authority is “wrong.”
So you learned to give.
And give.
And give.
And give some more.
Until one day you felt:
Tired.
Emotionally drained.
Unappreciated.
Unfulfilled.
Bored in intimacy.
Invisible in decisions.
FLR is not about changing who you are. It is about finally becoming who you were always meant to be.
Read this AGAIN!!!!
FLR is not about changing who you are. It is about finally becoming who you were always meant to be.
Read : The bible for women to establish their dream FLR
What If Leadership Isn’t Cruel… But Caring?
Many women hesitate because they think:
“Dominance means being harsh.”
“Being in charge means being cold.
No.
Getting these thoughts isn’t totally your fault, it’s just how the media has portrayed Dominant women in movies, shows and comics.
Well, let me tell you a secret – Healthy dominance is guidance.
It sounds like:
“I know what’s good for us.”
“I’ll take the lead.”
“I’ve got you.”
“Relax. I’m in charge.”
Most men secretly crave this. If not FLR, they crave an assertive, confident and a strong woman.
Many of them are even tired!
Tired of leading everything.
Tired of pretending to know.
Tired of carrying emotional pressure.
Tired of always being “the strong one.”
When you step up, you give him rest.
That is love.
Read : Modern men and male ego in Female Led Relationships
Why Vanilla Relationships Often Leave Women Empty
After counseling hundreds of couples, I see the same pattern again and again.
In traditional dynamics:
Women overthink
Women manage emotions
Women remember dates
Women carry mental load
Women adjust dreams
Women hold everything together
If relationship is a car, the man is the one sitting on the passenger seat, whereas the woman quietly runs it.
But without authority.
Without recognition.
Without erotic power.
FLR changes this.
You already do the work.
Now you get the power too.
The Hidden Benefits of FLR (No One Talks About)
1. You Feel Desired Again
In FLR, your partner doesn’t take you for granted.
He seeks your approval.
Your attention.
Your validation.
You become magnetic.
Not invisible. But irresistible.
2. Decision Fatigue Disappears
No more:
“What do you want?”
“Anything.”
“No, you decide.”
You decide!
Life becomes simpler.
And lighter. And as per your demands and wishes.
3. Emotional Security Increases
When you lead:
He feels safe
You feel respected
Conflicts reduce
Trust grows
Structure creates peace. Well defined roles create harmony.
4. Intimacy Comes Alive Again
Most vanilla bedrooms don’t die suddenly.
They fade slowly.
Routine.
Predictable patterns.
No spark.
No tension.
A man who thinks he likes to be spanked needs to have his ass beaten so thoroughly red that the pain overwhelms any pleasure and he never repeats what he is being disciplined for ever again.
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