Prince Darton, his Derpiness

This page is devoted to my cat, he's a derp...

[bunni-chan3033]

My daughter is prone to night terrors so now she sleeps with a toy sword because "it's what Adora would do"

[annlovesmusic]

Me to that one follower who reblogs all of my posts, thank u, u are the reason life’s good

[litttleprincess-deactivated2017]

When you see it, REBLOG IT.

[32-kgs]

Depression Hotline: [phone]

Suicide Hotline: [phone]

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: [phone]

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673

Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272

Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253

If you ever want to talk: My Tumblr ask is always open.

[19b-archive-deactivated20250525]

"I don't mind gay characters as long as they're well written,"

And why this mindset is not as progressive as you think it is. We’ll break this down into three simple points.

1. It places a double standard on gay characters. Gay characters have to justify their existence. When a male character shows interest in a woman despite never having shown any before, it’s not questioned. It’s accepted as the default – which is another form of homophobia on its own. When the same happens to a same-sex interest, it’s accused of coming out of nowhere. It’s viewed as a straight person being turned gay, never mind the existence of bisexual people. A non-straight sexuality or identity is treated as a new development that needs foreshadowing and explaining rather than a trait as inherent as eye color.

2. It’s never their entire personality. Another way this mindset is taken is that a gay character’s personality would be centered on their sexuality. We’ll ignore the fact that actual examples of this are few and far between (and usually pointed out by straight people who can’t handle seeing any kind of queer content). Similar to the previous point, this kind of complaint only exists for LGBT content. Take a look at mainstream media and count how many male characters there are that have their conflict and goals centered around getting laid. Count how many female characters there are that have their arc propelled by male attention. These instances are rarely complained about, at least not to the extent that queer ones are. For us, critics have a knee-jerk reaction.

3. Who gets to decide what a “good gay” character is? Hint: it’s not the people being represented. When you push someone to explain what the mythical Good Gay is, you get phrases like “It’s not done for pandering” and “forced” and “shoved down your throat.” So a character needs more than just their sexuality going for them, that seems reasonable, but oh wait we’re not done. When a gay character isn’t overt, their sexuality is denied. It’s explained away and called unnecessary. “Why make them gay if it’s not relevant to the plot?”

This is a double edged sword with no balance. Homophobes want good gay characters that won’t make them uncomfortable, which are none at all. Sometimes the smarter ones will have a token gay character or two they can point to and claim they like as if it absolves them of any possible bias. And many aren’t aware of their bias at all, which makes this conversation immensely tedious.

At best, claiming you don’t mind well written gays is ignorant. At worst, it’s a dog whistle. If you want to be an ally, say you don’t mind gay characters and relationships at all – yes, even the badly written ones. We are just as deserving of representation and the leniency that cishet media gets.

[bunni-chan3033]

Prince Darton advises naps during these trying times

[dappyhappy]

JUST LET ME BE.

[the-little-ladybug-that-could]

Reblog if you are an asexual positive blog, believe asexuals exist, and are willing and able to create a safe space for your asexual friends

[lunaisace]

As an Asexual myself, YES

[celticwarriormoon]

As someone who is now 99% sure they might be ace…

YES. THIS. BOTH SIDES NEED TO SEE THIS.

[froggyfloats]

As an asexual, I deal with this a lot, and it’s not okay :/

[daisy-bugs]

As an asexual, REBLOG YOU COWARDS

[texas-chainsaw-yassacre]

ASEXUALS ARE REAL AND 1000% VALID AND FUCK EVERYBODY ELSE WHO THINKS THEY AREN’T

[chaotic-bastard-demon]

MY BEST FRIEND IS ACE, SHE DEALS WITH THIS SHIT A LOT AND IT’S NOT OK!

[dragonwolfcrane]

Be happy!! There are people who support you too!!!!

[shirorozutriea]

Y'all are valid *gives hugs* I love you guys

[bunni-chan3033]

[swagintherain]

“BLACK LIVES MATTER”

by Markus Prime

[beachcityboardwalk-blog]

No blog should be without the image of Garnet falcon-punching a racist cop.

[bunni-chan3033]

Monkey butt does a snuggle

[bunni-chan3033]

Himbs has stolen mom's pad of heating

[bunni-chan3033]

This page is now being devoted to my cat, his Princliness Darton. Himbs is cutie

[whispelanix]

Welcome to Australia...

Where an already endangered species is on the brink of functional extinction...

Oh, and 500 million animals unique to this country have already lost their lives, upon homes that have been destoryed and lives lost of people as well...

I mean... we're only living in a literal inferno...

415 fires. Fuck are we dying...

Oh yeah and people are just fleeing to the damn ocean, you know?

Do you want to know what Hell on Earth looks like..?

Because there it is in all it's unfiltered, firey rage...

There it is... my home from space...

This is only the beginning. Our country has not only entered a new decade, it seems a new dawning era as well, because this flaming apocalypse doesn't show any sign of stopping any time soon.

And you know what saddens me? I've never seen Australian tragedies trending here on this website. I mean it's been going on for months and only now does it seem to really be getting recognized, even if it is only at #9.

And I'm going to be honest with you here - the internet, and media in general is so American centric, this website being no exception. You'd think that an entire continent being on fire for several months with devastating consequences would have more recognition, but no, it really doesn't. The most notes I've ever seen on a post about the Australian fires is at least a few thousand, and that's about it.

So just... please. If you can, with this post or any other post in regards to the fires going on down here, reblog. Because the only thing that should be spreading like wildfire, is a post about a burning country...

[bunni-chan3033]

Hims disapprove of mine drink

[bunni-chan3033]

[bunni-chan3033]

You make me safe

When your not around I'm scared. I'm no good at protecting me. I fear you'll leave, or something might happen to you. What if something happens to me? I'm not sure if I'm afraid of losing you or me... which would be worse?

[bunni-chan3033]

Simple explanation, this is a place to put my writings from therapy. Disoriented and confusing my ravings don't always make sense. I don't wish to share them with those around me but it was suggested I share them somewhere.