30s •cis f boi • domme • "brat" "corrector" • 'straight' girl fixer • serving strap since 2008 • Women aren't inherently inferior, but you are. • men okay but watch it • minors dni
I guess I probably should make a pinned post at some point, so here were go.
I'm Ivy, (not my birth name but people call me this,) a lesbian, a softly masc/butch presenting cis woman (she/her), a domme, a top, and a sadist. This is a sideblog on its own account, so I can follow and like under this name, but occasionally I disappear for days/weeks when I'm logged into the other one. Don't worry, I'll be back.
This blog is 18+ only. Not 18? Do not follow or interact. No ifs ands or buts about it. I'm not interested and I will be annoyed (and not in a fun way) if I find out otherwise.
I'm not going to be as aggressively policing men in my follows, likes, or reblogs. Its fine, especially if i write something fun. But I'm not interested at all. Keep it respectful, don't say overly gendered things in reblogs and we cool.
Terfs Fuck Off.
If you're trying to get me to flirt or talk dirty at you, call me sir (the lowercase is important, Sir is reserved for real relationships.) Otherwise call me Ivy, "hey" or just don't refer to me with a name, its whatever. Don't talk down to me, I'm not interested. I don't particularly like master, daddy, mistress or others, they don't feel right.
I don't do raceplay, detrans/dykebreaking, sissies, bathroom stuff, footplay, ageplay, or serious violence of any sort, even hypothetical.
I'm not a furry, though not to the point of revulsion like the above.
I'm pretty bad at tagging things that aren't my original posts. You may see degradation and humiliation, sadism, some light hypno and brainwashing, pet play and the like. You may see some CNC play but I guarantee you will not see me use or reblog content with the hard R form of that.
I edge slightly into misogyny play, almost ignorable if you're not into it, but I try to tag that as butch patriarchy. This may also include suggestions that I can "fix" straight women and other gross orientation play things of that nature. It's just kink, I'm not seriously promoting this.
I like correcting brats but it doesn't work very well on the internet, especially with strangers. Don't expect a lot.
Don't tell me you came to something I wrote, you can tell me that you want to cum to it, but finishing up is wrong.
Thank you for your response to my ask. Unfortunately tho I can't and dont want to get a Brazilian wax because first I'm saving money and don't have money to spend on such things and second cus i dont like waxing or shaving i do sometimes shave in summer when it's too hot and my bush bothers me.
I'm cumming lately a lot even tho I want to edge but not for very long periods of time like a few days maybe but edging is harder for me when there's no one to tell me no or give me consequences if I cum! So when I touch myself I edge a but then just end up cuming anyway
-she/her 20
(for outside context and passing readers, I'm just on a "femmes should shave their pussy" stint of my butch patriarchy fuckboi kinkposting in reaction to some sfw tumblr trends that have passed my dash.)
Girl. I'm confused at why you thought I asked you if you liked waxing or shaving. I didn't, I said that you should do it because it would be good practice at being someone's toy, if you would like to get practice. Your enjoyment of it wasn't a factor in the suggestion.
You don't display a pretty pink pearl under a blanket, I want to be able to assess it closely and catch every twitch without pretending to care about worthless things like your dignity. And when my palm comes down on sensitive skin, I like to hear it clap without any muffling. The awkwardness and pain of having someone else do it to you is just a bonus.
The point of the lesson is to start to teach you that your preferences don't matter as much as someone else's, and that your suffering makes you beautiful and desirable. I don't care if you don't wax it, just shave it and keep it that way. Let those prickles of hair that keep popping up remind you that someone else made the decision for you.
As for the second part of this, I want you to read that back and think about it. Are you a human or are you a bitch in heat? Its ridiculous to pretend like someone saying not to shouldn't be enough. If you can't handle the responsibility of touching yourself while staying a good girl, then you need to find other ways to play with yourself. Be honest with yourself.
If you need more motivation, here's another assignment for you. For the next week, I want you to masturbate just as much as you normally do. Spend the same time, give yourself the attention you crave. You will not touch yourself below the waist with your fingers or toys during this week. You can hump pillows, and you can touch and toy other parts of your body. Figure it out, babe.
You should shave it. Yeah, you're right that its demeaning and degrading to have that expected of you. Patriarchal expectations aren't shit, that's why I have a bush like a normal person. But you should shave it because you're not a normal person, you're a thing, you're a toy, and you should look the way you feel.
making a sub repeat "i don't want to cum" over and over to let you know they're getting close, and to help reinforce to themselves that they dont in fact need to cum at all
hey! friendly reminder that if you were looking for permission to cum you don't have it. in fact, you're not allowed to cum for another 24 hours & you'd better hope you don't see this post again bc it'll be another whole day of holding it if you do. reblog to edge a friend (:
Hello sir, how would you deal with a brat (me)? Just curious hehe I've been bratting a lot lately
-she/her 20
So the thing is, I know what you want here. You want me to write a sadistic fantasy about how I would punish you. But the problem is that giving you what you want is the exact opposite thing to do if you actually want to fix bratty behavior, so you won't get that. Call it a form of denial, be a good girl and read more and think about this a little.
Because you say you're 20, I feel like I need to be a little more educational here because, well, maybe you haven't fully thought this through. Take it as me talking down to you if you wish.
But there's a few things about brats. Sometimes it really is just about being a brat. You just want to be annoying and have that be a dynamic that you run with. But a lot of brats are just major masochists who need some sort of mental excuse to indulge, the "Oh I've been so bad (hit me. hit me!)" type. And if you haven't thought about it, I want to let you know that you don't have to make being annoying part of your dynamic if what you really want is someone to hurt you. You just need to find a sadist that wants to hurt you for the sheer enjoyment of it. And imo, someone whose tastes are just a smidge too extreme for you. Not too far ahead but someone that will poke at your yellow-light soft limits so that you can feel properly uncomfortable and scared by her expectations and desires. You don't have to be the instigator, you can cry and struggle and try to escape what is coming, and pretend to be the blameless little victim too.
Just something to think about.
Anyway, besides not giving brats what they want, the key thing about punishments is that they should topically fit the infraction and that means there actually needs to be some rules set to have rules broken. For example if you fuck up and cum when you're not allowed (you are never allowed, though) the correct punishment is to send you to orgasm hell, to bind you in a helpless position and make you cum over and over until you are a pretty, sobbing mess begging to never have to cum again and promising anything to make it stop. It always works for a while at least.
Without knowing you or what you did, I'm a bit lacking in inspiration for actual punishments, only random sadistic ideas. And I don't think you should get what you want out of this by getting me to give you too much to touch yourself to, so you won't get them. But you can practice being a good chew toy and go make an appointment to get yourself a brazilian wax if you'd like. Especially if you've never gotten one before.
Edge everyday. It doesn’t matter if you’re actually horny when you start. Your body and brain will catch up because you’ve trained them to. You’ve made being a horny, stupid slut into part of your daily life. Day after day of rubbing yourself stupid makes it into second nature. You don’t want to think. You want to edge. You want to be dumb and slutty. You want to agree and obey.
"Hmm, what's wrong? My little bunny can't fall asleep? You're still so full of energy tonight that even being locked up nice and safe in your hutch isn't enough for you?"
You look up at me with wet eyes, paw mitts pressing at the cage. You try to speak around the gag, a carrot shaped pecker that pressed against the back of your tongue and kept you drooling, but all that came out was a whine.
"I don't know, buttercup, its pretty late and I'm getting tired. Can't we just wait till tomorrow?"
You thump your leg in frustration. Cute.
"Alright alright. Maybe bunny can share my bed tonight. It has been over a year since your last one and you're still not used to them never coming back. But we'll need to work off some of that bratty energy so you can sleep."
There wasn't even the hint of a suggestion that you might get to cum, but you still nodded frantically as I unhooked the latch. I wait for you to crawl to the bedroom in the lead watching your hips shake like you think that if you entice me enough that I won't be able to hold back.
"I'm just so tired tonight, bunny. So I hope you're going to show me how grateful you are." My jeans come down and are discarded on the floor, and I step into my harness. Your gaze on my strap is intense and desperate, especially once I start to lube it up, my hands gliding up and down the silicone.
I sit down on the edge of the bed and pat my lap before leaning back and putting my head on my palms. "C'mon, hop up you little humper. Let's have... oh, let's say five edges tonight? You always love getting to bounce for me, don't you bunny? Be a good girl..."
I'm having a bad day at work. Be a doll and send me a picture of your titties. Bonus points for making it look like you're welcoming your butch home after a long day at the long day factory
you should pull up my shirt to expose my tits whenever you want. you could expose my tits to play with them, or maybe you just want to see them, or maybe you want to embarrass me, or maybe you're just bored and it's something to do
Male gaze ? No, I live my life through the butch gaze. At this point it's pathetic.
I wake up sad I'm not able to make breakfast for someone in nothing but an apron, I take my class seriously because I want them to be able to turn a smart girl like me into nothing but a mumbling mess.
I choose skimpy, cute little outfits for the sole purpose of a lesbian maybe looking at me with lust, I stay moisturized and perfumed because I want them to notice how soft and breakable I am
Sometimes I feel like those girls whose sole purpose in going to college is finding a husband, and the worst of it ? I like it, I like the idea of finding a girl who tells me I'd be of better use in our house, our kitchen, bare feet and waiting for her all day, cooking and cleaning.
I fantasize about her slapping my ass and telling me to go get her a beer, about her coming home from a hard day at work, finding me on my knees, ready to help her unwind..
So yeah, a bit pathetic overall, but at least here I know I'm not alone <3
