How Will You and Your F/S Spend Your 1stΒ Valentines Together β§
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Hi guys Iβm back! Lifeβs been...catastrophic BUT thatβs for another day so enough on that and lets quickly redirect and focus on the fact that reading requests are open again!! Alsooo open requests means PACS full of love being writtenΒ ππΒ Β Β soo yeahhβ¦ todayβs pac will be made in honor of Valentines day just sailing by, a PAC dedicated to how your Valentines will be spent at the side of your F/S. Now this will focus more on your first Valentines together so keep that in mind when choosing....so with that being said LETS GET STARTEDΒ π
todays's muse of love is my idol elizabeth taylor in Cleopatra, a true icon and master of romance, who else to tell you how to spend the day of love with the one we love than the queen herself. we have four piles; intuitively choose the one you're most drawn to.Β
Pile I. A Wink Worth Billions
[2oS, 4oW, 7oC, 2oC, 10oP, KnoC]
Stop being so cheeky pile 1. We get it youβre godβs favorite damn. Literally what other cards could have been more perfect?? Pile 1 get ready for the prettiest Valentineβs Day ever. Most of you havenβt had a Valentineβs Day where things went right, and this person wants to make sure that it goes perfect. Honestly your first Valentines will probably be spent in the early stages of your relationship. Like Iβm not getting that you guys will be together for a long time before Valentineβs comes. So you both are in the state of mind of wondering if you both should play it cool and go casual your first year or if you guys should actually go all out and throw caution to the wind. And you know the thing about you both being together is that you both immediately feel the love with one another.
You both donβt fall in love gradually, itβs more like it comes hard and strong and one minute you both are meeting and the next you both are scrolling for hours on your phones trying to come up with the perfect gift. As I was writing this I got the vision of one of you going back on text convoβs to see if the other person has mentioned something theyβd want or liked. Like thatβs how much one of you is stressing. Although I donβt think itβs in a bad way, more like in a βthe possibilities on what we can do are endlessβ kind of way. For the people that are barely getting to know your person, because I do feel like thereβs that select few who wonβt be serious with their F/S on Valentines, will be asked to bring things to a next level that day. Say we have a couple whoβs barely getting to know each other and want to take it to the next level, the more masculine energy of the two will be more proactive and plan to make the connection more serious. For the people that are already in a relationship with their F/S the day off, Iβm getting that they might pop a big question the day off. Iβm not getting marriage lmao donβt worry, more like talk on the future like moving on or meeting each otherβs parents. Or even planning a trip. Something that signifies making things more serious.
Also, I think that the masculine energy in this connection could be feeling real nervous about planning this as well lmao. Like thereβs an element of βthings are going so well, I donβt want to mess it upβ combined with βbut things would be even better if they said yes.β Ultimately I think your first valentines will make you both stronger at each otherβs side. The bond will be strengthened and new steps will be taken moving forward. So to recap, with the masculine energy itβs going to be all about planning an event around making your relationship more serious. Something pretty that strengthens your unions. And for the other in this connection, it will be more focused on finding the perfect gift. Finding a gift thatβs perfect for them but also doesnβt look like theyβre coming on too strong. Lmao the energy the other person is exuding is equally as nervous, theyβre going to want to take it further as well but will at the same time be nervous about initiating the conversation. Instant red flushes and heart palpitations when their partner initiates though, theyβll feel breathless. + Little tidbits I see include you saving them from doing something emberassing. Say theyβre talking and walking but almost slip, youβll help them last second. Or it could even be something like, if theyβre the masculine energy and you the feminine, they could be talking to try and approach the elephant in the room but start trailing off nervously as they get closer leading you to prompt them enough to broach the topic. I also think that attire will look darker Valentineβs Day.
You both will be wearing darker clothing and if makeup is involved itβs more on the lighter side. Kind of elegant chic. NOW for a special select bunch of you I do see a proposal. I know, Iβm sorry!! This is just for a select few of you I promise, and itβll have to do more with you both being friends before the connection even started. Cause again, the love is still new, but sometimes when you have a long story with someone you just want to marry them as soon as you finally have them in your arms. So nothing out of the blue, donβt worry, more so this is for those going from friends to lovers. Also there will definitely be s8x okay thatβs it bye.Β
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Pile II. The Royal Treatment
[KnoP, 5oW, 7oP, The Justice, 3oP, 10oW, QoP, the chariot]
baby pile twoβs you are all so stubborn. And your future spouse is too. You guys probably have known each other a long time before you guys actually spend a Valentineβs day together. Iβm getting almost like a sad vibe here? Like one of you has physically watched the other go on dates and so on in Valentines day. It could be that you both were friends before you were lovers and going out together is something new but also bittersweet? One of you keeps thinking what it would be like if you both just realized sooner and got together earlier. You guys both want this to be beautiful and right and amazing but you two donβt want to communicate when trying to talk about it. You both are acting like you guys are on the same page when Iβm not even sure you guys are reading the same book
. You both are acting like this is no big deal because the other person is doing so as well. But in reality itβs a very big deal and you guys want to rejoice that finally!! you guys are together. You both might be talking to your friends and family members like βI just want this to be specialβ, and the whole time the other person assumes that you guys arenβt excited. Like I mean this probably happens and goes on until either a day before or the very day of the event. I even think you both argue when the truth comes out. The feminine energy in this connection will not lash out but rather retreat inward and stop talking? Almost like they want to complain but theyβre going to feel like theyβre making a big deal out of nothing and will retreat forward. Now I think the masculine energy in this connection is more new to this whole dating and emotions thing, and even though they donβt really understand how to fix this (thatβs also been bugging them) they donβt want to be shut out on a day where things are supposed to be happy and okay. So I think they approach but it just spirals into a fight. Again you both are soo stubborn so you both will probably be just afraid to admit that you want this day to be celebrated more.
I can see you both arguing. Until one of you just snaps and admits that itβs not fair. As I wrote this I started to hear what it would sound like and it not only sounds, but it feels very in the heat of the moment. βI wanted this to be special and you donβt even care.β is what I heard. The otherβs very confused, not even sure about what theyβre talking about until they start piecing it together. I imagine it going from something very tense and angry to still and warm. A trickle of realization and hope. The masculine energy was the one doing the prodding I think, asking a bunch of questions in alarms and defensiveness. Asking what they did and why are they being ignored. The other then suddenly getting fed up and blowing up. Telling them the truth just to shut them up. I think that you guys are then going to be silent for some time before eventually talking and apologizing. It sounds almost like you both are then taking the time to finally talk about your feelings and leave it all out in the open. After time, we have the chariot card describing the last of it so I can see you both deciding to do something. A quick plan where you both have a destination in mind. One of you is smiling softly while the otherβs making quick jokes as they drive over there. Hands are being held and smiles are being shared. Lots of eye contact once you both arrive to wherever it is you went.
No letting go. + Little additional tidbits I can see is the plans being made after the argument being very adventurous. Maybe itβs a long drive to where you both are going but itβs a celebration to the realization of feelings. A celebration that shouldβve been planned a long time ago. I can see you both touching each other a lot as well. Hands around the waist of the others, neck kisses, kisses on the top of the head, etc. I think people didnβt really expect you guys to last long either or even have much in common which is why it was even more important that you guys celebrated the day of love together, and when you werenβt doing it like it deserved you both felt bummed. We have the masculine being more of a social butterfly in this case so yeah theyβre definitely going to be the one that is badgering and demanding to fix the problem. In this case I could see the feminine being more of an introvert and instead choosing to keep it all in. Yeah, to end this off, I do see a long drive ahead of you both when you choose where to go.Β
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Pile III. Entrancing and Falling
[4oW, 3oP, 7oP, PoP, The Hermit, The lovers]Β
Pile three you guys are the ultimate couple. Now let me start by saying this, MONEY IS BEING SPENT here. Like loads of money. I donβt know if you guys know about the couples that spend close to thousands of dollars for Valentineβs day and treat if like itβs nothing big? Yeah thatβs you both. There are some cultures where itβs like that, where Valentines day is meant to be celebrated in big and meant to go crazy with the theatrics and you both do not disappoint. To be completely honest with you, I keep trying to summon the energy of you guys individually but it doesnβt really come out leading me to believe that you both are locked in and really solid when the days rolls by. Are you guys the type of people that lose their identity when they fall in love? No. That being said, are you guys so enamored that you both think of each other as their world? Yes. So do you both not want to talk to anyone but your own partner the day of Valentines? Again yes lmao.
This is kind of giving me Scorpio Venus energy. Like βI share you every day please just be mine for today.β Or days. Like mentioned before your partner wants to go big. And its liely that each year aftet that theyβll go bigger until they run out of ideas and even then theyβll ask around if thatβsβ their last option. Why last option? Your person likes thinking of their plans for you. They pride themselves in being the one that knows you the most. They pride themselves in having you see how much effort they put into their gift since to them, their act of service, means more than just picking something out. I could see you both going out to little Valentines day parties before the actual day and people asking you and your FS what youβll be doing and your FS just grabbing onto you and shaking their head. Theyβll be telling no one about their plans by the way, they donβt care for others telling them if itβs a good idea or not like this person is so confident in their abilities of knowing you lmao. I can see them planning a trip for you both. Almost like a surprise getaway. It could be to an actual spot outside the country or to something as simple as a weekend spa. Whatever it is it will only involve you both. Itβs going to be their version of a relax spot away from the world. Away from problems and into a world shared only by you two.
Like I said this is so Scorpio Venus, because even though it looks very flashy and big, all you both really crave are closeness and intimacy. Thereβs layers to this. Sweet words are exchanged. Thousands of I love youβs. I think you guys might even be told by other people that see you what a wonderful couple you two make. You both are also very patient with one another in the days you disappear. No rushing, just relaxation and love. Walking to a restaurant holding hands and buying flowers from someone nearby. Feeling the night warm up and being able to wear a more revealing outfit. This is another reason as to why I think you both are going to go on vacation, when trying to intuitively channel I get hot and humid weather. The kind that makes hair curl. Wearing more summer based outfits.
So to recap it would be something beautiful because of the attention to detail. Everything done bigger than need be. But at the same time itβs special because of the intimacy that you both share. Itβs quiet in the way that thereβs peace but electric because of the sensation you keep on sharing that βhey! I think they might be the one.β + additional tidbits Iβd like to add would be that the feminine energy in this connection is holding on more. Kissing, hugging, theyβre the one initiating the contact. Your FS could be a fire sign, particularly Aries or Leo. You both are already very comfortable with each other by the time you go out. One of you could be a serious workaholic that yes gains great money but also doesnβt have much time off so this could again be something that you both are particularly excited about since it means more time together.Β
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[QoW, 5oP, KoW, 7oC, AoC, 4oW, AoS]Β
Pile 4, my previously heartbroken pile. Honestly you donβt know what to expect the day of Valentines. Youβve just decided to go on a new date not long ago prior and youβre not sure where itβs headed. The date you go to before this happens ends up being your future spouse. Itβs exciting and fresh and new and honestly no one can blame you from being excited. Theyβre intelligent, well-spoken and charming. I mean they seem like the complete package. Like I mentioned before you probably havenβt had the best of luck with love when youβre close to meeting them. Itβs possible that you couldβve just gone through a break up that left you feeling emotionally battered. Youβre not wanting to do the whole love thing anymore. Ever dated someone that made you lose your spark? Your previous relationship will have you feeling like this. Youβve gone from being someone full of life, vivacious and bold to maybe someone more insecure and guarded. Protected. So going on a date was something really big for you.
And then going on a date on Valentines day? Something even bigger. But I donβt think youβre getting your hopes up. Almost like youβre excited because speaking with this person was fun. But at the same time, youβre just going with the flow. Letting things fall where they may. They on the other hand, are coming ready. Like they have thought and thought of about a million things they could possibly do at your side that wouldnβt be too much or too boring. You know itβs funny how most of the piles have been trying to keep between that imaginary line of it being just perfect and not too this and not too that. Like Goldilocks, it must be just right. I can see them checking the reviews for places on Yelp or just talking to people around them on what places would be good to dine in or what places theyβve gone to that a person like you would like. I got the funny image of them describing you to the person they talk to like βtheyβre like this and they do this and etc.β and honestly, they might just nail it. This is a more lighthearted version of Valentines.
Thereβs shy looks and glances but also hand holding and the occasional kiss. Thereβs so much banter and dry wit passed around too. I get the image of you both talking with big smiles on your faces as you eat dinner. Itβs not like your trying to keep the smile up, itβs more like it wonβt like your face. You both are just so amused with each other, like youβve met your perfect match. You share the same humor and you see of yourself in each other. What they are is what you are as well. I think you both start acting much more romantic as the night is ending. Like you guys start seeing at each otherβs lips, or casually touching at each other more. The attraction is real, but so it the chemistry between you as people. So to recap, we have you and this person being together after a tough period in your life. Nothing serious but leading up to it as the night goes on. + Additional tidbits I get from this pile is the Aries like behavior that you both have when together. Being brave and bold with one another, laughing and teasing the other person. They will be more well off than you are so be prepared to have them pay for everything. This is the type of person that even because itβs your first dates out with each other, they will not allow you to contribute a single penny. Theyβre definitely more affectionate as well, you being more awkward and not knowing how to respond to the flirtatious remarks but being a pro at handling the teasing. Theyβre very well spoken like I mentioned earlier so be careful cause they are great at flirting and making someone blush. You both talk about interests a lot the day of Valentines, and you guys could focus a lot on doing little things for each other. For example, say you go out to dinner; one person will put their hand on the small of the back of the other, push out their chair, etc. You both will be very attentive to the needs of the other person. I could see them also being in a field having to do with Law, that message came to me very randomly but take that as you may.Β
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Okay that's all! That was a long reading and it definitely has so many mistakes but I hope you enjoy reading! Have a great day/night and take care xx πππππ