Beyond the Kitchen Doors

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[storieddreams77]

❤️⚾️❤️⚾️❤️⚾️❤️

[chef-johnny]

bae. 

[mirkokosmos]

[juuliaroberts]

I love Mariah Carey

[tastefullyoffensive]

Please unmute this.

[chef-johnny]

I LOVE MARIAH CAREY

[chef-johnny]

So I got engaged to the most perfect man this past Monday. 

[brimalandro]

[lissetfsf]

[chef-johnny]

All the single ladies...

[joeydeangelis]

[seedy]

white girls

[k1mkardashian]

[c-n-u-deactivated20150824]

[jettestblack-deactivated2017080]

Lol all of these really brighten my day

[black--lamb-blog]

OMGGGGG WHO IS THISS

[judithbuttplug]

me, this is me.

[chef-johnny]

OMGGGGGGGGGG

[amiete]

[twilight-theater]

[warpedrhythm-deactivated2017061]

We finally destroyed the sanctity of marriage. Reblog to celebrate.

[brndnslvra]

Obeezy fucking snapped 

[imsoshive]

[caveat-empt0r]

Omg who made that gif ????😂

[chef-johnny]

THAT GIF THO /dead

[subtubitles]

[chef-johnny]

So theres this girl who I've got a thing for, and we're moving towards getting into a relationship. I've tried to explain to her the chaos of a kitchen, and what it is that I do, and why I am the way I am sometimes, and she said she was fine with it. Until I reblogged your list of things to know before marrying a chef. Now, she's pretty much gone cold and I've got no idea how to fix it. Have you been in this situation before?? Is it even worth fixing it?

Damn dude. Looks like you did the right thing by being upfront about the life. Thats what I always did. To be brutally honest, if she ran away after reading a list, she wouldn't have stayed long if she hadn't. It sucks, but you’ve got to know where you stand in your life. I always put my career first and was upfront about that when I met someone. 

 I was with my ex for 5 years. While we we’re together, I was a line cook, a sous chef, a chef de cuisine, and an exec chef. At times, it was very difficult but he understood, somewhat. In the end we just wanted different things. Luckily I'm with someone now thats a baker, so he gets it. 

TL;DR: You need to find the person thats wiling to be by your side in this life we chose. Its very hard, but the rewards are great. That girl bounced without ever giving anything a chance. You need to chose whats best for you: go after the girl and sacrifice your career? Or let that one go, focus on cooking, and find someone who understands. 

- Johnny

[deep-sexts]

[lessdanthree]

[chef-johnny]

Forever on repeat. So fucking amazing.