Chocolate Sugah

Work smarter not harder.

[chocolatesugah]

Don’t Let These W-2 Men Fool You

Listen ladies, y’all know the holidays are over and tax return season is approaching if not already here for some people. So don’t let these men fool you into thinking they want a long term arrangement, when really all they can afford is one meet.

Do not lowball yourself, if he uses the excuse of wanting to establish chemistry. Cool. He still needs to compensate you for platonic time spent together and travel expenses. Don’t get caught up in the “eye on the prize method”. There are no such things as a “test-drive”. Your pussy might be worth a Mercedes, but it isn’t built like one.

[puresoul30-deactivated20141121]

Sugar Blacklist!!

Ladies especially in the DMV don’t waste your time on the perv. 60 year old loser in Reston, VA very much into Brown sugar consistently messaged me, kept trying to send pictures of his supposed 11 inch Johnson (huge exaggeration) refused to meet me for drinks at the arranged venue because he wanted to me to come upstairs for drinks in his room. Claims he’s new to SA but was a complete sociopath and kept referring to the transaction of $5k to meet me upstairs in his room. I waited 30 min at the rooftop bar as he made excuses to not come down for drinks and get to know me as planned and kept texting me to come upstairs. Not even gonna waste too much time relaying all the bullshit he said, just a disgusting man looking to prey on someone. Possible weirdo or cop. Honey, you sought me out for a date let’s not be foolish enough to think I will put myself in danger for a supposed 5k. Bye with all that 👋👋👋

Name: Ed Travis Phone:[phone]

[africansugarbaby]

Be aware dolls

[chocolatesugah]

I’m concerned about my following..

I’m noticing more pizza avatars and non-sw blogs more than ever, I’ve been trying to block them, but it’s more than I can handle. Plus recently their have been a lot of attempts to hack me. (I think I have that under control). Are there any apps to help me block and unfollow these accounts in bulk? Or am I stuck manually.

[traplikebossy]

Your sex worker friends are not your personal ATM machines.

Don’t show up to dinner/the club/the movies/etc. without money because your friend is a sex worker and you just assume that because they make a lot of fast cash that they can just spot you without a problem.

Don’t fuck up on your rent or bills and hit us up asking for ridiculous amounts of money out of the blue.

Don’t ask us how much we make. It’s none of your fucking business. The money we make and save up is for US to put towards OUR future and personal enjoyment.

And don’t ever fucking try to guilt trip us when we refuse to give you our hard earned money.

I’m actually about to cut everyone off in my life who knows that I do SW because the boldness and entitlement has gotten so real lately. I’m here for helping out the people I care about when they actually need it. But not those who act irresponsibly and use me as some sort of safety net. Nah, bitch. You’re on your own.

[kdmrdryvhsh-deactivated20240121]

This is getting ridiculous. If you have friends who show up to eat with no money I’d hope you both already discussed who’s paying for what. The idea that this is a sex worker…. Nevermind. I’m just so over this shit. lmao

[traplikebossy]

Oh no sweetie don’t “Nevermind” my post.. SAY WHAT THE FUCK YOU WANNA SAY! Do you want this Bossy Drag too? Take a minute and decide if you really wanna get into it, hun.

[chocolatesugah]

I’m convinced all the bitches who have counter-arguments for our “I love my friends but hate when they leech” post. Are bare minimum twitter bitches and bitches who leech, and fuck men for free (or McDonald’s) Somehow they can’t wrap their head around the concept that friendship does not = automatic access to my bank account.

“ I got it, you got it.” Is reserved for motherfuckers that bring to the table. Not those who wait till we at the table, ate our meal, then realize they “forgot” they wallet at home.

[chocolatesugah]

Where I’m at there really isn’t any good places to freestyle. My college is in the country. Any pointer?

If you have transportation, you might have to go into the nearest city. This might actually benefit you, its added discretion for your side. I caution be careful traveling long-distances. Aim to return home before dark, be cautious of being followed. General safety. Also i warn, depending on the nearby city, what you make in your arrangement might all go back to your commute. Make sure it is worth it. 

[chocolatesugah]

Do you know of any good sites for black SBs?

Really no, i seriously recommend freestyling. Even just dressing up to go the post office, its the holidays, business men are frequenting hotels, post office, fax places,and hotels more. 

[chocolatesugah]

Would you just get a fake ID or something? Honestly sounds like a better idea to me. I’m 19 but been in the bowl a year and need one bad but I dont know how to trust for one.

No, I have plenty access to getting a fake ID. I choose not to. Getting caught using a fake could result in jail time and serious fines. I rather get caught drinking and be able to use the excuse, “i’m young and dumb..please don’t destroy my future..it was once.” Blame would more heavily fall on the club. I might actually get away with a small fine or a slap on the wrist (that’s based on my county) Rather than getting caught with a fake, that means the crime (drinking illegally & possessing and utilizing false documentation) just cant be attributed to being young and dumb. Removing blame heavily from the club and to me. 

[chocolatesugah]

Hi! What’s GC?

Group Chat

[chocolatesugah]

How much can I trust the 'background verified' tab on SA? I'm supposed to be ubered to ATL to meet a POT at a restaurant and he's got the background verified sticker and a networth of 2mil but the restaurant is super cheap and sketchy looking on yelp. Maybe he's just being discreet but it made me uneasy as hell

I wouldn’t go.  SA is already sketch by itself. I don’t believe they have SB’s best interest at heart period. He could just be trying to be discreet, but always follow your gut. I rather you miss out on a pot, than not come home safe.

[chocolatesugah]

What's your overall fav messaging app to use

Google Voice. I believe it notifies people that call its (Google Voice app) but i have never had men complained. Typically they text anyways. 

[chocolatesugah]

I have a POT who meets all of my requirements and has agreed to my set weekly allowance but he's the type that prefers an emotional connection over anything else. I'm not really that type of person so do you have any tips on how I can get more comfortable giving him what he wants emotionally??

Your allowance is your motivation. If you cant fake a smile, listening ear, fake tear, for that check. You need a new line of work. 

[chocolatesugah]

Someone on Twitter posted a screenshot of blogs to follow and one of them was yours, none of the blogs were mine but I reported it anyway 💀her and another account are giving away "tips" most of them include "being pretty" "no sex" etc like sis please stop lying to these young girls so they won't end up hurt or even worse. Can send you the screenshots if you want

Definitely send me this please. I don’t wanna any blogs handing out misconceptions of SW and advertising me. Sugaring is sex work and should be advertised as such. 

[chocolatesugah]

I'm an under 21 SB like yourself and was wondering if you ever find that it gets in the way of meeting certain SD's or if it's not really that important? If so how do you deal with that?

This limitation was very frustrating when I began freestyling, and sometimes cost me a rather large “tip”. At first im sure it cost me a lot of Pot’s. When trying to go to restaurants/bars, it was difficult because i wasn't “technically able to sit at the bar. So i would sweet talk employees into giving me tables (not booths) in plain sight of the bar. Used Tinder to find people who were bartenders/worked at clubs i was interested in turning into hunting grounds. I would then flirt them up, never surpassing a ‘friendly-flirt” and utilize that “in” to sit at bars. I always tip servers/waiters graciously. Bouncers also are your friends, some more upscale clubs don’t ID me. Its that “displacement theory” they assume security/bouncers have done their job. 

*also never over-frequent the same location.  

[chocolatesugah]

i hope this isn’t a stupid question but i’m still in the midst of my research before i completely dive into the bowl ,, but when you do go freestyling and find a pot would you treat them as vanilla in a sense and use your real name or does the no personal information rule still stand?

I treat him as a Vanilla but i still utilize discretion. My goal is to run his pockets, nothing more nothing less. I carry around personal cards (less informal business cards), very simple (but not cheap looking) with my Sugar Identity. I never expose any personal identification cards in front of POT’s ( i literally only carry my license-taped to my breast). I might carry a card (if this is past a second date - meaning a full payment has been received). 

[chocolatesugah]

I’m really over the luxuries.

I haven’t become a bare minimum twitter bitch please believe me. Lately though, I’ve been sugaring strictly for goals. Tuition (secured), car insurance (secured), healthcare (I️ just get them to cover medical expenses), bills (mostly secured) , groceries (secured), etc. All that shit.

I’m so over building my closet and makeup collection (unless some super new shit drop), over traveling with irritating ass men, fancy dinners, all that. I once had a mentor tell me once, “if you do right, you won’t have to do it for long.” She was absolutely right. I️ am not quitting sugaring, but I have fallen back and restricted myself to two SD’s.

*tuition screenshots were posted in GC. Sorry Tumblr.

[pintobeanx]

The names of my rapists:

Tremayne Clarkson - I was intoxicated and he knew it. I also said I didn’t want to multiple times and we had a mutual agreement that sex would not happen. Has two different sexual violent complaints against him.

Jamaal Rhodes - intoxicated again and he knew it (texts proving it). He admitted in our school hearing to hearing me say he was hurting me but also said he didn’t see it as grounds to stop. Changed his story 3 times. Even in texts stated that he was just “in the zone” or moment.

Both go to the university of south Alabama. Both found not responsible.

[pintobeanx]

Please reblog. Don’t let them get away with what they’ve done. Everyone should know who they are. Employers, women, their fraternity alpha phi alpha and everything in between.

You cannot rape someone and get away with it. I refuse to stay silent and settle for not receiving justice.

[whyher-words-deactivated2016092]

Please reblog this, they deserve to be held accountable for their disgusting actions as well as U. of South Alabama

[yourstudentloans-deactivated201]

DUDE I GO TO THE UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH ALABAMA AND I KNOW BOTH OF THESE NIGGAS! I LITERALLY HAD A FUCKING RUN IN WITH ONE OF EM AND ALMOST GOT RAPED. REBLOG THE FUCK OUT OF THIS FOR HER. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

[liberal-girl1815]

The more we know, the more we can protect ourselves and other women.

[divya-adu]

This is so scary.. wow I hope they get sent to jail …

[immafreebitxh]

Is this them?!

[pintobeanx]

Yes

[mralexander904]

Yoooo this nigga follow me on the gram smfh

[teatoppy]

I AM HERE FOR RAPIST BEING EXPOSED

[pumpkinmcqueen]

EXPOSE THEM

[fucklovepayme]

i couldn’t scroll past this without reblogging. I’m tired of schools sweeping rape under the rug.

[chocolatesugah]

It may not be a salt man, but we boosting rapist.

[chocolatesugah]

“Do you meet on your period/what’s your period hygiene ritual?”

No. When I first joined the bowl I was irresponsible and accidentally planned a few dates while I was on my cycle. To avoid this download a period tracker or mark a calendar to help you estimate your period and plan meetings accordingly.

*to still pass go and collect bank. I drank a mix of vinegar, lemon juice, and water. At regular intervals throughout the day and the entire way to my meet (using gum to mask the scent).

Change your pad/tampon/cup etc every 1-2 hours. Some people and companies recommend every 2-3 or 3-4. If you have a heavy flow or prefer to not walk around smelling like Posideon, stick to 1-2. *note depending on your flow 1-2 hours may not even be fast enough (espically if coughing and sneezing a lot).

Wash morning and night.

Carry wipes, preferably non-scented and flushable and alcohol free. Utilize wipes instead of tissue. Also you can use both (for more heavy flows) initially tissue and then wipes.

Drink warm water and avoid greasy foods.

Try to remain active (this helps lighten your flow). Also since your metabolism speeds up during your period, being active may help you shed a few pounds.

If anyone had tips of their own to recommend feel free to reblog or comment.

*even if you feel you don’t need to change your pad/tampon/cup etc, try to take a bathroom break to freshen up with the wipes.

[sugarxbabyanna-blog]

Real men don’t care about it.

I’ve had 2 of my SDs fuck me while on my cycle 🙃 “ you’re a women, it’s natural, it happens ” or maybe I have bomb ass pussy.

[aqueenirl]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^You are a white woman huh?

[chocolatesugah]

Catch my wig.