I’ve been building a little browser-based digital grimoire / webgrimoire for my site, and it’s finally at the point where I want to let other people try it.
https://shrine404.neocities.org/grimoire
It’s still in beta, so im basically just asking people to poke around, play with it, and tell me what works, what feels clunky, and what you’d want added.
It's not a productivity app so don't go in expecting that. I wanted it to feel personal, decorative, a little old-web, a little devotional lol..
I worked really hard on this so if you can give me feedback and maybe reblog I'd be so happy. Again it is FREEEEE.
What it can do right now:
☾ create entries for different sections like spells, materia / correspondences, dreams, lore, links, journals, divination / omens, and more
☾ has an altar / webshrine area where you can make little devotional pages with things like:
shrine images
candles
offerings
blinkies / extra shrine images
shrine frames / styles
relics / decorative bits
“now playing” style details
guestbook / shrine personality features
☾ has a practitioner / about area so you can personalize it with your own path, signs, beliefs, deities, tools, icon, etc.
☾ includes writing tools so entries can be more than just plain text — invocation blocks, prayer cards, omen / warning boxes, poetry formatting, ritual steps, foldaway notes, dividers, and other little text charms
☾ lets entries link to each other, so it can work more like a tiny personal web or wiki instead of just isolated notes
☾ has optional ritual metadata / seals for entries, but they can also be turned off if they don’t fit the page
☾ has backup / export options all grouped together, including a full HTML export option
☾ has different palette / theme options in settings, including lighter and darker modes for readability / vibe
☾ has a header image option and other little personalization settings
A few important notes before using it:
𖹭 it is still a beta
there may still be bugs, odd save issues, awkward layout moments, or parts that need smoothing out
𖹭 it currently saves in your browser storage
so if you use it a lot, please export backups regularly
𖹭 it’s meant to be a little expressive and decorative
so some features lean more “digital shrine / personal archive / weird old web object” than “minimal serious app”
If you try it, I’d especially love feedback on:
✴︎ anything confusing or unintuitive
✴︎ bugs / things not saving properly
✴︎ sections or features you wish existed
✴︎ readability / accessibility issues
✴︎ whether the altar / shrine side feels fun enough
✴︎ whether the writing tools feel useful or too much
✴︎ anything that feels especially charming, broken, annoying, inspiring, messy, or missing
Basically: if you use it and have thoughts, I want them.
This is my weird little beta grimoire child and I’m trying to make it genuinely beautiful and fun to use, not just functional.
Also, if you like strange personal websites / old web things / occult tools / shrine pages / browser toys, you may enjoy it just for that alone.
♇ virgo in the ascendant shows that when people first interact with them, they can be seen as people who are communicative, adaptable and very elegant looking or they could have a very elegant energy. it's mostly because they deemed as someone who is put together and organised, [though sometimes it seems like the men always show the unkept side of virgo], howbeit, they can also appear as off-standish people, people who might display themselves as better than other people or very fussy.
♇ with the first house also ruling self-identity, virgo risings identify themselves as people who need to deliver the best they can. they're the perfectionists of the zodiacs and their security can become low when they feel like they could've done better from what they have created. their creations is like a service to people, they might not notice they feel that way, but whatever they create comes from a form of wanting validation from other people.
♇ moving onto the first house ruling the impression you make on others, with virgo being in this house indicates that virgo ascendants give the impression of the obsessed perfectionist, or people who like to be left alone. [along with other virgo placements], with its sister sign, pisces, virgo rules the hermit, giving the impression that they're people on a path to better themselves, and it doesnt need to be something they want to create, it can include wanting to better themselves from within and the atmosphere they're in.
♇ the first house in astrology is one of the topics that conveys about the personality one would have, to have virgo in the first house shows that you can be a very encouraging person, someone who is modest and sensible, however, the same person can be very self-doubting, and not only to themselves but to other people as well. they can be people who are very critical of others and can be considered as very stiff people, individuals who need to relax.
♇ mercury being the planetary ruler of virgo, it shows that these people can be very multi and adaptable, it's the main planet that gives them the skills and the need to be a jack of all trades. their mercury planet makes them curious, comical and witty but with the virgo sign also being linked with ceres, it gives them the nurturing and providing instinct. being able to give themselves self-care and quite a motherly aura to themselves and to other people.
♇ the ascendant being famous for being one of the topics that rule over the appearance and even the main topic. i figured that virgo risings look more feline than leo risings, specifically due to the eyes, even though they're mercurial and could have droopy eyes, the one i've seen are likely ones to have up-turned eyes, especially the black women, chloe bailey and ice spice; both virgo risings. virgo risings also have very slim waists and thick thighs, [especially if they have strong jupiter in their charts], and they have the type of head-shape that is very anime/alien-like.
♇ with their personal ambition? i have mentioned that virgo risings tend to have a personal ambition of bettering their skills, they're the type of people who want/like to prove their enemies wrong and even defeat them. they might get criticised a lot and it doesnt necessarily have to be from the public, it could be from their friends and family figures, and whenever they're told they cannot do anything, they put their passion and ardent completing the impossible. it can also be from the theme of validation for themselves or from other people.
♇ the ascendant being one of the topics that rules over strengths and weaknesses, having virgo in the first house implies that an individual would have the strength of being self-improving, efficient and mentally agile, though their weaknesses could list into them being cynical people. people who are arrogant and people who can be overly-sensitive.
♇ moving onto how their project their personalities, they project themselves to be encyclopedias, with virgo ascendants there's usually something specific they're extremely good at. where it be astrology, mythology, anime or fictional story lores, they'd be a virgo rising who would take great interest and skill in it, think of young sheldon. virgo risings project their personalities to be those who are always on top of their game, they likely hate to be seen at their lowest, so they're likely one to perform a confident personality that may or may not be their own. [mercurial themes].
♇ onto the subject of how they view the world, virgo risings may view life as something that has many obstacles, especially since majority of them would have aquarius in their sixth house, they could perceive life to be erratic and as something that could bring much troubles to them. they could view life as something to make connections with and as something that needs to be taken care of or things wont go the way it would go for them.
♇ with their self-image, it can be quite difficult for these people, as they're mutable risings, they can sometimes not understand what they look like or who they are. this can cause them to be someone who is constantly changing, it can be a trigger for them to want to be on their own and focus on their own mental-state. they're very self-introspecting and could be the type of people who can worry about their weight, as virgo does rule the stomach. their security levels are very brittle and people could be aware of that which causes them to try and be someone who appears not that way.
♇ ending with the impact they have or leave on others, virgo risings tend to make others feel ambitious into perfecting their skills. if it goes wrong the impact they could leave on others is to make them feel insecure and not good enough. virgo risings can make others feel taken care of or could make them feel like they are of a lot value, which is a really good thing. the impact they could also leave on others is making people believe in themselves.
I just want to say your observations on venus in the 12th house are my favorite interpretations so far
Thank you so much!!
As a 12th house Venus native, (and mercury, sigh) I feel like people don't really explore the nature of the 12th house as much. It's ruled by Pisces, sure, but the confusion of pisces + the subconscious nature of the 12th house make for a very hard-to-reach combination. It's hidden to everyone, including ourselves.
Like Pisces, a water sign, it's like the depths of the ocean. The further you go, the more pressure and intensity you feel. It's hard to access, and it's easier to return to the surface.
Even if you feel you understand yourself with this placement, I feel as though you still seem like an enigma to those who try to understand you. There's layers to this placement.
⭐ jupiter 1st house you are unable to hide your emotions and have a very open, strong personality. you come across as friendly, fun, and sincere. your presence has a strong impact on those around you. you are seen as an extrovert, even if you think you aren’t. the way you act tends to appear very exaggerated, and you likely use a lot of gestures. you have a more optimistic and positive attitude on life; you don’t really let negative feelings easily take over you. you have faith that everything will work out for you
💘 jupiter 2nd house you have the ability to chase your goals and achieve them. you have a strong sense of assurance that things will go your way. you are attracted to the finer things in life, which could result in you making unnecessary purchases. you take pleasure in shopping, giving gifts, and overspending. in spite of this, you probably choose not to worry too much because you know that money will always find its way back. you may come from a wealthy background, or you will work for it. nonetheless, you will gain more easily than others
⭐ jupiter 3rd house you are able to express yourself clearly. you have the ability to effortlessly attract people with your good storytelling skills. you have an endless amount of curiosity and ideas. not to mention, you are highly humorous and witty. because of your knowledge and communication skills, you may find many opportunities in these fields. you might even be skilled at public speaking. you easily learn things and can soak up many subjects. you are also very sociable and most often have good relations with your siblings and neighbors
💘 jupiter 4th house you could have enjoyed a pleasant, secure childhood filled with prosperity. perhaps your family raised you in a house with just enough space for you to roam around. throughout your early years, your relatives were very much present. your family may have been very generous and supportive of you. your parents could’ve encouraged you to expand your mind by passing their knowledge and morals on to you. you may be drawn towards history, cultures, or languages. you are mainly guided by your instinct
⭐ jupiter 5th house you are an extremely creative person and could have a lot of hobbies that you tend to overindulge in. you’re probably someone who loves learning about different cultures and languages. you have a strong inner child, and perhaps your parents could have supported you in pursuing creative activities. you could be considered the “life of the party” because of your fun-loving nature. you’re endowed with confidence, and you may feel like the spotlight is always on you. you never get bored as you have a lot of things to do
💘 jupiter 6th house you are blessed with a strong and healthy body, and if you do become sick, you’ll recover quickly. you usually have a high pain tolerance. speaking of health, you probably had the thought of becoming a vegan at some point. you could find jobs easily, and you often get along well with your coworkers. people just enjoy working with you. you have a helpful nature and will not hesitate to lend a hand. you love feeling productive and useful to others. you could also dream to have a lot of pets
⭐ jupiter 7th house your companions might think of you as someone who is bright and cheerful. your relationships could be very beneficial for you. you are drawn to well-educated people and those who come from different backgrounds than you. you may want a relationship with a lot of independence and freedom. you most likely possess a ton of knowledge and wisdom that you are eager to share. also, you have the ability to see and understand other people’s perspectives, which makes you an open-minded person. others could turn to you for advice
💘 jupiter 8th house this may indicate receiving an inheritance from a spouse or a family member. you might even meet a wealthy spouse. you can get into situations where people just randomly offer you things. you might find that psychology, taboos, and spirituality interest you. you have a keen sense of intuition and can easily tell when something’s wrong. you are able to read people and their motives. you are also fascinated by life-and-death topics. and because of your perceptive mind, you could be a researcher or investigator
⭐ jupiter 9th house you are an intellectual person who may be very interested in learning new languages and cultures. perhaps you speak more than two languages. this can also imply that you often travel and wish to broaden your horizons. you can find yourself drawn to foreign people, cultures, or ideas. you are wise and optimistic, with a visionary mind that is able to see the bigger picture. you like learning new things, and you might do well in higher education. you are also good at teaching others
💘 jupiter 10th house you may have a good reputation, and people just seem to naturally like you. you might find that others always listen to you and follow your lead, relying on you for guidance. you are seen as a spiritual person who has strong morals and principles. also, people think of you as someone social; you can have a large circle of friends and acquaintances. it is natural for you to be lucky in building your career since opportunities come your way. you may also want to work on your own and dislike being told what to do
⭐ jupiter 11th house you enjoy socializing and may spend a lot of time with your friends. you could also have a lot of long-term friends. you may seem to know a lot of people and have many connections. you tend to win others over easily because people tend to favor you a lot. others could see you as a natural leader since you have good cooperation skills and a helpful nature. you enjoy working on a team and could benefit from groups and partnerships. you could find friends who are loyal and will help you grow
💘 jupiter 12th house everything just seems to go your way, even if you don’t realize it. you could even feel protected; maybe you’ve experienced many dangerous situations but still managed to come out safe. you may have a very broad imagination and the ability to turn your ideas into reality. you have a tendency to feel alone, and you may like it this way. you could have a big interest in spirituality. you love digging deep into things, mainly about yourself. you have an endless curiosity about the hidden things in life. you could also have a lot of prophetic dreams
a quick introduction to the 12 houses and what they mean in your natal chart! this post is not equivalent to proper research, but is meant as a short run-down or a cheat paper for beginners! my ask box is always open for questions or anything else (but pls read the guidelines beforehand!).
THE 1ST HOUSE / THE ASCENDANT
despite popular belief, the ascendant is in my opinion not necessarily the "mask" we wear in front of others, but more so the way we express ourselves. many confuse its meaning with our sun sign, but while that would describe our real identity and ego, the ascendant more so describes our self-expression and the impression others have of us. some people grow more into their ascendant sign with time, but it usually always influences us in a type of way, may that be our clothing style, our way of speaking, or our outer appearance in general. i'd say our rising sign is the most prominent when we first step into a room, exchange the first few words with a new friend, or just pass by somebody on the street!
the first house is ruled by aries/mars.
THE 2ND HOUSE
as the house of possession, this house is all about money, material things, and other things in life we can own (which is not always limited to the tangible). it can tell us our relationship with money, how we deal with it and how we like to spend (or not) it. it may also indicate if we come from a wealthy background or if we come to money later in life (or if we don't).
the second house is ruled by taurus/venus.
THE 3RD HOUSE
as the house of communication, this house is all about your social skills, circles, and relationships. this house highlights mental connections with those close to us. that may be family members like our siblings, our friends, or even our neighbors! early education also falls under this house, as well as how and with who we like to communicate. it's easy to mix up with mercury, but it can show you a deeper inside in your communication, especially if your mercury sign and 3rd house sign differ from each other.
the third house is ruled by gemini/mercury.
THE 4TH HOUSE / THE IMUM COELI
the imum coeli is said to indicate our heritage, home, and where we are from. it can tell us where and how we live during our life, or even during our childhood. someone with their 4th house in cancer may be way more emotionally attached to their home than someone with their 4th house placed in aquarius.
the fourth house is ruled by cancer/the moon.
THE 5TH HOUSE
as the house of pleasure, it can show us the areas where we like to be most creative. it also covers the areas of procreation and children, but also artistic creation and culture. the 5th house also rules romance and romantic relationships, this house is really all about what brings us pleasure. it can show us how we view those relationships, having kids and being around children, and how we feel most creative.
the fifth house is ruled by leo/the sun.
THE 6TH HOUSE
as the house of health, this house is all about what the name entales: our health! it is said that the sign in which it falls can even indicate with what areas of the body we will have to most issues in life. since the signs are also always associated with body parts, for example, aries is commonly assigned to the head, taurus with the throat, and gemini with hands, etc.
the sixth house is ruled by virgo/mercury.
THE 7TH HOUSE / THE DESCENDANT
the descendant is said to be all about "the other". it's one of the strongest indicators to look for when searching for signs of a future spouse/partner. whatever sign it falls into might tell you some traits your potential spouse/partner may have. it may also tell us what traits we are generally attracted to in others. if the 7th house falls into taurus for example, it may indicate that we are attracted to reliable and romantic partners, who ground us and value materialistic things.
the seventh house is ruled by libra/venus.
THE 8TH HOUSE
the eighth house is often referred to as the house of sex, but it also is the house of transformation, (re-)birth, and death. it can tell us about the possession of others, how we transform throughout life, and how we might die. ruled by scorpio/pluto, this house is also all about jealousy, passion, and mystery.
the eighth house is ruled by scorpio/pluto.
THE 9TH HOUSE
as the house of philosophy, it's all about higher education, long-distance travel, and discovery. it can tell us where or how in life we will further our horizons and where higher education or travel may play a more important role. however, it can also show us where we might be prone to over-enthusiasm and over-spending.
the nineth house is ruled by sagittarius/jupiter.
THE 10TH HOUSE / THE MIDHEAVEN
the midheaven is said to indicate our career, social status, and work life. it's the most prominent when we are (big surprise) at work or school. it can tell us our attitude towards working and how we behave at the workplace. many astrologers also use this to see which career is best suited for someone. someone with a leo mc, for example, would love to be in the spotlight, would love to pursue a creative career, while someone with a capricorn mc may be more of a logical worker, who needs clear structure and realistic goals in order to feel fulfilled with their work.
the tenth house is ruled by capricorn/saturn.
THE 11TH HOUSE
as the house of community, it's all about our friendships, and social circles, but also about networking, organizations, and anything that relates to our community. it also rules over our hopes and dreams, and anything we might want to achieve. it's all about the collective and what we can achieve together as a community, which includes giving and taking from the people around you.
the eleventh house is ruled by aquarius/uranus.
THE 12TH HOUSE
as the house of the subconscious, it's all about the unseen, of shadow, our dreams, and illusions. it often can indicate about "hidden" abilities or traits we have, and in the chart, it can cloud a certain area in life by making it untangible, or hard to reach for our conscious mind. it also can show how we feel towards spirituality (together with the 9th house).
the twelveth house is ruled by pisces/neptune.
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sun-ascendant, sun 1h, leo rising ☀️ thick, voluptuous hair. a striking hair. a big, cheery smile. bright personalities. easily stands out. broad shoulder. distinctive nose. strong chin. tall to average in height. almond eyes. expressive. good posture. feline features. sociable. have natural leadership qualities
moon-ascendant, moon 1h, cancer rising 🌙 round, plump features. may appear young. a motherly, soft nature. full cheeks. prone to gain weight. emotions can be seen easily. curved body. small face. round-shaped face. full lips. short to medium in height. delicate, sensitive, and gentle
mercury-ascendant, mercury 1h, gemini and virgo rising 💚 a narrow, slim face. quick, agile movements. fast reflexes. long limbs. bright, expressive eyes. high cheekbones. long fingers. wide forehead. average to tall in height. youthful look. humorous. a versatile nature. amazing storyteller
venus-ascendant, venus 1h, taurus and libra rising 💘 plump, pouty lips. rosy cheeks. feminine beauty. aesthetically pleasing. diamond or oval-shaped face. graceful. curvy. full cheeks. luscious hair. conventionally attractive. symmetrical features. glamorous, charming, and fashionable
mars-ascendant, mars 1h, aries rising 🔥 muscular appearance. a fierce look. a reddish tone. prominent forehead. intimidating eyes. dominant. an athletic body. well-built stature. babyfaced. prominent brows. square-shaped jaw. physically strong and active. broad shoulders. can seem naturally confident
jupiter-ascendant, jupiter 1h, sagittarius rising 🌻 a large, radiant smile. oval and long-shaped face. strong, prominent legs. average to tall height. thick thighs. big, open features. sparkling, bright eyes. wide forehead. thick hair. may come off as wise. optimistic, outgoing, and friendly
saturn-ascendant, saturn 1h, capricorn rising 🪐 often tall and slim. a sharp jawline. a serious gaze. a dry, cold aura. pale skin tone. bony. perceived as shy or reserved. lack of color. nonchalant. simple, casual style. broad teeth. high cheekbones. chiseled features. grounded and mature
uranus-ascendant, uranus 1h, aquarius rising 💠 unique features. tall and usually slim. a distinct-shaped face, typically wide. long, well-shaped legs. a long, lean frame. high cheekbones. angular features. prominent forehead. unconventional fashion. a bizarre, vivacious personality. fascinating
neptune-ascendant, neptune 1h, pisces rising 💫 big, watery eyes. dreamy. soft features. thick, long eyelashes. bushy eyebrows. is adept at blending in, like a chameleon. a soothing presence. compassionate. constantly changing their appearance. artistic. looks otherworldly. short to medium-sized
pluto-ascendant, pluto 1h, scorpio rising 🖤 intense gaze. eyes that hypnotize. deep-set eyes. sharp features. arched eyebrows. a distinct nose. dark facial features. strong jawline. will stare. usually pale. unforgettable, mysterious, and magnetic. an alluring aura. stands out. average height
I just want to say your observations on venus in the 12th house are my favorite interpretations so far
Thank you so much!!
As a 12th house Venus native, (and mercury, sigh) I feel like people don't really explore the nature of the 12th house as much. It's ruled by Pisces, sure, but the confusion of pisces + the subconscious nature of the 12th house make for a very hard-to-reach combination. It's hidden to everyone, including ourselves.
Like Pisces, a water sign, it's like the depths of the ocean. The further you go, the more pressure and intensity you feel. It's hard to access, and it's easier to return to the surface.
Even if you feel you understand yourself with this placement, I feel as though you still seem like an enigma to those who try to understand you. There's layers to this placement.
How you connect with others: 7th house and 8th house
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When talking about the 8th house in regards to relationships, the first thing that we think of is sex, however the 8th house rules sex because it is all about any type of deeper intimacy in any committed connection. Our 7th house tells us how we relate to others and what type of connections we like to establish with others but the 8th house can tell more about what you need in order to nurture and establish a deeper connection with someone. Of course many other things in the chart are very telling of how you connect with others such as Moon or Venus, but in this post I'll focus on the the 8th house which is all about going past that one-on-one interaction (7th house) to really let the other person in, which is why you may or may not be comfortable with your 8th house energy. This house is very telling of the type of energy you need in order to build trust and strong binding and also how you behave with the people you trust
*Please note:
If you're using placidus and you find that you're in situation where for example you're a water ASC but your 8th house is ruled by water and not air just pay attention to the 7th house description of water asc and the 8th description of fire asc and so on. If your 7th and 8th house are ruled by the same sign for example Virgo, these descriptions still apply cause the following sign (Libra) will still occupy some of the 8th house but you could also relate to the earth 8th house description of air risings
Planets and the rest of the chart will give more nuance and layers to these energies
Earth risings really want to get to know someone on a really deep level due to water DSC. They don't necessarily overshare (they very much can), but they are the ones who can get through to others, they're the type to want to make small talk vulnerable or deep right away and you will notice this with how easy it is for them to get through to others. They are very good listeners and can easily make people feel loved and appreciated even through a casual interaction. They do this because they want to know who someone is deep down so when intimacy comes they feel free enough to show their wilder, adventurous or even childish side without being judged since they have fire 8th house. They want to be pampered back and feel a little "selfish" and free and dominate the situation or their partner doing so. I like to think of it as they charm people in (water 7th house) so they can be adored (fire 8th house) but not in a malicious way of course. The type of dynamic they seek with people they trust always involves playfulness, spontaneity and will definitely be out the door if you judge their personality or ego in some way. If they don't trust you they will be able to stir you up emotionally without showing you their real personality which can result in them leading people on a lot. This does not mean they are fake but since they are earth risings, they are used to keeping it together all the time so they want to be able to let loose during intimacy. They are attracted to people who they find a little daring cause they are looking for someone who takes out their feisty side.
Virgo risings (Pisces 7th house, Aries 8th house) -> their way of making deeper connections is actually very child-like due to the dreaminess mixed with impulsiveness. They can get infatuated quite easily and want a partner that keeps them on their toes always longing. They commit passionately and blindly
Capricorn risings (Cancer 7th house, Leo 8th house) -> they want to feel cared for and pampered so admiration is a big factor here for what makes these natives want to connect more deeply. They are very attentive people and want a partner that respects them and always takes them into account
Taurus risings (Scorpio 7th house, Sagittarius 8th house) -> these people want to go all in in their connections in every aspect, no bs kinda vibe, specially when it comes to intimacy they want to be able to just go wild with their partner, explore the good and the ugly and simply have fun doing so
Fire risings prefer people who give them light-hearted and fun conversations which they genuinely find entertaining and interesting and they’re more open to interacting with all sorts of people due to air DSC. They are easily swayed by other's mind or surface-level charm, but they want to get to know the actual deeper personality of others, so these natives are actually more sentimental than what they may actually look in a casual interaction. Once they've been charmed by someone mentally, when it comes to intimacy they want to feel comfortable enough to show their deeper self and to know each other deeper due to water ruling 8th house. They're the type to want a relationship where you can talk about gossip and their trauma just as comfortably, but they won't trust someone they can only have surface level conversations with or someone who is inconsiderate with their emotional expression or disregards their deeper views of things. As fire risings, they are used to coming across as tough and confident but when it comes to intimacy they need to feel like there's always an open door for vulnerability and softness if they need it. If they don't trust you emotionally, they'll just enjoy having a casual mentally stimulating conversation and then move on, so it's easy for them to come across as charming to many people. They want a connection that has a fun and light-hearted dynamic but with a strong emotional bond underneath it all. These natives are the type to fall for charming and intelligent individuals that are 'softies' on the inside
Sagittarius risings (Gemini 7th house, Cancer 8th house) -> with this mix they definitely will get intimate with someone who says just the right things and verbally comforts them. They want a relationship where they can keep things youthful and emotionally soft with not much turmoil
Aries risings (Libra 7th house, Scorpio 8th house) -> these peeps are the epitome of charming, they want to connect with people that they relate to in some way but will accept and embrace their dark side and secrets, their way of making deep connections is by taking the person into their inner cave with them
Leo risings (Aquarius 7th house, Pisces 8th house) -> these natives have a habit of getting in problematic relationships and romanticizing them for it. They fall for unconventional or chaotic people and then have this "they don't understand that I see past that and I love you for your soul" sort of intimacy
Air risings tend to surround themselves with people that provide them with brand new experiences, people who are entertaining, fun and independent due to their fire DSC. They always want to do new things with the people they like and come in contact with and they also like people who are 'their own person'. These natives are often very blunt and outspoken actually and it's not uncommon for them to be seen as rude, bold or nonchalant sometimes, but as much as they enjoy interacting with stimulating and bold people, when it comes to intimacy and a deeper connection they desire stability and reliability due to earth ruling their 8th house. Basically they won't commit to and specially won't trust someone who is fun but lacks consistency and dependability. Deep down they themselves are very reliable, but they reserve that side of themselves for the people they love and trust, therefore they will commit to a partner that will reciprocate this type of energy. They are very fun people to be around and they're usually rather popular, but once they trust you they will show a more serious and respectful side to them. They will want to connect with people who are independent and stimulating but deep down is chill, low-key and reliable underneath it all. When it comes to deep intimacy they will feel like it's safe to trust someone who shows patience and consistency even if it's not too emotional or fiery. Being air risings, they're very mental normally, so they will like to commit and give themselves to someone that grounds them
Libra risings (Aries 7th house, Taurus 8th house) -> they like spontaneity and indulgence. They are drawn to people who they find immediately attractive and catches their eye, but they like to connect deeply with someone by sharing strong sensuality and calmness that goes beyond a first-time thrill
Aquarius risings (Leo 7th house, Virgo 8th house) -> they love to connect with people who have golden retriever vibe to them and is very loyal and helpful. They will connect deeply with someone by lighting up their day with lots of fun and laughter but also by casually being always there if they need anything
Gemini risings (Sagittarius 7th house, Capricorn 8th house) -> these people love connecting with individuals that bring expansion into their life and will connect deeply with others by giving them some authority. If these people trust you, they will secretly take what you say very seriously
Water risings are quite charming, but they're the type to draw people in while keeping a respectful distance with them. They don't mind being approached but they definitely don't like when people get too close too soon cause they like the process of building a connection. They usually come across as a little serious and stiff when interacting with others and it's not rare for them to keep their social circle small or always interact with the exact same people. This is because they take relationships seriously and like consistency and predictability in their connections and interactions, but when intimacy comes they want to trust someone enough to freely detach due to air ruling the 8th house. They won't commit to someone who is reliable but boring and uninteresting. Being water risings, they are constantly very perceptive of the energies around them, so when it comes to intimacy they will feel very good with someone who they can just take it easy and have a more light-hearted energy. Ironically, these are the most distant and detached risings when it comes to connections and intimacy, but this does not mean they don't love deeply. In fact, this "let's just say, do and talk about whatever, it doesn't matter" side is one they reserve for people who they really trust, that's why they can be dry towards other people who they don't find interesting. These natives usually fall for people who they have to "figure out" in some way sort of like "oh you're reliable and consistant (earth dsc) but I can tell (water asc) that there's more to you and I wanna know more (air 8th house)"
Scorpio risings (Taurus 7th house, Gemini 8th house) -> they definitely want physical attraction paired with some mental thrill so it's common for them to fall for players or be players themselves. They will connect deeply with someone who they can share physical and mental chemistry all in one
Pisces risings (Virgo 7th house, Libra 8th house) -> these natives are naturally very helpful and thoughtful, but they know how to keep to themselves and not give too much. That's why when they connect deeply with someone they're the type to want to share every single with the other person
Cancer risings (Capricorn 7th house, Aquarius 8th house) -> with this double Saturn influence, these natives are the most serious and selective about all their connections, they will feel very connected to someone that gives them a traditional commitment while also opening their minds to new and odd things
black moon lilith in pisces/the twelfth house (+18) ♡
your aura is hypnotic and enchanting, and it’s often that the people you meet see you as extremely mysterious, as if they could never truly know you. your eyes have a dreamy sparkle to them.
your beauty is so fragile, so innocent, so naïve that it’s hard for stronger, more aggressive characters not to feel an innate need to protect you. you irradiate such an innocent, cute, submissive aura (despite how sexual you may truly be under your soft appearance) that you’re pretty much every daddy dom’s wildest dream. and that’s how you seduce - you heighten your submissive energy. the truth is that you feel a compulsion to please your partner, and often forget how important receiving the same energy back is, no matter how much pleasing them turns you on.
in fact, having a pisces lilith makes you the most prone to having a daddy kink, and you may attract very possessive and controlling partners. you may be more than a little masoquistic and into BDSM, because to you, pain is connected to pleasure, and you might also have a brat kink. be careful with staying in abusive relationships; it is imperative that you learn how to stick up for yourself.
you fantasize a lot, to the point where you sometimes lose touch with reality. on the other side, you’re able to create the perfect fantasy for your partner, filling their cup with their favorite poison. you instintively know what their biggest turn-ons and sexual needs are. due to your desire to fantasize, role-playing and teasing may be important to you, and sex with you is slow, passionate and can feel like a spiritual experience when done with someone who you have an emotional connection to. you love being touched in a way that makes you feel truly loved; you love a partner who intensely gazes into your eyes to the point where your cheeks are flushing.
you take advantage of your vulnerable energy by being emotionally manipulative. being as intuitive as you are, it’s easy for you to feel other people’s emotions, and worse - to use them to your advantage, which is one of the most dangerous things about you… you know how to victimize yourself, how to make people feel bad for you, how to twist your words and emotions to make them fall at your feet, and you like that you have that kind of power over others.
that’s because you’re terrified of physical confrontation. there’s a chance you’ve been bullied or physically abused in your childhood, so you’ve consciously or unconciously learned how to take a much more suble approach to conflict in the form of emotional manipulation.
you have a highly addictive personality, and may fall into the trap of using escapism in the form of drugs, alcohol, sex, social interaction, fantasizing or any other addiction so you won’t have to be alone with your thoughts. you are very prone to depression - your brain is your worst enemy; it’s truly a dark place and you constantly deal with self-criticism and self-doubt. this placement can bring nightmares, sometimes of a sexual nature; your sleep is very connected to your unconscious fears and desires. if you chanel this energy into a creative outlet you will truly make magic; you are very artistic.
you can also be prone to periods of isolation, because due to your empathetic and intuitive nature, negative people and situations heavily drain you.
please, never assume that any traumatic experience that you’ve experienced, no matter how “insignificant” you may feel like it was, didn’t affect you. your emotional wounding may be buried very deep, much deeper than you know, manifesting itself in passive-aggressive behaviour and completely unconscious behavioural patterns. you may need counselling to deal with your emotional breakdowns and unresolved trauma.
Aries Risings are constantly overwhelmed and drained by life but that’s why (or because) they try so hard (Pisces in the 12th)
Taurus Risings get annoyed and frustrated all the time but they usually just choose to let it go (Aries in the 12th)
Gemini Risings would actually love to find someone to settle down with as long as they aren’t suffocated (Taurus in the 12th)
Cancer Risings have a way of figuring out everyone’s business but just not letting on that they know (Gemini in the 12th)
Leo Risings act like bad bitches but they’re really big babies who need a lot of comfort and reassurance to face the world (Cancer in the 12th)
Virgo Risings know they’re amazing at what they do but wouldn’t actually say that out loud because they’d consider that tacky (Leo in the 12th)
Libra Risings can be really bitchy and grumpy but are also horrified by this and try to hide it so no one will hate them (Virgo in the 12th)
Scorpio Risings are most drawn to super-hot love interests who can be a trophy on their arm but are often too “deep” to own up to this (Libra in the 12th)
Sagittarius Risings laugh and joke so much about traumatic things in their lives that no one knows what their real pain is, including them at times (Scorpio in the 12th)
Capricorn Risings constantly feel embarrassed and silly in different situations but maintain their poise so well that it doesn’t show (Sagittarius in the 12th)
Aquarius Risings say a lot of insightful or sensible things that people tend to brush off and don’t realize are accurate until much later (Capricorn in the 12th)
Pisces Risings are capable of having a meltdown, even a breakdown, at any given moment and no one, including them, would know why (Aquarius in the 12th)
You have a charm and an appeal about you that others cannot resist. You draw people to you like a magnet and you have the uncanny knack of attracting anything and everything you need. You know how to tell people exactly what they want to hear, which is not always good. At times it is difficult for you to say no because you do not want to hurt anyone. Yet you do not see that many times you use people and think quite nothing of it. Remember that one day you will reap what you sow.
◾ Venus conjunct Jupiter
You are a generous, warm-hearted and open-handed person who shares every resource with others. You give of both yourself and your possessions to those whom you favor. You do not want to be limited in any way, either with your affections or with your personal possessions. You enjoy luxury and refinement and you desire to always be in comfortable, elegant surroundings. You hate having to get your hands dirty. You are charming, gracious and charitable and you are the model host or hostess. This aspect brings material good fortune, which has been earned from previous lives. If there is a negative here, then it is your tendency towards self-indulgence, over-extravagance and laziness. Sometimes things come to you so easily that you do not appreciate them. Things are most appreciated if one has to work hard for them. There may be a love of rich, sweet food as well as too much of it, hence a tendency to gain weight. You are a very gentle and social person who loves harmony, beauty and travel. There may be vulnerability through emotional, ethical or moral naivete.
◾ Venus conjunct Mars
You are extremely amorous and romantic and there are times when you find it difficult to control your passions. You seem to be a magnet to the opposite sex, regardless of whether most people would classify you as beautiful or attractive, although you may well be. You are simply fun and pleasant to be around and that is why you attract so much attention. When you are interested in someone, you tend to pursue them with all the fire within you. Of course, sometimes you come on just a little too strongly and that can cause difficulties. You have a strong desire for love and beauty and involving yourself in some type of creative activity, whether it be art, music, sculpture or poetry, would help to satisfy this inner craving. The more you channel your creativity into means such as these, the less problems you will have controlling your hormones.
This aspect brings a certain charisma and you seem to naturally draw people around you. You like to socialize and are perhaps happiest when surrounded by others. In fact, it may be hard for you to be alone in your own company. You have a great need to give and receive affection from others. Just be careful of where you place your affections. Not everyone feels the same as you do. It is sometimes difficult for you to take any relationship lightly, hence the need to be discriminating with where your heart is placed. This can be a difficult aspect at times because it tends to produce love-hate relationships with those you care about. There are hostile and affectionate feelings both at the same time towards the same person. Channel your energies into creative endeavors.
◾ Venus conjunct Neptune
You tend to be what some people call the hopeless romantic. You are very idealistic about love and romance and many times it isn't so much the case that you love someone or that you are in love with someone as it is that you are in love with love. You tend to put your loved one on a pedestal and this can bring problems because when the loved one eventually does something to "fall from grace", then huge disappointment and disillusionment set in and you are crushed. You need to stop looking at the world through rose-colored glasses and see things for how and what they really are.
Another facet of this aspect is that you may have such an ideal mate built up in your own imagination that no real person could ever come close to your fantasy. You may spend your entire lifetime looking for Mr. or Ms. Perfect such that you miss Mr. or Ms. Right. Come down to earth and realize that no one is perfect and there are no white knights ready to come dashing along to save you. Stop the dreaming but don't give up the dream.
There is danger of falling into the wrong type of relationship, a relationship of co-dependence. Either you or your partner may enjoy or feel obligated to play the role of martyr, victim or savior. Remember that no good relationship is unequal. Two equal partners who neither feel the need to save or be saved make the best couple.
You are a sensitive person who enjoys the finer, aesthetic things in life. You desire harmony and beauty and are probably attracted to the arts in some way, either painting, music, dance, theater or drama. You are perhaps attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations. There is a certain charm about you that others find unworldly. The unusual and the intuitive, the sensual and the explorative appeal to you. You are insecure in matters of love. Simply remember that everyone has some human frailty, so do the best you can as that is all the Universe asks of you.
◾ Venus conjunct Pluto
You have deep, compelling and sometimes irrational feelings of love and passion and you will not settle for a relationship that isn't intense. You are wildly passionate towards the ones you love, as well as being perhaps jealous and possessive of them as well. Whatever you feel, you want to feel it down to the deepest level of your existence. Of course this can cause problems with everyday life because no relationship can be that intense and that interesting all the time. At times you do not care whether the emotions you feel are good or bad as long as they are powerful. So agony and ecstasy are both okay with you, although you're not silly enough to prefer the agony. Well, maybe. These intense relationships, even if they do not last, have a way of transforming you and that is why you instinctively seek them out or why they seem to come to you.
You tend to have a certain emotional fanaticism about the things you care about. It's all or nothing — there are no half-way measures for you. There can be trouble through emotional excesses, misplaced passions or the loss of control of the sensual nature. Self-control and self-discipline are necessary or you may self-destruct. Channel your hormonal energies into things creative, such as art, music, poetry, sculpture, drama, etc. You must not allow yourself to become too self-indulgent or hedonistic. Feelings of jealousy, envy and possessiveness must be controlled or any relationship will be eventually destroyed. You need to develop your self-confidence so that feelings of insecurity do not drive you over the edge. All these experiences all meant to force you to reconsider and transform your values.
◾ Venus conjunct Saturn
Intimacy with another does not come easy for you. You have been hurt in the past and you are reluctant to open up to others because you fear being hurt again. It is painful to relive bad experiences and you have sort of resolved within yourself that if you do not get involved, then you won't get hurt. As Simon and Garfunkle once said, "I am a rock, I am an island". As a result of your experiences, people may think you are cold, aloof, unfeeling and uncaring. The challenge here is for you to learn to open up and warm up to people, regardless of the possible consequences. You need to remember that you cannot find true love if you are unwilling to first give love, regardless of the results. Love is not barter and you cannot expect everyone you love to love you back. That is not how it works. This aspect is trying to teach you that love is universal, all-encompassing and should be doled out with no strings attached.
You find it difficult to trust people because of past painful experiences, so it takes time for you to take down all your barriers and defenses. You perhaps feel that you are unworthy of love and you cannot think of many reasons why someone should be able to love you. But, that type of thinking is an illusion. You are entitled to as much love as the next person, but love does carry responsibilities. You are worthy of love and there is a lot to love about you, but you must change your attitudes before you can experience the truth of what I have said. People do care about you, but they will tend to leave you alone if they feel that you are trying to shut them out. Open up your emotions and take your chances. It won't kill you, unless you let it. And that would then be your fault.
So, here it is. You need to learn to value and love yourself more and to express your appreciation for others more openly. Not with material gifts, but with honest and true emotion. You have a complex emotional nature and it needs to be examined. You are very loyal and steadfast towards those you love once your emotional needs are understood and that is an admirable trait. You tend to be very serious and responsible in relationships. You may involve yourself with noticeably older or younger partners. Try to be less sensitive and more forgiving when you think a loved one has slighted you. You have a need to feel secure and if you do not, then that tends to throw you for a loop. All manner of negative emotions surface then.
You find it difficult to show love physically. Stop being such a miser with your affections as well as with your possessions. You have a stingy streak in you that does not serve you well. After all, you can't take it with you when you go. So use some of it now in order to spread a little happiness. You may have a tendency to equate having things to having security. This is another illusion. You don't really become less secure by giving away possessions. In fact, the only true wealth you have and retain is that which you give away to others. This is another lesson for you to learn. To end on the bright side, you are a reliable friend who can be trusted.
◾Venus conjunct Uranus
You are excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. You tend to fall in and out of love very quickly and have little self-restraint or concern for propriety when your feelings have been stirred. You are unique, a bit eccentric and unconventional and you don't mind experimenting. You love and crave excitement, especially in your emotional life. You enjoy the thrill of the chase and you split when things start to get boring. Your strong suit is not in hanging around for the long haul. You prefer non-traditional relationships, ones that give you plenty of freedom and independence as you do not like to feel tied down. You like playing the field and settling down in a permanent, one-to-one relationship may be asking too much from you. In fact, you may intentionally choose partners who are otherwise unavailable because it helps keep things from getting too close and involved. You don't like strings attached to relationships and you prefer to remain rather detached with it all.
You have a highly unusual and explosive emotional nature. You change emotionally as easily as the wind changes direction. You are troubled with the emotional ups and downs which you do not understand and you have the tendency to blame whoever is handy for your emotional lows. The crazy emotional tides which you feel are coming from within and they are because your creativity cannot find a decent outward expression. Use your wonderful creativity ability and your fine intuition in the pursuit of something artistically or musically creative. Then you won't be quite so at the mercy of your erratic emotions.
You have a lot of personal magnetism and sex appeal. Others find you very alluring, exciting and interesting. Being restless by nature, travel would be good for you as it would give you an opportunity to satisfy your curiosity and your wanderlust. Change is necessary for you and one way or another your life will be filled with it. In general, you do not care what people think of you or the ways in which you relate to the world and to others. You will do what you want. You need to exercise self-control over your sensual nature.
◾ Venus sextile Ascendant; Venus Trine Ascendant
You are cheerful, fun-loving, charming, easy-going and have a pleasant personality. You love beauty and harmony and you are happiest when things are going smoothly. You do not like discord and you do not go out of your way to make waves. You may have artistic talent.
◾ Venus sextile Jupiter; Venus trine Jupiter
You are a generous, warm-hearted and open-handed person who shares every resource with others. You give of both yourself and your possessions to those whom you favor, although you will rarely put yourself out too much in order to do so. You enjoy luxury and refinement and you desire to always be in comfortable, elegant surroundings. You hate having to get your hands dirty. You are charming, gracious and charitable and you are the model host or hostess. This aspect brings material good fortune, which has been earned from previous lives. If there is a negative here, then it is your tendency towards self-indulgence, over-extravagance and laziness. Sometimes things come to you so easily that you do not appreciate them. Things are most appreciated if one has to work hard for them. There may be a love of rich, sweet food as well as too much of it, hence a tendency to gain weight. You are a very gentle and social person who loves harmony, beauty and travel. Be careful not to take things too much for granted or take the easy way out.
◾ Venus trine Mars; Venus sextile Mars
You are warmly romantic and openly express your affection, appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. You seem to be a magnet to the opposite sex, regardless of whether most people would classify you as beautiful or attractive, although you may well be. You are simply fun and pleasant to be around and that is why you attract so much attention. You have sex appeal and others like and appreciate your easy-going emotional nature. You like getting people together and if it were up to you, you would have the whole world paired off, living happily ever after.
You have a strong desire for love and beauty and involving yourself in some type of creative activity, whether it be art, music, sculpture or poetry, would help to satisfy this inner craving. This aspect brings a certain charisma and you seem to naturally draw people around you. You like to socialize and are happiest when surrounded by others. You have a great need to give and receive affection from others. You are warm and demonstrative in your affection for others. You are very much alive and others find this very appealing. Fulfillment and harmony in love is likely for you because you know what you want and need in a romantic sense and you express those desires honestly and openly. You have no hidden agendas. You are a non-combative individual who likes peace and serenity. You put a lot of energy into your emotions.
◾ Venus sextile Neptune; Venus trine Neptune
You are a sensitive person with a lot of artistic imagination and a flair for creating beautiful things or environments. You find peace in listening to good music and many times it will be the catalyst for your trips of fantasy. You are romantic and would like to have a story-book kind of life where you live in bliss with your one and only soulmate. These are indeed high ideals, but it's okay for you to dream because at the same time you are dreaming, you are able to keep your feet on the ground and not get carried away by it all. You are compassionate and seek to help others who are in need. You are a natural "giver" and it makes you happy to serve. You want what's best for all concerned and you do not have a problem with your ego getting in the way. You find it difficult to be too assertive as you like peace and harmony, without making waves. You are capable of great sacrifice for those you love and you do not necessarily need to be recognized for that or receive anything in return. You have a mystical side to you and you like being around artistic or mystical people. Church music stirs your soul and is as a breath of fresh air from your true home, the heaven worlds. You may have real talent with music or singing. You are devoted and devotional. You generally root for the underdog and can sometimes be a sucker for a sob story. You will attract people in this lifetime who will help you continue the soul growth you started in previous lives.
◾Venus sextile Pluto; Venus trine Pluto
You put everything you have into your emotions. Because you feel and love so deeply, so passionately and wholeheartedly, others may find your intensity either extremely attractive or very threatening. You are charismatic, with sex appeal and a certain amount of animal magnetism which can't help but be noticed by the opposite sex. You have the ability to use your attractiveness and charm to manipulate others, oftentimes without even realizing it. This aspect gives you the opportunity to transform your values or to be the catalyst to help others transform theirs. There is artistic ability along with a desire to create beauty, harmony and comfort. You have an understanding and an empathy for the problems of others and you are always looking for ways in which to help them or at least find the good that is in them.
◾Venus trine Saturn; Venus sextile Saturn
You are loyal and steadfast in matters of love and affection. The feelings of others are a serious matter to you and you don't play games with people's affections. Fidelity is highly valued and you don't want to settle for less. Security plays an important part in your life and you have a fine enough opinion about yourself and your own self-worth that problems with insecurity don't cause you much aggravation or upset. Still, you are somewhat reserved in showing your affections as you want to be sure you can trust whomever you are involved with. Your tastes and needs are simple and although you appreciate beauty and luxury, you do not need every luxury and convenience in the world in order to be happy. A person's character and inner nature matter more to you than their appearance. Casual or superficial relationships are not what you want and you aren't looking for them. You understand that the best kind of love takes time to develop and real love only gets better, deeper and more satisfying with age. The friendships you form are generally solid and long-lasting. Stability of emotions is one of your hallmarks. You have an innate sense of duty and responsibility towards your loved ones. Self-control is relatively easy for you to practice. You wouldn't be considered a party animal as your outlook on life is a little more serious and reserved than that. Still, others appreciate the fine qualities you have spent lifetimes developing. You have an inborn strength and courage to face life's difficulties.
◾ Venus sextile Uranus; Venus trine Uranus
You are very creative, intuitive, original, outspoken, and open in thought and emotion. You have a magnetic charm and sex appeal that attracts others to you. You enjoy surprises and anything that provides excitement to your life, including your relationships. You are independent and want a good deal of personal freedom in your involvements with others. Your ideas about love and romance are open and progressive and you are willing to try almost anything. You make and are drawn into unusual friendships with unusual sorts of people. Many people come and go into and out of your life and they are all there to test or challenge your values and your ability to change and to be flexible. They somehow fill unique needs within you. Same with friends — they come, but they go out of your life when they no longer fulfill a need. You have quite unusual ways of looking at things and you always seem to come up with clever solutions to the problems that are presented to you. Things happen to you quite suddenly, very much out of the blue. You cannot anticipate these events, you can only merely react to them. This is particularly true with love relationships. You will constantly receive exciting, unusual and unexpected events in your life which are of considerable assistance in your achieving both personal and soul growth.
You seem to need the approval of others in order to feel good about yourself. You may lack self-assurance and self-confidence. You attract things you need with virtually no effort on your part. You like to be with warm, sociable people. You have a charming and pleasant personality but you may be insincere. There is also a tendency to take things for granted and to be somewhat lazy at times.
◾ Venus opposite Jupiter; Venus square Jupiter
There are many possibilities with this aspect. Perhaps you will try to have a relationship with one who has completely different interests than you. Perhaps your devotion to some pet cause is annoying to the one who is nearest and dearest to you. Or you may be financially wasteful or extravagant, or perhaps bombastic in your appearance. There are tendencies here for self-indulgence and over-extravagance and your love or cravings for rich, sweet food can cause you trouble with your health in the form of circulation and weight problems due to excess. Perhaps you do not value what you own because it has all come too easily. Maybe you never really had to work all that hard to accumulate it, since you seem to have the ability to effortlessly attract most everything you need. The challenge here is to balance your desires for material things with your desires for philosophic ideals. Your values will be called into question and you may need to rearrange your priorities. You have an expansive emotional nature and you have the tendency to become involved with that type of love that is commonly referred to as "blind" love. Perhaps your feelings of love are motivated by considerations of money, property or social status.
But in spite of all that is said above, you are basically a warm-hearted and generous person who will come to the aid of friends if they are in need. People know they can count on your emotional and material help without your judging them in the process. You tolerate and accept other people's shortcomings and this goes a long way in keeping harmony, which is something that is really important to you and necessary for your well-being. At times, though, you avoid confronting difficult issues because you don't want to make waves or upset people's feelings. At times you need to be more self-assertive, though, not only because it is right to stand up for your beliefs but also because your needs have to met in order for you to retain a healthy balance. You are a lover of social situations and you like to be surrounded by people. You know how to handle people and still be liked. Being alone with yourself makes you somewhat uncomfortable. You need to learn self-restraint.
◾ Venus opposite Mars; Venus square Mars
Amongst various possible tendencies are these: Your need to satisfy your own desires before considering other people's needs causes anger and frustration. You suppress your own desires in order to maintain peace, which causes internal conflict within you. Sex and love can cause problems because either you run hot and cold alternately, or you don't know the difference between the two or perhaps you simply have love-hate types of relationships. Your high sex drive can lead you to squander your creative force through sexual excess and sensuality. Perhaps you "fall" into love easily with whoever pays you the slightest bit of attention and affection.
You are intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex and are not inclined to simple, friendly platonic relationships. There is a lot of tension in your love life because you often put your own needs ahead of your partner's or you are impatient when it comes to having your own needs met. You tend to run hot and cold in your relationships. If your partner is hot to trot, then you are not, and when you are ready for action, then your partner is not in the mood. You probably find yourself releasing your "hate" through verbal or physical fights when there are differences of opinion with your partner and after your hostility is released, then you once again feel "love" for that person. Of course, while your emotions might be back to normal, you partner is still trying to figure out just what happened and what hit them. You are ready to go again, but they are not and you can't understand why. This can create a great deal of frustration and disappointment that you do not easily shrug off because you cannot understand what the other person's "problem" is. If you are not in a love relationship, then you want to be in one and if you are, then you don't want to be. Your emotions are not stable and you have problems dealing with them. You are indecisive and your values and standards of behavior change from one moment to the next. You need to learn how to compromise with others so that your anger does not erupt when you do not get your way. Blowing off steam is fine, and perhaps you need to buy yourself a punching bag so you can spar with it when you are upset, but it is not right to use other people, especially loved ones, as verbal punching bags or as objects of your assault tactics. Additionally, you need to overcome your feelings of love and hate toward the people you care about.
◾ Venus opposite Neptune; Venus square Neptune
You tend to be what some people call the hopeless romantic. You are very idealistic about love and romance and many times it isn't so much the case that you love someone or that you are in love with someone as it is that you are in love with love. You tend to put your loved one on a pedestal and this can bring problems because when the loved one eventually does something to "fall from grace", then huge disappointment and disillusionment set in and you are crushed. You need to stop looking at the world through rose-colored glasses and see things for how and what they really are. Your ideas about how people ought to relate and love each other get in the way of your actual relationships.
Another facet of this aspect is that you may have such an ideal mate built up in your own imagination that no real person could ever come close to your fantasy. You may spend your entire lifetime looking for Mr. or Ms. Perfect such that you miss Mr. or Ms. Right. You become very disillusioned when you discover that no real, flesh-and-blood person ever quite lives up to your dream image of the perfect mate. Come down to earth and realize that no one is perfect and there are no white knights ready to come dashing along to save you. Stop the dreaming but don't give up the dream. Although you frequently fantasize about love and romance, you may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. You can be evasive and dishonest with yourself and others when it comes to love.
There is danger of falling into the wrong type of relationship, a relationship of co-dependence. Either you or your partner may enjoy or feel obligated to play the role of martyr, victim or savior. Remember that no good relationship is unequal. Two equal partners who neither feel the need to save or be saved make the best couple.
You are a sensitive person who enjoys the finer, aesthetic things in life. You desire harmony and beauty and are probably attracted to the arts in some way, either painting, music, dance, theater or drama. You are perhaps attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations. There is a certain charm about you that others find unworldly. The unusual and the intuitive, the sensual and the explorative appeal to you. You are insecure in matters of love. Simply remember that you have human frailty, but do the best you can as that is all the Universe asks of you. Recognize, too, that human weakness exists even in those you love. Sometimes others cannot live up to your expectations, which may be quite unrealistic at times. You may be unrealistic in matters of love. You may believe that if someone loves you enough that they can read your mind. This will set you up for many disappointments because that is just not true. You need to tell people what you want and how you feel. They cannot read your mind no matter how much they love and care about you.
You need to transform your material values into spiritual values and to turn personal desires into universal desires. Personal property and possessions may disappear in strange, mysterious ways in order to teach you that material possessions are easily replaced and therefore are of limited value. The only thing you can take with you when you die are your spiritual and personal growth, your experiences. You need to learn to love without expecting love in return. You must learn to forgive and thus release inner resentments. You need to learn how to turn the other cheek while not becoming a doormat for all to walk on. One last thing, do not turn to drugs or alcohol when you feel sorrow or when you feel like escaping from the world. Life must be faced head-on if you are to get anywhere and resorting to drugs or alcohol will only make things much worse.
◾ Venus opposite Pluto; Venus square Pluto
You are drawn to powerful and compelling emotional and sexual attractions and experiences that you may feel you have little choice or control over. You crave intensity and these incidents provide you with the opportunity to satisfy your wanton desires. You feel an overwhelming need for love and you may be emotionally or sexually greedy, insatiable, obsessive or compulsive. You tend to be very jealous of and possessive of the objects of your desires and although you keep tight reins on your partners, you do not want them to question or control you in any way. This makes for very one-sided types of relationships. You need to become aware that your jealous and possessive traits will drive away those you profess to love. Power struggles are likely in your relationships as you want to wear the pants, yet you continually attract that same sort of person for a partner. Your love life is passionate and often explosive and painful, but you don't seem to mind because the intensity helps make you feel that you are alive.
The challenge here is to transform your values. Important psychological problems are being worked out because of and through your relationships with others. Because of this you may attract people and friends who act destructively towards you. The reason this happens is because these people are mirroring the same type of acts you yourself have done in former lives. You are now reaping what you have sown previously. You are being given the chance to wipe your slate clean if you do not respond to evil with evil. Release all thoughts of revenge and learn to turn the other cheek. When your debts are paid and your lessons are learned, then destructive people will no longer be part of your life. This aspect shows a readiness on your part to atone for past mistakes and cruelties.
In matters of health, this aspect tends to interfere with the magnetic forces in the veins and prevents proper drainage of toxins and waste material from the tissues. It can also hinder the filtering process in the kidneys. This leads to improper cleansing of the blood, with the result that toxins and waste material seek exit through the lungs and skin in the form of lung congestions and skin eruptions. The spiritual lesson here is to let go of ill feelings (emotional toxins) and forgive (elimination, transformation), rather than trying to get even or seeking revenge.
On the positive side, you do have the emotional power and unusual creativity to bring about beneficial and healing changes into the lives of others if you can focus on other's needs instead of your own.
◾ Venus opposite Saturn; Venus square Saturn
Your emotional development may have been delayed or it may simply be inadequate. You find it difficult to be warm and loving towards people because you have been hurt in the past and you fear it may happen again. You are stingy with material resources and with affection. You believe that everything must be earned and paid for — there are no free lunches. Because you find it difficult to express your feelings, you tend to show people how you feel by buying them gifts as a substitute for you and your feelings. If they reject your gift, then this is easier to take than if they reject you. Though you crave love and affection, intimacy is difficult for you. You have a shallow opinion of yourself and your own worth and talents. You do not understand why anyone could possibly love you. You feel that you are unlovable. This is something you need to strongly work on as your life will continue to be miserable if you do not learn to change your attitude. You are as worthy of love as anyone else, but you must come to realize that for yourself. Do not let past experiences govern your actions and feelings for the rest of your life.
You are a serious and reserved person who appears to others as cold, aloof, unfeeling and uncaring. You are not necessarily these things, it's just that you are very cautious in letting anyone see the real you or in letting people get close to you. You want to love and be loved, but you find this very difficult. You need to remember that you first have to give love to get love. And you can't buy real love. It doesn't work that way. You find it difficult to enjoy yourself in a light-hearted, open and playful way. You understand work, duty and responsibility a lot better than you understand feelings, affection and love. Rarely do you do anything for pleasure. If something involves work or getting something done, then that is pleasure for you. Other people do not understand that about you. There are times, though, when you procrastinate and put off attending to necessities with the result that duties tend to pile up. You need to learn how to balance the seriousness with life and the enjoyment of life.
You may become romantically involved with people who do not value you or treat you well. You need to learn to love and value yourself before you will find happiness in love. Security is very important to you, yet you do not know how to feel secure. Your fear of loss, of money, property, loved ones, etc., makes you very insecure. This negativity colors all your relationships for the worse. You must learn how to trust again. You must learn how to face your fears, even if it is painful. This is the only way you will ever overcome them.
You have the tendency to lose your faith and your optimism when life presents problems with which you must cope. It's fine to have a well-developed sense of responsibility, but you must also learn to trust in divine wisdom which has attracted these difficulties to you to help you develop personal and soul growth. You better than most can understand that the purpose of life is not happiness, but experience. Yet that does not mean you have to live your entire life feeling miserable. You may feel lonely, but this is because you are unwilling or unable to see that people really do love you. As I have mentioned previously, the problem may lie in your own opinion of yourself. You must first become a loving person yourself in order to attract love.
You may become defensive about expressing your real likes and dislikes for fear of being criticized or put down. You may have a jealous and possessive streak in you such that when you are in a relationship, you do anything and everything in your power to try to hold on to what you have. Of course this makes your partner feel as though they are in prison and they will try to escape the first chance they get, which is what you are fearful of in the first place. You must realize that you can never hold on to anything that doesn't want to be held on to. Love is free and there should be no contingencies placed upon it. You need to accept the difficulties you experience in life as spiritual lessons. These lessons are attempting to help you establish better values.
◾ Venus opposite Uranus; Venus square Uranus
You are excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. You crave emotional excitement and you tend to fall in and out of love very quickly, having little self-restraint or concern for propriety when your feelings have been stirred. Relationships begin with sudden, electric attraction, but they often end abruptly. You are unique, a bit eccentric and unconventional in your tastes and you don't mind experimenting. You love adventure, especially in your emotional life. You enjoy the thrill of the chase and you split when things start to get boring. You tend to be faithless in love — your strong suit is not in hanging around for the long haul. You prefer non-traditional relationships, ones that give you plenty of freedom and independence as you do not like to feel tied down. You like playing the field and settling down in a permanent, one-to-one relationship may be asking too much from you. In fact, you may intentionally choose partners who are otherwise unavailable because it helps keep things from getting too close and involved. You don't like strings attached to relationships and you prefer to remain rather detached with it all. There is the possibility of clandestine relationships.
You have a highly unusual and explosive emotional nature. You are temperamental and change emotionally as easily as the wind changes direction. You are troubled with the emotional ups and downs which you don't understand and you have the tendency to blame whoever is handy for your emotional lows. The crazy emotional tides which you feel are coming from within and they are because your creativity cannot find a decent outward expression. Use your wonderful creativity ability and your fine intuition in the pursuit of something artistically or musically creative. Then you won't be quite so at the mercy of your erratic emotions.
You have a lot of personal magnetism and sex appeal. Others find you very alluring, exciting and interesting. Being restless by nature, travel would be good for you as it would give you an opportunity to satisfy your curiosity and your wanderlust. Change is necessary for you and one way or another your life will be filled with it. In general, you do not care what people think of you or the ways in which you relate to the world and to others. You will do what you want. You need to exercise self-control over your sensual nature. You also need to discipline yourself so that your strange and unusual tastes and proclivities do not make it impossible for you to get along with your fellow man and woman.
i'm not a professional astrologer. these are all based on my own personal experiences: interpret as you wish
people with venus in the 12th house experience a lot of confusion over what they want in love: it's hidden, even to themselves. they might find it hard to understand if they're in love
people with the moon at 15º/3º/27º (gemini degrees) are incredibly prone to overthinking/indecision in their emotions
people with cancer moons tend to make themselves feel worse by ruminating
taurus mars natives hate and resist change
those with a grand trine (aspect pattern) in their chart have an incredibly balanced view of the world, even at a young age: those with a fire grand trine know how to manage their energy/know when to take action, intuitively
people with pisces mercury are often misunderstood
scorpio ascendants have such intense eyes
the 10th house is so often misinterpreted as just a 'career' house - it's really not. the 10th house is how you consciously project yourself to others. those who are highly ambitious will obviously, in this day and age, use that to further a career, but that's not all it stands for.
speaking of, 10th house stelliums are usually perceived in many different ways by many people
aries mars vs unfinished projects
venus conjunct sun natives are beautiful! they're often 'light', either blonde or bright-eyed, imbued with the energy of the sun
additionally, those with venus in the 12th house keep their significant others a secret, at least for some time
any other mercury square/opp neptune natives hate replying to messages? just me? okay.
your midheaven doesn’t just represent your "career". Its deeper than that.
careers didn't always exist. astrology is very ancient and 1000's of years ago there wasn't any demand to go to school, get some fancy diploma and fill out job applications.
the mc in our charts represent our LIFE PATH. our consciousness in the world around us and how we interact/ absorb it. i can tell so much about someone just by looking at their MC/IC axis alone.
any contacts to your midheaven point or the planet/asteroid that falls in the same sign as your midheaven will have such an incredible impact on your life.
the MC/IC axis is pure consciousness from the root (IC) to the fruit (MC). the sun represents what impacts our self-esteem, but our MC represents the highest point of that self-esteem and exactly where it needs to shine.
the MC is basically your fingerprint on this world. your paintbrush (mc) and your many different colors (ic). 🎨
Aries Venus - Learnt that love can be explosive. Probably saw their parents fight or frequent break ups and getting back together. They learnt to let things in love go or to "forget it" because it was the easiest way to go along with the turbulent flow. One parent may have left suddenly or there was a single dominant parent, this taught them the value of independence and self-reliance. If they have a younger sibling - this was there first love and they adored them deeply. Aries Venus may have suffered injuries or surgerys as a child, which they recieved attention for.
Taurus Venus - They learnt to love what they were given as a child. There was a mentality of "whatever I can get" will have to be enough or they were told "something's better than nothing". This sign is often interpreted as loving food, material possessions and things of beauty. This is true but it's linked to nostalgia or early memories of feeling love and comfort. Food or gifts may have been a symbol of a special occasion and family traditions. All of the senses were important at these occasions - smells, taste, visual representation.
Gemini Venus - Learnt to love through their siblings or peers. They romanticized having a best friend or partner in crime. They learnt that wit and banter would charm others. They learnt that people pleasing would keep them safe. Their parents may have separated or remarried. At times they felt torn over which side to choose, so they learnt to love both or always look for someone else.
Cancer Venus - They learnt from their maternal line that love is emotional and sometimes overwhelmed. They may have been responsible for nurturing female family members from an early age. There was maybe a belief at some point that if they had a family of their own, they could do it better. When they felt safe, they felt seen.
Leo Venus - Learnt that love was open, dramatic and brave. They may have learnt to love from their paternal side. They learnt that their creativity and comedy would get the most attention, and make others happy. When they felt adored, they felt seen. As creativity comes from within this was internalized as making themselves happy through creativity and flare. At one point in their early lives they had to "step up" and protect their loved ones.
Virgo Venus - When growing up they were responsible for watching the younger siblings or the elderly, doing house hold chores and looking after animals. A parent may have been more critical on them than other siblings. They spent time with extended family. Rarely felt the centre of attention, except when unwell physically. Lacking attention and suffering the pressure of responsibility they learnt to internalize, perfecting their own inner world through ritual and health. They may have also learnt the value of ritual through religious activities.
Libra Venus - They were exposed to injustices as a child. Perhaps they saw one parent put in more work in caring for them than the other did. There was a need to keep the peace, be charming and agreeable. They learnt that by keeping others happy they would feel some peace within. So they began to keep some truths to themselves, lie a little or speak sweetly and manipulate others as a way of protecting the family and themselves from more stress. There was a sense that a disruption in the family home could be a lot worse than just gritting their teeth. It may have been very important to them that all siblings recieve the same treatment.
Scorpio Venus - When young there was an abandonment or suffocation by a parent. The parents or siblings behavior could have been seen as intense; this could have been destructive and involving poor mental health or it could have been deeply loyal. They saw adults have their secrets or hidden motives revealed. As a result they learnt to screen new-comers as a way to survive. They saw how destructive it could be to abandon someone, so they internalized this as never letting go - unless they project the other as the enemy.
Sagittarius Venus - As a child they probably loved to learn about religion, beliefs, traditions and spirituality. This is because it represented an escape from the mundane. They were given freedom as a child, which could have led them astray or at risk. If they weren't given freedom they felt suffocated and would run away, either physically or through fantasy. At times they felt attacked or judged for their beliefs. They may have felt hurt by lies or hidden truths of the family. These hidden truths once revealed may have caused a break of freedom for them or their family. So they learnt that to stay safe they must reveal everything around them, with total honesty.
Capricorn Venus - As a child they may have loved spending time with their grandparents. There was a realization that time for love could run out. They assessed their own worth based on how other adults responded to them and at times it made them feel worthless. There was a sense of responsibility required from them and when they delivered they were praised. They might have seen one parent act irresponsibly or childishly, and they witnessed the repercussions of this. They learnt that they would need to meet their own needs, rather than rely on others and end up feeling disappointed.
Aquarius Venus - Growing up one parent may have acted unpredictable or explosive at times. As a result they learnt to detatch from their feelings, as to never feel suddenly unsafe. They disconnected from their parent or family as a way to self-protect, as a result they feel a need to be 'invited' into connecting later in life. The family was unusual is someway. Their friends or peers may have been more like family to them.
Pisces Venus - As a child they watched love dissolve the adults around them. In order to feel safe they had to be constantly watching for the changing emotions of others; to do so they needed to keep their walls down, open to absorbing every change. Blending in felt safer than being the centre of attention. They may have felt a need to help look after others during these times. They were exposed to lots of different styles of love and personalities, some were not honest. They learnt that true love is loving all. They may have been ill or close to death at one point as a child. In that moment they felt the depth of unconditional love. They were praised for their creativity.
I believe a lot of people overlook the fact that Saturn is a supportive and comfortable place for Libra (Venus). Because of this, commitment is very important in relationships, especially marriage (aka commitment). Because of this, the 7H governs marriage and other long-term commitments. Hence, a subject under Saturn's control.
Venus and Saturn get along well. Do not overlook that.
A Venusian shouldn’t be messed with, particularly if they are a Libra Venusian. Because, from recent observations, Saturn will get you in the ass if you tamper with Libra placements or Venusians with Libra placements. That's why those with ugly spirited people with disgusting personalities receive the karma of being judged as ugly, regardless of outward appearance.
Beauty is an energizing quality as well as anything that is just physical or internal. I wish more people knew and understood this. Because of this, those who have a beautiful aura or energy draw a lot of people into their lives. That explains why so many people are drawn to them. Even if it's concealed or in secret, some people's beauty is so stunning that it intimidates. They are like magnets, whether or not others are attracted to them in an overt or obvious way.
Yes, this also applies to the Taurus and Pisces (as they're also ruled by Venus), but Libra placements feel this far more strongly than Venusians who are ruled by Taurus and Pisces.
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