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hey ya should follow @acediseourse bc thats where im at now for discourse things + w another mod so .

on my new main i made a post abt the dan howell discourse and i got so much shit lmfao..im a biphobe now apparently lmfao guys

#also argued w someone who tagged sga as a slur #like..ok #also btw im gonna not use this blog and make a new discourse blog w that login #so !

anyways...just a thought but if youre offended or triggered or whatever u wanna call it by two girls kissing/holding hands or two boys kissing/holding hands, youre homophobic! i dont know why this is so hard to understand.

#like.....ugh #ppl rnt gonna tag triggers on their lov so u dont have to see it ?#thats just what homophobes do #i dont care if ur gay but dont do things around me (:#thats what they say!!!!!! anyways

i just saw a post that was like "why r we rationing off and taking away q*eer resources for ace/aros instead of making more?(:" like..yes, there SHOULD be more resources for lgbt ppl, but those resources, no matter how many there are, will NEVER be for ace/aro ppl if theyre cis and hetero. thats just how it always will be? also, dont you dare tell lgbt ppl to accommodate for cishets. thats? disgusting.

#anyways.......

i dont use this blog much anymore but anyways need 2 make a post gonna do it rn

#(:

a bi person dating someone of the opposite gender isnt the same as a cishet ace person dating someone of the opposite gender...cishet means u only date ppl of the opposite gender. bi means more than one! and they experience sga! which means theyre oppressed by homophobia. cishet ppl never experience sga (when they identify as heterosexual OR heteroromantic). they r never oppressed under homophobia. bi ppl r. it isnt hard to get lmfao.

#anyways....

listen....if u hc an actual lgbt person/character as a cishet ace or cis ace+aro ur disgusting!! hate to break it to u.

#anyways....#@ all the ppl hcing brendon urie a literal bi guy as ace #not bi ace btw #they r hcing him as cishet ace but anyways

im sorry but! u dont need pride for not wanting to have sex w ppl lmfao

#its not even an orientation!!!!!!!#its a way u feel attraction not the gender ur attracted to #the whole reason we have pride is bc ppl dont like other ppl saying ppl of the same gender #and bfore u tokenize trans or bi ppl #bi ppl experience sga and im not arguing on this #and trans history is linked w lgb history #bc ppl couldnt tell the difference #trans ppl were gay ppl to most ppl #anyways.....theyre included bc they made the dam community #ur cishet ace ass wouldnt have anything to whine abt if bi trans woc didnt risk their lives for all of this #mayb appreciate it and keep ur fucking mouth shut!!#anyways

no offense but ace tumblr is basically like all those ppl in 2014 who said "gay men dont experience homophobia!!" and "bi women are straight!! bi men are gay!!" and its so. gross.

#1) how does a gay person not experience homophobia. how.#2) bi ppl r bi...#but im not starting bi discourse again that sucked

this whole idea of "well, im a cishet ace and i got called f*ggot/q*eer/any other slur normally directed at lgbt ppl, so i can reclaim it!" is so...bad. u kno who else gets called f*ggot? tons of cis straight boys! do they get to reclaim f*ggot? no. its called misdirected homophobia!! if ur wearing a shirt or smthn in support of the lgbt community bc ur a cishet ace or whatever, and someone calls u a slur based off that, its misdirected. they r assuming ur either gay (as in a gay guy/lesbian ya kno), bi, or trans. they r not thinking "this person will date someone of the opposite gender but wont fuck them, what a f*ggot!!" so. u kno.

#f slur /#q slur /#anyways....#this is so. annoying

hey I'm the grey anon basically grey is on the ace spectrum and it's basically like rarely feeling attraction it's not like demi (which is growing attraction after a while) idk like I've dated people who I've only felt either rom or sexual attraction rarely ever both i just wanted to know what u think about that bc I'm questioning if that is normal for everyone and I'm just a confused gay (I'm a trans guy sga) sorry if this is confusing or if I'm asking the wrong person!

well i guess it depends on if u feel anything at first i guess!! (besides thinking someone is nice looking bc that doesnt rly count as sexual/romantic feelings) like. if theres no attraction mayb but? im not all that sure bc 1) im not a spec and 2) idk much abt relationships so im probably not the best person to ask!!! but, from what i can tell, it sounds kinda like a normal thing (at least for western culture, which is what i understand)

the whole "desexualize lgbt community!!" thing ace tumblr preaches is basically "dont bring up the aids crisis!!", "dont kiss ur same gender partner around me!!", and "dont talk abt safe sex or sex education for lgbt ppl!!" in shortened words bc it makes them uncomfy to hear abt our very real sexual struggles and our bravery to actually b out w our same gender partners lol.

#but anyways......#i didnt wanna say partners but.#lack of a better word.

im sorry but if ur ace and u dont even understand what resources ur taking away from lgbt ppl when u push urself into the community, u do not need them. if u dont kno what they r, u obviously havent been in a troubling time and needed them.

#such as: lgbt specific suicide hotlines #bc new flash! no ones spitting in ur face #screaming faggot at u in the hall #and beating the shit out of u for being ace(:#but anyways #f slur /#and like. lgbt homeless shelters #u kno homeless shelters rnt gonna kick u out bc u dont want sex right #lol

things that dont exist: - mono-sexuality privilege - binary privilege - allo privilege things that do exist: - straight privilege - cis privilege

#literally...not that hard to get im?#trans men and trans women dont hold privilege over nb ppl #were all trans? and visibility isnt good #gay men and lesbians dont have privilege over bi/pan ppl #we r all oppressed under homophobia #despite biphobia being an intracommunity issue it doesnt like. mean they oppress u.#and like. most ppl rnt praised for being sexual #most ppl r shamed or hurt for it #so?? anyways

sorry if that answer to that ask doesnt make sense!!!! dealin w shit rn so !

#discoursw on my main blog is confusing me!!#also i need to update this bc i got a new main so.

hey I saw the most recent post about demis what do u think about greys like I identified as a grey for a while and now I'm questioning it; like do you think it's normal to only feel sexual attraction for someone ur dating and not rom or vice versa sorry if this is confusing

well idk rly. its kinda like a "normal" thing? i dont even rly understand the definitions of lots of a spec identities (and im not too sure what grey means but from what youve said its only sexual attraction of we're together/only rom attraction if we're sexually involved?) which im just. idk abt rly. idk tho. it kinda just seems like wanting to just not have sex unless ur dating tho which is! ok but im just not sure on its form as an identity i suppose

im sorry but....demisexual is a normal thing? a lot of ppl wont have sex w someone unless they kno them. like? im sorry but it doesnt make sense as an identity to me

#like?????? its called not wanting one night stands #and not thinking abt having sex w strangers #like? ur not special #and the whole thing kinda...reeks w making fun of ppl (women) who have sex w/o knowing the person #anyways

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