Who actually gives a fuck, If they are not getting something in return
I have recently had a knee operation and gurl, the recovery has been intense. I mean, 2 months ago in 5,6,7 and BAM there I would be in the splits. Yip, yet now I can barely touch my toes. patience, I know. I'm waiting for the delivery from Amazon or takealot. It's being held at customs. FUCK!
Well I may not have yet received my delivery however i have regained my status as a virgin. 2 months, no sex, gay world- virgin. I can't get to 3 months. Cause then it's--- shame, poor virgin.
NO. I REFUSE
This is not because of my choice of abstinence. No this is a whole lot fucked up
Of course when the needs arises and you scroll through your phone book to see which person or people you feel like contacting to accommodate your needs, you soon realize how fucking selfish and inconsiderate people can be.
I mean if you had hooked up with someone when you were able to do the "spread eagle" and you contact them, after your op, knowing that the only spreading you will be doing is on a peanut butter sandwich, but that with some creativity you could at least try to figure something. Who knows, it could actually be entertaining. Wouldn't you think?
Well, this was my thought however after numerous attempts with several prospective suiters, I received the same response
"Once you are fully healed then you should let me know and we can consider another get together ".
Really, bitch, really. Now I lived in the middle east for 10 years and let's say I got used to just being wipped upside down and just blatantly used, and I just became accustomed to it, and mostly put my experiences down to the environment which I was in, but this, honey, this is just rude and selfish. But it is what it is... thank fuck I have a dog. Not that I am humping her but for companionship
SO Honeys, I have learnt such amazing lessons from this experience, which I wish to share with you
1. When hooking up with someone fabulous and you have the most amazing time ever and you connect so well... leave knowing there is more than a 90 percent chance, that you will never see themagain, as there are many more fish in the sea which some greedy bitches wish to bite on. I mean, he was most probably on grindr while u were in the toilet so he could search his pray for the next day
2. Don't expect much from a queen, unless your willing to give something in return.....
3. If you do have surgery, before so, Invest in some toys and don't waste time trying to attempt to persuade someone new to want to be with you. You deserve better than that. Spread eagle or not, you are still fucking fierce
Passion and compassion lie within each of us....
The big question is though.... are you MAN enough to give it to someone, no strings attached....
That is what you makes a real man.













