Chocolate Suga

20. Sugar Bowl, NJ ♡

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[discovering-sam]

xo

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xo

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[sugarspicemelanin]

The only way I could love you.

[brownsugarbabe90]

I know its been said a lot

But I just LOVE seeing other black sugar babies out here straight KILLING IT!!! 🙌🙌 You goddesses are everything and its so refreshing to see my girls in their designer shoes and traveling. Having their daddies paying for their condos, new cars, and shit. Getting those 5k+ allowances like go you beautiful divas! Slay them to the gods honeys!!! 😍🙌 Drain his pockets AND savings and get them reperations!! LMFAO Y'all stay giving me life and I just want to let y'all know I see ya babies and y'all better WERK!

[atthesugarmansion]

Make him fall in love first.

[brownsugababe]

#Facts

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https://www.instagram.com/sandratalundzich/ <3

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[cocoasuga]

Suga Update

I haven’t updated you ladies in a hot minute about what’s been going on in the hustle..for a few reasons such as bad juju after I made posts. The past few months have been hectic and I wasn’t hustling as hard BUT as of today I’m officially done with college a semester early yay! In any case, I’m going to tell ya’ll about this new POT and my day today. Lets call him Jet. Disclaimer: I ramble a lot in this post. 

I met him on Tinder. Our first date was incredibly brief, but nice. I was in the city and we figured we would meet quickly over coffee. Today we met at the Plaza Hotel in NYC. A little bit about him he is Indian, just shy of 40, and works as an investment banker on Wall Street. He describes himself as going “all the way” because he hustled to get into the best school in India, finished in the top of his class, and then came to America to get his MBA at an ivy, and then now works in Wall Street. He was so kind and rich with compliments.  At one point he grabs my hand and is like “What am I getting you for your graduation gift?” I laughed. “You’re putting me on the spot.” He tells me that I should think about what I want and the next time we see each other we will go shopping and he will get me my gift, “whatever I want”. He mentioned this over text too that I need to be gifted. (My tabs are open atm to LV I need a new wallet this is not a drill. I’m no longer shy about this shit I’m just going to say I need a new wallet, I’ve been wanting this one from LV it is $500 would that be okay?). He also does admission interviews for his alma matter and since I’m applying to law school he gave me A LOT of helpful tips on what admissions officers look for.

After the date we went to whole foods bc he thought I should have food for the train. I felt bad making him wait as I looked through all the cooked food and took my sweet time but he didn’t mind and after I got so much shit, basically went grocery shopping in this bitch he said, “That’s all? Are you sure?” I feel like the key is never to seem overly excited or in awe by their gestures. I just bat my lashes, smile and say “Thank you.” Like I feel like its easy to be in such awe when handed allowance for example but I think it’s best to give an appreciative smile say thanks and move on, almost unphased. Or to act like high class shit is normalcy. I got gifted a ring for Christmas that looks like an engagement ring I mean that’s basically what it is. When he complimented how “beautiful” my finger looked with my tattoo and the ring I looked at the ring, smiled, and said, “Oh this? It was a gift.” and moved on. I specifically wore that today so he knows I don’t play NO games *JoAnne voice*. I love to throw in a couple pieces in a simple outfit that just look classy. My three today were the diamond ring, this really dainty diamond necklace and this scarf from Saudi Arabia with a gold trim on the bottom. I was wearing a sweater dress, tights and thigh high boots. My whole outfit was like 30$ (minus my coat) but the added pieces just make you look like a subtle expensive bitch.

He did everything he could to just touch me or hold my hand towards the end of the date. Fixing my hair in the wind etc. I hate holding hands unless I’m like in love with a person, is that strange? I’m just so weird about being touched. So I had to bite my tongue when he said “Give me your hand” and played with my fingers and kissed my hand. He said “give me your hand” three times. He gave me “transportation cash” which was wellll over the cost of transportation which I was happy about. Shortly after we parted, he texted me compliments and that next time he’s not letting me leave so soon. He keeps texting how much he’s into me. His most recent text included “maybe some cuddles and kisses thrown in between too :)” I jump with glee when guys are bold with these statements because it gives me more incentive to be bold as fuck with opening my mouth and asking for things I want.  “Cuddles and kisses” will surely come..when my bank account is happy. I used to be scared to ask for shit but bet Imma have this Louis wallet in 2 weeks time. Speaking that into existence LOL.

But definitley looking forward to where this goes. I love men who drool over you bc even though it can seem annoying or obsessive those are the ones who will give you what you want, so long as you keep them on their toes.

[yeezys-girl]

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[fhenty]

I’m back with part 2 of my Sugar Baby Advice Masterpost. Here is a list of links to advice from various sugar babies/sex workers/etc that I’ve gathered through my extensive research. Feel free to check out my advice page here for hundreds of links to advice that I found helpful. Enjoy! 

• Some Classy Conversation Topics 

• The Perfect Spam Message/Art of Spamming

• Messaging Tips

• Marketing Yourself: Read This

• 50 Unusual Date Ideas (Good for dates with your SD)

• How To Attract a Man: How to do it, what to do, and how to make yourself so desirable that all men will want you and only you. 

• The Men Post: How to make wealthy sugar daddies/clients keep coming back to give you more and more every time. 

• Body Language Linguistics 

• Freestyling Tips

• A Few Useful Websites For Sugar Babies

• Dining Etiquette 101

• Reasons Why You Are NOT Asking For Too Much

• What To Say To a POT Who Asks “What’s in it for him” 

• Sex Work Approved Payment Options

•  THE LINKS: The Official Sugar Baby Reading List (Strippers, Escorts, Cam Girls too)

• To Reverse Search a Phone Number 

• Guys To Avoid On Seeking Arrangement

• Delete Yourself From Web Services

• Ways To Ask For Gifts

• What To Put On Your Profile

• What to say when a SD asks “what you’re willing to do” sexually 

• Craigslist Ads That Attract Certain Men

• Emotional Reasoning Is More Powerful Than Logical Thinking

• Online Adventures: Writing To/Writing Back

• Mandatory Sugar Tool

• Escort Advice Tip #001

• 3 Ways To Get What You Want From a Man

• Sugar Baby Academy

• How To Charm The Cash Out of Your Sugar Daddy

• How To Dress For Sugar Success

• How To Separate the Boys From the Men

• Don’t Make It This Easy

• Get The Conversation Going & Weed Out The Jokes

• How SD’s Can Track Where You Live

• Sugar Baby Travel Tip

• Sugar Tip: Subscribe To Magazines Related To Your Goals

• Sugar Travels

• Saving Money

• Apps Every SB Needs

• Money Saving Tips

• How To Organize Your Hustle

• 5 Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To An Allowance Offer

• Asking For Money On The First POT Date

• Verify Him

• Sugaring From Scratch

• Apps For Sugar Babies

• The Girlfriend Experience

• Freestyling Guide

• Sugar Allowance - What Form Do You Take It In?

• Fashion Tips And Dress Codes

• Turn Vanilla To Sugar

• Checklists

• Spending Sugar Money

• A Poor Sugar Babies Guide To Looking Pretty

• What To Say To Get The Allowance You Want

• How to Trigger a Man’s Generosity Right From the Start

• 25 Things That Will Make You a Better Sugar

• The First Encounter

• Tips: What to Say 

• Craigslist Masterpost

• Sex is Sex but Money is Money

• Stop Comparing Yourself To Others Success

• Safety Tips From a Client

• How To Make Real Money

• Staying Safe While Being a SB

• How To Keep A SD Interested: Long Arrangements

• Things I’ve Learned From Living With SB’s (part 1)

• How To Manipulate People Into Liking You More

• What Personal Information Should You Give Your SD?

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I need to read this again

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xo

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