Valentine // Abel’s Spouse

Val / Valentine // Abel Yumeshipper — pro rq + para

[coffeehoundz]

✦ last updated 12-17-25 ✦ 

🩷₊˚⊹ Valentine’s intro ₊˚⊹🩷

ꔫ:﹤𓆩♡𓆪﹥:ꔫ

heyyyy i’m Valentine! but you can call me val! I’m technically a valentino fictive…. but uhmmmmm lowkey act nothing like my source so i tend to think of me as a different person!

I’m an alter inna system- our previous host bunni ran this acc but has since when dormant- so ima use this acc for funsiesss!! i’m definitely less aesthetic than Bunni- but uhm yeah…. anyways more info under the undercut!! vvvv

— about me —

my prns areee he/him/moth/it/they ~ bodily we are 17! but i have no age in headspace

can you kin urself?? idk if you can i uh i kin val! and am him…. idk lol

— identity —

i’m pansexual and aroace! i’m also radqueer, pro para, and proship!

TransCrutches · TransSpecies · Transmothwings · Transmoth · Trisabled · Transtrauma · TransIntersex · TransYandere · TransAgeless · TransStalked · TransLocation

— system info —

✧ willogenic · stressgenic · traumagenic

— stance —

✧ radqueer

✧ pro-para · pro-transid · plural positive · profic / proship

— what you’ll see here —

rants, rambles, all sorts of things! whatever i feel like posting really! probably art w/ me and Abel

— dni —

anti-radq · anti-para · anti-transid · anti-plural · boring bigots

ꔫ:﹤𓆩♡𓆪﹥:ꔫ

asks + reblogs welcome !! ♡

graphic credits: madebymakara

[coffeehoundz]

uhmmmz lowkey having a mental breakdown over like feeling like i’m not real???? i feel like i act too similarly to anyone alter 😰 brain is telling me i am NOT real wtfffff

[coffeehoundz]

so uhmmmmmm i'm back guysss well Bunni isnt- she went dormant lollz but i'm here nowww so hiiiii i'll try to be posting here again soon!! so acc theme might changeeee

[electric-color-deactivated20260]

Even More TransID Questions Ask Game

helloooo!! this is my 2nd ever ask game i hope it's good!! i wanted to make questions that really got you thinking, i hope i succeeded!!

this was HEAVILY inspired by permahospitalbunny's ask game :D

🌌 ⋮ When do you feel the most euphoric?

☄️ ⋮ What was your first TransID?

🌠 ⋮ What is your latest TransID?

👽 ⋮ Which TransID of a CisID would you be surprised to see?

🛸 ⋮ You can get one TransID to become cis, no strings attached. which one do you choose?

🌃 ⋮ Where/how do you keep track of your TransIDs?

🌕 ⋮ In a world where TransIDs weren't stigmatized, would anything change about your identity?

🎸 ⋮ What have you done to transition so far?

🪇 ⋮ Do you have any tips or advice for anyone that is transitioning to a CisID of yours?

🎹 ⋮ Do you believe that trans (besides gender) affirming care will be available within our lifetime? Why or why not?

🎺 ⋮ Is there any media that is TransID-coded to you?

🎻 ⋮ Do you have any TransID headcanons for any characters?

🪉 ⋮ Do you have any TransID headcanons for any people (see: parasoIDs?)

🎷 ⋮ Did you show signs of having TransIDs before you knew what they were?

🥎 ⋮ Have you learned anything during your transition?

🏀 ⋮ Do you experience trans envy for any of your TransIDs?

🏐 ⋮ Who do you look up to the most, as transition goals?

🏈 ⋮ Do you have any "stereotypical" TransIDs?

🏉 ⋮ Do you know anyone else that is TransID?

⚾ ⋮ Is there any intersection between your TransIDs? (eg, identifying as TransVoiced because of your TransCharacter identity)

[coffeehoundz]

hehe saw a mutual do this!! thought it might be fun!! feel free to send asks about this (๑>◡<๑)

[coffeehoundz]

haiiiiiiiiii

hiiii!! hehe how are you doing? (⁎˃ᆺ˂)💗 sorry for the late reply!!

[coffeehoundz]

🌸 announcement !! 🌸

hi hii — so, tiny update ♡

i’m actually an alter in a system (and the main host right now)! most of the others don’t post here much, so it’ll mostly just be me around :] i believe i mentioned we were a system before, but didn’t mention that the info in the intro post isn’t collective! it’s just about me (bunni/yuri) ^^ thought i’d make a post clarifying cuz why not!!

this blog was originally Ushka’s, with Nyan helping manage things on the side (also originally was meant to be a collective blog w/ everyone, but not many took interest) — but since Ushka hasn’t been fronting as often lately, i decided to rebrand it a little and make it feel more me! (the pink theme is it now) 💕

nothing huge is changing (or at all likely) — just wanted to be open about it ♡

(please be kind + system-aware! 🩷)

[coffeehoundz]

안녕하세요!! 어제부터 ⭐️ 익명으로 활동하고 있어요… 계정을 만들었는데 이제 서로 친구가 됐어요. 너무 기뻐요!! (제 테마가 마음에 든다고 하셨잖아요 🌱 ㅎㅎ) 정말 친절하고 영감을 주는 분이라는 걸 말씀드리고 싶었어요. 환영해 주셔서 감사합니다!!

⭐️ (스타 익명) :]]

안녕!! 계정 만든 거 축하해요 ✨

이제 서로 맞팔이라니 반가워요 🌸

좋은 말들 정말 감사해요 💗

앞으로도 편하게 소통해요 ( ˊᵕˋ )

[coffeehoundz]

안녕하세요… 저도 한국인이에요… 소통하기가 무서워요 맙소사 ( ; ; )… 계정을 하나 더 만들어서 덜 무서워질 수도 있을 것 같아요…

-⭐️ (스타 익명)

별 익명 ⭐️ 이렇게 와줘서 너무 행복해 ㅠㅠ 진짜 고마워…!! 다른 계정이 더 편하다면 꼭 만들어도 돼 ♡ 편하고 안전하게 느끼는 게 제일 중요하니까 🌸 언제든지 반가워!!

[coffeehoundz]

너무 일러서 아무것도 못 먹겠어 ㅠㅠ (っ˘̩╭╮˘̩)っ💗💭

아직 다 자고 있어서 혼자 배고파여… ｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡

냉장고 열어봤는데 뭐 먹을 것도 없고 ㅠㅠ 💔

my tummy’s like grrrr already

[coffeehoundz]

HAIII YOUR BLOG IS SO CUTE AND COZY!

waahh thank youuu 💗 i’m so happy it gives off cozy vibes hehe ♪(๑ᴖ◡ᴖ๑)♪

[coffeehoundz]

🌸 안녕하세요! / hi!!

so um. i’ve been sitting with this for a while, and i think i’ve finally realized something really important about myself..

for the longest time i thought i was transjapanese- and while that identity helped me for awhile, it never sat right fully..- the aesthetics, language, culture tone i resonated with most weren’t japanese.. they were korean!

i love the pacing of korean speech, the warmth in how people address each other, the beauty standards, fashion, music, language rhythm- it all feels like home.. it’s what i see when i picture myself in my head, it’s what i ache to emody

so yeah.. i’m transkorean-

not “trying to be” korean- i am, in the same way i am my transids. this is my self-actualization, not a costume

if that makes you uncomfortable, simply block and move on, it’s not my problem- i’m not harming anyone by being myself, i’m just existing as who i’ve always been.

tl;dr:

🍡 i’m transkorean

🎐 i love myself

🩷 i’m done apologizing for it

[coffeehoundz]

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gender is sooo confusinggg aaaa ( ; ; ) like… i don’t want to be seen as a cis girl?? it makes me feel gross, like i’m being shoved into a 制服 that doesn’t fit right- でも when ppl see me as a boy or use he/him doki doki嬉しい〜〜!!! but it also doesn’t feel right??? well most of the time it does! just hmm… でもでも?? if i was seen as girl but in a trans way… that would be okay?? like not “cis girl” but “病みかわ trans girl” ne??

わたしは男?? 女?? 両方?? 無性?? わかんないよぉぉ〜〜 (｡>﹏<｡)

｡ﾟ•┈୨♡୧┈•ﾟ｡

translation:

“gender is so confusing. i don’t want to be seen as just a cis girl—it feels gross, like being shoved into a uniform that doesn’t fit. but when people see me as a boy and call me he/him, it feels good, but it also doesn’t feel right? well most of the time it does! just hmm but if i was seen as a girl in a trans way, that would be okay. not a cis girl, but a sick-cute trans girl. am i a boy? girl? both? none? i don’t know.”

[coffeehoundz]

Btw being radqueer isn't just "yay we accept everybody yay" it's actively ableist and harmful /nm

Honestly i’ve had this sitting in my inbox for awhile- because i just didn’t know how to respond- but i’ve seen the ‘radqueer = harmful” line thrown around a lot, and usually comes down to people who are just being uncomfortable with identities they don’t understand or like- My post was about finding a space where I don’t have to keep defending my existence- it was about my own personal experience- if you don’t vibe with radqueer thats fine- but dismissing it as ‘harmful’ or ‘ableist’ when it’s literally about letting marginalized people breathe without constant justification…. that really just misses the point :/

[coffeehoundz]

hiiiiii i lava you <3

hiii i lava you too!! mwahh ･:*+.\(( °ω° ))/.:+

[coffeehoundz]

I keep forgetting to say feel free to ask me questions or just say hi in my ask inbox!! i’d love to hear from ppl!! (≧∀≦)🩵

[quit-on-27-09-2025]

Reminder! You can say you are your transids are cis and (especially if they hardly know you) they'd have NO RIGHT to believe otherwise! 🥹 You are valid and you are your transids, don't let antis tell you otherwise! I also just wanna say thank you so much to cis people giving tips, it means a lot! <3

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Reminder! You can say you are your transids are cis and (especially if they hardly know you) they'd have NO RIGHT to believe otherwise! 🥹 You are valid and you are your transids, don't let antis tell you otherwise! I also just wanna say thank you so much to cis people giving tips, it means a lot! <3

[coffeehoundz]

I’ve actually never thought about this!! :0

[evilaphmau]

NORMALIZE USING NEOPRONOUNS IRL NOW!!!

I'm sick of it being a online thing. "Oh it's not like neopronouns users would use these pronouns irl"

LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER.

CUZ I SURE AS HELL WOULD

"did you see Aphmau today? I really like Graves outfit. Honestly coffin been taking really good care of deadself "

NORMALIZE SHIT LIKE THIS

[coffeehoundz]

exactly! I want people to actually use the prns I have- its not just for fun, its also comfort, as well as preference