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[colorcallout-blog]

More evidence of Color specifically calling out someone they were not involved with at all wrongly as a sexual predator without asking the person who actually was what happened or what they wanted to do.

This isn’t an isolated incident, this is a pattern of behavior, and the fact that they expect someone to blindly believe them each time is disgusting.

They’ve called out minors, victims of sexual abuse, and each time said the same things: that these people are disgusting and horrible and it doesn’t matter if they’re sent hate, they need to be kept away from people forever.

Sexual assault accusations and pedophilia accusations are not on the same level as “I don’t like this person because they’re annoying/have bad opinions”.

Color has proven time and time again that they do not understand the difference.

When you accuse people who are victims themselves of this, when you post “this person is a pedophile/sexual harasser and they should leave the internet and die, so please send them as much hate as possible to encourage them to do so” repeatedly, at the drop of a hat without even fact-checking to see if that information is correct, this is a dangerous pattern of behavior.

I will not take this blog down. Color has not changed at all whatsoever, and as long as they continue to be a predatory adult abuser who doesn’t change their behavior I will keep this blog up to document it.

[anonblog1995-blog]

i think it would be better to show what Color actually wrote about the user winterywitch, in order to emphasize how wrong they were.

note how Color very definitely wishes not just hate, but physical harm on this user. this is of course more shocking once you realize that they did this without even confirming if the ‘abuse’ actually took place.

also two more additional screenshots, showing Color’s obsession with punishing people that they think deserve it. as many people have seen, they feel this way even towards people who they think are abusers/pedophiles/etc. without any definite proof.

the last one about being happy to make callouts goes to show Color’s reckless behavior. not thinking about the consequences before trying to ‘punish’ anyone they think of as an abuser, even with little to no proof.

[colorcallout-blog]

More evidence of Color specifically calling out someone they were not involved with at all wrongly as a sexual predator without asking the person who actually was what happened or what they wanted to do.

This isn’t an isolated incident, this is a pattern of behavior, and the fact that they expect someone to blindly believe them each time is disgusting.

They’ve called out minors, victims of sexual abuse, and each time said the same things: that these people are disgusting and horrible and it doesn’t matter if they’re sent hate, they need to be kept away from people forever.

Sexual assault accusations and pedophilia accusations are not on the same level as “I don’t like this person because they’re annoying/have bad opinions”.

Color has proven time and time again that they do not understand the difference.

When you accuse people who are victims themselves of this, when you post “this person is a pedophile/sexual harasser and they should leave the internet and die, so please send them as much hate as possible to encourage them to do so” repeatedly, at the drop of a hat without even fact-checking to see if that information is correct, this is a dangerous pattern of behavior.

I will not take this blog down. Color has not changed at all whatsoever, and as long as they continue to be a predatory adult abuser who doesn’t change their behavior I will keep this blog up to document it.

[colorcallout-blog]

Take note of the timestamps on these: the screencap of “I got op’s age wrong” was because they made a callout post for a minor without even checking.

Color continues this pattern of behavior of not even considering that the people they call out may be abuse victims, minors, or mentally ill themselves, and not changing their behavior in the least or feeling any remorse when this is pointed out, as well as expecting everyone around them to conform to their ideas and drop old friends or else be labeled as “abusive”.

I will remove this blog when they prove they’ve changed.

This blog isn’t "ignoring their efforts to change”. You cannot ignore what isn’t there.

How many more people are you going to make relive their own trauma in your “efforts to change”? How many more people are you going to hurt?

When you hurt people to that degree, you can’t make up for it.

You can’t expect them to forgive you when you do it over and over again. The fact that you think you can is a good sign of how little you value other people.

Look up the “honeymoon phase” in abuse. See if you can recognize any of your actions there.

Take responsibility for your actions and stop harassing mentally ill people, minors, and abuse victims.

Stop publically humiliating people and acting like making people relive their csa trauma is just a simple mistake. 

As for the second screencap, well, I hope none of their friends are allistic and having to watch Color talk about how they’re abusive, especially since they hang out with mentally ill minors.

And that last screencap is ironic, considering that Color has used threats of suicide for the sole purpose of emotional manipulation.

This is someone who hasn’t changed at all, not even once.

[colorcallout-blog]

color (tumblr user curescarlet, they’ve been bpdcolorman in the past and gemdroid) is manipulative and abusive

they will threaten to kill themselves to ‘test if people care about them’ and then if you don’t respond the way they want you to, exactly the way they want you to, they’ll tell you how worthless you are as a friend and how you don’t care even if you’re hurting yourself because of their manipulation.

they will also call you abusive if you don’t cut off contact with friends in favor of them no matter the situation

they’ve done this to multiple people and i’m tired of keeping quiet. 

i want them to realize what they’ve done. i want them to stay off tumblr, i want them to stay off twitter, i want them to stay away from other vulnerable people and i want them to actually change their behavior, instead of saying that they will and making a lot of posts about how they’re horrible and should die 

and then going back to the same pattern of behavior

do not message them, do not read their blog, do not make any posts about them, i do not want to stoop to their level and i do not want anyone to harass them, but i would like it if this post was reblogged so that more people know about what they’ve done: if you’ve had experiences similar to this please feel free to add onto this post or send in asks.

i want them away from vulnerable mentally ill people and minors and i want anyone who supports their abusive behavior after knowing what they’ve done to stay away from me

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[bebeuru]

I wish i still had the Screen Caps for this, but this is the same person who made me Re-Live repressed CSA / rape experiences, and who kept saying how i was in the wrong / how terrible i was in this situation ( even thou if anyone remembers, i did try to apologize, and even then i was still the ‘bad person with a fake apology’ ), which situation i was in that nearly led me to ending my life. -i still have the scars from it, but i am not comfortable posting pictures of them. Please understand that- And even then i was in the wrong. I was the bad person and they did nothing wrong. Anyone who remembers that from last year can be my alibi on how distressed i was. How shaken up i was and how much panic i caused those close to me. They also liked to re-post and mock my art, about what i drew. Im not sure how often or how long this was going on, as i was only alerted of it by one Anonymous who also told Color that they shouldnt be Re-Posting my art on their blog; which they said it 'wasnt wrong’ because it still had my signature / username on it, yet i did not know about it or give my consent on the matter.

Do not stoop to this persons level. Just reblog / spread and help others know about their behavior. I dont want what happened to me or OP to happen with those who dont know about what Color has done.

[colorcallout-blog]

I’ve specifically said not to send curescarlet anons or messages at all.

If you reblogged or liked that callout and are using this as an excuse, cut it out now.

Telling someone to die or that they belong in a mental asylum is not, nor will it ever be constructive criticism. 

The callout wasn’t worded as well as it could be, and I was in a very nervous state when I was writing it. 

That said, all I want is for them to change their actions, not die or be sent hate.

[colorcallout-blog]

color (tumblr user curescarlet, they’ve been bpdcolorman in the past and gemdroid) is manipulative and abusive

they will threaten to kill themselves to ‘test if people care about them’ and then if you don’t respond the way they want you to, exactly the way they want you to, they’ll tell you how worthless you are as a friend and how you don’t care even if you’re hurting yourself because of their manipulation.

they will also call you abusive if you don’t cut off contact with friends in favor of them no matter the situation

they’ve done this to multiple people and i’m tired of keeping quiet. 

i want them to realize what they’ve done. i want them to stay off tumblr, i want them to stay off twitter, i want them to stay away from other vulnerable people and i want them to actually change their behavior, instead of saying that they will and making a lot of posts about how they’re horrible and should die 

and then going back to the same pattern of behavior

do not message them, do not read their blog, do not make any posts about them, i do not want to stoop to their level and i do not want anyone to harass them, but i would like it if this post was reblogged so that more people know about what they’ve done: if you’ve had experiences similar to this please feel free to add onto this post or send in asks.

i want them away from vulnerable mentally ill people and minors and i want anyone who supports their abusive behavior after knowing what they’ve done to stay away from me

me and color were friends for a while, and as we got closer i started to notice a few things that made me really, really uncomfortable with them.

it started with guilt-tripping their followers for not reblogging posts.  a lot of the people they were in mutuals with,including me, had anxiety and paranoia and they knew this, but they’d still make posts talking about how people who didn’t reblog the posts were bad

or how if you liked something that had bad stuff in it you absolutely supported all of that bad stuff

they expected you to give up the stuff you liked just because it had bad parts in it even if you didn’t like those parts and you agreed they were bad

you had to give it up or else you were disgusting and deserved to die

over time, i started to notice more posts about wanting attention from them as well as more posts about wanting to die. i tried to talk to them because they were my friend! i didnt want them to die

it wasnt enough and they kept telling me that i didn’t care enough, that a good friend would pay more attention to them and be better

i felt like i should just die. i started hurting myself because of that too. i thought i would never be good enough for them

they’d post a lot about how a lot of friends were leaving them. a lot of the posts were along the lines of “sorry i was too mentally ill for us to be friends!!”

i’m also mentally ill but they didn’t ever seem to consider that no matter how many times they talked about them doing something because of their bpd or bad impulse control

it felt like they were the only one that was allowed to be mentally ill. the only one that had problems, and mine didn’t matter at all

they’d go from threatening suicide and telling people that it’d be their fault if they died to going  “I’m so bad, I should just die” but they never ever ever changed what they did at all

all I wanted was for them to realize, just once, how much they’d hurt me

all i wanted was for them to realize how much they’d hurt everyone. i wanted us to be friends really badly because i liked them

but they don’t care about anyone but themselves

i remember how a lot of times they’d post, making fun of people who make callout posts and going “why would anyone make a callout post for me i haven’t done anything wrong????”

theyve made posts about me and how i was abusive to them in our friendship for not wanting to be around someone who’s done this to me, who’s done this to so many other people now

i think they’re still posting about how abusive i am even though we haven’t been in contact for a while

it’s taken me a lot of time to make this post, and I really could only make it because of all my friends telling me that they believe me. 

i don’t really have caps because they’ve remade so much, and i know this is just my word against theirs, but i just want people to be safe