feeders, i’m actually not gonna hold your hand when i say this.
if you cannot engage with fat people outside of a fetish context, you should not be engaging with fat people within a fetish context.
if you are unable to walk the line of differentiating a sexual fetish from how you fundamentally view & experience fat bodies & the vast complexity & deep humanity of fat people, you are not trustworthy with that fetish to begin with.
essentially: if fat people are so fused with fat fetish in your mind that it all blurs together & you can’t connect with us without the fetish being present (& we can always tell when it is, even when you think you’re being slick)…
then frankly you do not deserve access to fat people at all.















