Core need unlocked thanks to overthinking
I still feel that linger of annoyance. One of my pet peeves are when people ask for my help, yet they don't know what they want. Because I don't know how to help them, when I really want to help. I feel like I'm wasting my energy because I feel like I'm just shooting in the dark. hoping I'm being helpful. This happened today, and I'm not satisfied on the way I brought up this annoyance I wish I was more direct to the point and said what I've mentioned above, but I stubbled and held a bit back because I was scared of potentially hurting his feelings. When I was definitely feeling annoyed and very confused. one thing is for sure is I didn't want to tell him what to do, but at the same time maybe that me giving the guidance he needs so we can better communicate and be helpful.
Basically, I told him how I felt, which was frustration and sadness and told him that we are a team and for me to be helpful I would clearly need to know what is his needs/ wants. Looking back, this is not bad, it was actually clear. Okay good on me. Rizia I'm proud of you, you vocalized your needs as it happened that is growth. Did it felt uncomfortable, hell yes, but you pushed through and said it. This is how you don't feel any resentment or angry towards people by letting them know of your needs. I need people to know clearly what they want when asking me for help.
