Welcome to CupidCrashed 💔
Hi. You found us.
CupidCrashed is an anonymous community archive for women who have experienced bad behavior from men on dating apps, virtual worlds, and social platforms — Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, IMVU, SecondLife, Discord, and anywhere else love is dangled like bait.
We are not here to ruin anyone's life. We are here to document, validate, and remind each other: it wasn't just you.
What you'll find here
Case files — anonymous text submissions from women sharing what happened to them, formatted as incident reports
Evidence posts — screenshots with identifying information removed
Callouts and polls — community conversations about shared experiences and patterns
Resources — reading on red flags, manipulation tactics, and healing
What this blog is not
A revenge site. We do not post full names, photos of the men, or location information.
A court. We believe submitters. Period.
A place for men to explain themselves in our inbox.
Want to submit?
Click "Submit your case" in the sidebar, or go to /submit. All submissions are anonymous. Read the submission guidelines before sending — they help us post your story in the case file format and make sure it goes up quickly.
A note from the curator
I built this because I needed it to exist.
If you have ever been ghosted after weeks of daily connection, stood up without a word, love-bombed into confusion, or scammed by someone hiding behind a cute avatar in a virtual world — you are not alone. You are not dramatic. You are not too sensitive.
Your experience is real. And it deserves to be on record.
Stay safe out there.
— the curator