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the argument is fan vs community fandom, this should be discussed. Reach out if they have harassed you or said something to you.

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how come were not talking about the other members of that private server? have they taken any accountability? are they still going after Chel and Damien?

shac has taken huge responsibility and accountability towards what happened, he had apologize multiple times and realizes his mistakes after months passed, they have deactivated their art blogs and even before that they tried to take kaat down by talking about them before eventually deactivating, last I know is that they have a new spam blog where they talk personal matters . they're a mentally unstable teen, its best not to harass them further.

heynoodles have also apologized multiple times even though they barely did anything but be a bystander of that server, heynoodles have showed growth and guilt towards the situation, its best not to harass them further.

I don't know if Pax, and moon have apologized, there's two other members that seems to be the same age as Shac's (16 to 18) but they weren't very active and or been a bystander too.

the most one is Ace (Shac's friend) I don't think they've taken accountability too, they deactivated after the call out and we never know what happened to them, but from what I last heard from shac that they operated a very parasocial blog called "Smoshinlove" (where they post smosh relationships and even posted damien and chel which made fans upset) and it got deactivated afterwards from whatever happened.

kaat is the only one left who is still ignorant and keeps talking about them whenever chel is in a smosh cast's post or damien wearing one of Chel's handmade jewelry. they have not taken any accountabilities, they choose to be ignorant and have said that they won't be apologizing for any actions they've made.

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Do you have any idea if Kaat has taken ANY accountability for everything that she did and caused? Is she still even active on here? Or is she still being a weirdo creep?

no, she has not taken any accountability. she has said a lot of times through private servers that she will not stop and that she does not care if it ruins her reputation, she does not care about Damien's words and that she'll continue on exposing him and his partner.

this is also what she posted last january after exposing Damien for wearing his girlfriend's handcrafted necklace.

she's still active, @/spectresmut and @/cacneaaa in case if spectresmut gets privated or deleted, cacneaaa will be the new replacement

she only post smosh clips from what i seen these days.

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sorry you said Chel is posting something about what she’s doing/did and then an hour later Damien is posting? are you saying she should never say anything about what she does? does that sound like something Damien would even want? I’m a fan on here just like the rest of you but you guys are really making a lot of assumptions about what he wants when the only thing he’s ever addressed is that he wants Kaat and the other fans to leave them alone. you don’t have to like her but why are we picking her apart when you yourself has said she hasn’t posted anything hinting towards partners since 2014? And even so, it’s been 2 years, I think they just stopped caring. Chel isn’t the problem here, it’s Kaat.

don't make me repeat what I just said like an hour ago.

"but I assume, I'm assuming, maybe there's a discussion about posting things between them, and to be honest most of Chel's posts are about HERSELF, not about Him, and obviously his posts are about HIMSELF too. and it's the fans that are just connecting the dots. they are individual people that are posting about their POVs. Now that I think about it, Chel has improved in posting, she's barely posting about damien and more on about herself and her excitement towards things that will be happening to her too because she's part of Damien's life, the last spam posting about partners was in 2024 then 2025 went quiet because of Beth's callout post. so lets just say, she's going to an event, not because of damien but because of the friends she missed, do you get what I'm trying to say?"

this is a positive assumption, I'm not policing Chel or Damien about posting things, I'm just assuming that there must be a conversation between them about posting things, I assume damien would be fine with chel posting about where she's going because she's part of his life, because she's experiencing more than what he's experiencing. she's telling HER story, her POV, not Damien's. do you understand me?

and those answers were from the previous asks about how everyone was just revealing private informations of damien, scroll down and you'll understand why

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which side are you from? Chel's or fans??

Neither.

what Kaat is doing is harmful to the community, their lack of awareness and constant harassment towards others, them sharing private information to the public as if they have the rights to, and them sharing inappropriate media towards minors, I want people to be alert and know that kaat isn't a safe person to like or interact to. especially when they have told the public that they won't be apologizing and will be continuing to talk about chel, disrespecting Damien's wishes and still be obsessed with him.

On chel, Chel has done a lot of things to which everyone's sides are confusing, I don't know them personally and I only know little by them but they have a huge lack of privacy and was the one who shared their private relationship to the public back in late 2024. The only valid words I can say is "I don't know." because I don't know what's happening in their relationship, I don't know why Damien is with someone who doesn't value his privacy, I don't know. all i know is, is that he's happy with her and we should respect that. not doxxed him or ruin his privacy further, or manipulate his younger fans into hating him and his girlfriend for things that we're not even sure if its true or not.

we have no rights to speak about something that were not involved in.

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Damien loves his privacy, so why would he be ok with her posting publicly about where or what it is they’d (he) be doing?

I don't know, I don't wanna say things as if I'm involved in their life. We don't know if Damien is fine with Chel posting things that's involved with him, we don't know if he's not fine with it, I don't know. All that's out in public is Chel posting small informations of where she is or what she's doing and the next hour it'd be damien posting the same thing.

but I assume, I'm assuming, maybe there's a discussion about posting things between them, and to be honest most of Chel's posts are about HERSELF, not about Him, and obviously his posts are about HIMSELF too. and it's the fans that are just connecting the dots. they are individual people that are posting about their POVs.

Now that I think about it, Chel has improved in posting, she's barely posting about damien and more on about herself and her excitement towards things that will be happening to her too because she's part of Damien's life, the last spam posting about partners was in 2024 then 2025 went quiet because of Beth's callout post. so lets just say, she's going to an event, not because of damien but because of the friends she missed, do you get what I'm trying to say?

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why are we still talking about this situation from last year? move on

this blog was made against Kaat's actions and how they still wouldn't move on about the situation, I'm not active often but some anonymous asks are coming so, I'm just answering what knowledge I have left for their questions.

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its not a competition of who's worse in Damien's life, all of them are terrible people for doxxing Damien's personal informations to the public, I don't even want to assume things, but if Damien was allowing Chel to post things that are happening to him too then she shouldn't be upset if people are looking for her account because obviously there's still people out there checking her account for where Damien's go to next. she's like an open schedule for Damien's life because of how she posts things involved with him.

I'm glad Austen and Megan stopped posting about him, I heard from Kaat that megan was getting a restraining order I think? against chel, and austen is just quiet about it, already moving on

on the austen and megan part, after the call out from Damien's live stream, several anonymous people were coming towards Austen and Megan from what I remember, commenting dead threats on their posts, messaging them awful messages. Which made them both stop and just move on, they're upset at Damien for saying "false" scenarios. But yeah, We don't know everyone's side, I think that this should be addressed more formally by them only and not by fan theories.

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TOTALLY agree with the anon who said everyone who has been directly involved with damien has been reckless to some degree. especially chel.

there was a recent bsky post by them that said they should be more careful in what they post online, but how would you do it when you've already shared so many pics and posts (even hints!) of your whereabouts knowing full well that damien would also be there in them?

at this point, its better if either of them just hard launch already to save everyone further trouble. yes, i get they're being extremely careful now, but several of their followers are also fans and even subscribers of damien's twitch streams so... they'll know too

+ they have posted a picture with their phone lockscreen being a kiss photo of him and them which several fans saw it like back in 2024 I think? there's not much to hide anymore. And smosh casts are letting chel in in their life, so. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I found Shac's bsky account and shes pretty active there but I dont know if i should expose it

I think you should leave him be, Most of his posts these days are his new cat and his personal life. I don't recommend exposing someone who is already trying to move on and leave Damien's life alone.

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Sorry, rant/vent incoming. Feel free to not post if it's too much/too personal. I'm just in my feelings. Same anon that sent the long message "to Kaatja".

"his former friend Austen pointed out that the background in one of Chel’s photos was part of Damien’s home with details of what kind of home he lived in, which he never wanted people to know about."

That's the only thing I don't appreciate about Chel. I'm not interested in playing fbi on what is and isn't true about her but she is going to give me heart failure in regards to Damien's safety. I had to block her as soon as I found her because she's not even truly trying to keep details a secret (save for just outright posting his face and name) while he obviously still is (though also barely) and she posts everything publicly that he's said he doesn't want people to know about:

- pictures of his cats referring to them as hers

- inside of his home

- attending the same events

- talking about their anniversary

- announcing places she's going to be at knowing full well it's going to be places with Damien.

I haven't checked on anything she's posted since I blocked her months ago but if someone told me she posted the date & time they'd be at the airport I would not be surprised.

Like, girl, self preservation skills. Please. I can't assume that she does or doesn't have his consent to share things, but my stance (and to maintain my sanity) is to keep Chel blocked because no matter how small the detail is, if it's not coming directly from Damien I don't wanna know about it. I don't wanna know about it and convince myself that it's okay for me to know because I can be trusted. I'm sure Kaatja convinced herself she was "trustworthy" too. Knowing myself I would forget something is supposed to be secret and slip up and then I look like a freaking stalker when the truth is the person he lives with is sharing that info. It's one thing for her to decide she doesn't care what stalkers see/know about her if it was only affecting her but it isn't.

I'm also a victim of doxxing and stalking multiple times to various degrees of danger, so I may care and worry about this more than is reasonable. I just wish one of three things would happen:

1. Chel stops sharing personal shit

2. They publicly acknowledge their relationship so this can stop being a worry

3. Dump her

Either way, I'm just sick of being worried. It's not and never will be her fault that people take advantage of that information, or that Damien's ex friends exposed him, but I just can't fathom not taking precautions and posting shit he explicitly says he doesn't want people to know.

Sigggghhhh. Sorry. If you want to acknowledge but not post this I understand because a lot of people might not even know Chel has a public social and talking about it could absolutely backfire the fact I'm so stressed about people seeing it. You can just make a post in response to "stressed anon" if you like.

After some thought and leaving this ask in my inbox for a while, I have to say it but being stressed over this situation because of everyone being an actual immature and reckless adults towards Damien is completely valid.

you've given me tons of valid points towards this situation, it's not only Chel who's reckless in this situation, but also everyone else. Austen and Megan too. They are all completely immature towards this situation, towards a man who only wants privacy in his entire life.

yes Austen is reckless for speaking about this situation last year, knowing she was betrayed over this does not mean you could talk freely about a problem when you could've just accept and move on, friendship break ups hurt especially when you've been friends with someone for years, but that's how life goes, you lost or gain someone, it doesn't have to lead to being angry towards him and completely go out in public to talk about the "monkeys and the circus".

yes Megan is gullible, reckless and overall completely immature for talking about this to a FAN and sharing personal informations to that fan. I don't know how their friendship went but what you did is also worse, being stalked and harassed around the con by Chel was terrible but sharing Damien's personal informations to a fan is WORSE too! you were vulnerable, upset and you let a fan in to your life so you could talk about his personal life to them. be upset but don't be this worse.

Yes, Chel is also reckless for posting things with Damien being INVOLVED in it and knowing he'll be posting the things too in his IG. I don't want to know anymore sides or stories when everyone is just completely reckless and immature, everyone thinks they have the rights to speak of an individual's life when they don't. Losing a friend doesn't mean you should be an absolute shit by telling people about their relationship, so what if he's dating his own stalker or whatever you all call them, he'll live, its his decision, its his opinions. its his life. they'll break up, they'll get married, WHO cares. its his own karma that'll come through, NOT you. I'm not defending damien in this either, he knows what he's doing, he knows what decisions he's been taking, everyone's absolutely shit in this situation and that neither is winning, everyone is just a horrible person.

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can anyone tell me what happened to Shac? last I remember is her suddenly posting about Kaat and then deactivated her blog after

He deactivate to move on, to let go of the last thing that gave him a reason to live through hard times

he's still active here, just not too often, I can't give his new tumblr blog since he's posting fanarts again about video game characters. No real people involved in their posts

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anon about the home doxing, don’t share publicly if you don’t want to, but Kaatja shared DMs from Megan in the discord that his former friend Austen pointed out that the background in one of Chel’s photos was part of Damien’s home with details of what kind of home he lived in, which he never wanted people to know about. It’s messy.

okay now I remember this clearly, but unfortunately I don't have screenshots of this. This is becoming a bit more worse than what I thought

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megan blocked me here on tumblr, which is kinda saddening. I wonder what kaat told her about me to have me blocked.

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I’ll go even farther to say that Kaatja posted screenshots of Megan giving private details of Damien’s home that he didn’t want made public.

Megan shouldn’t have been giving that information out to a fan at all, but Kaatja took it too far. There’s no justification to any of it. They’re making everyone uncomfortable in our space and making Damien uncomfortable.

I don't remember that happening , did I miss something out ??? wtf

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Thank you for the explanation on Megan and Kaatja. It's so disturbing that Kaatja recorded conversations AND posted them. Like that's just another literal crime she justified committing. It is a crime to record people's conversations without their knowledge. But so is every other drastic step she took. I need to stop being surprised.

I remember megan consent her side of the story to be shared to others but there are other messages that didn't seem like megan would want it to be shared.

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To Kaatja, if she'll even see this (because I've blocked her and do not plan on undoing it). You need to stop. I don't know how you have deluded yourself into justifying all of this and going as far and deep as you did in the first place.

You manipulated and hurt so many people in the process. Your behavior is disturbing and criminal. You mistake Damien's patience and kindness as weakness. You infantilize him at the same time that you accuse him of being an accomplice to whatever Chel's supposed crimes are. Your legacy is causing him so much stress and trauma that he was having panic attacks trying to just do his hobby and interact with his own community.

You did not, and do not, actually care about Damien. A healthy, compassionate person does not justify manipulating and harassing dozens of people around someone you supposedly care about. You don't see that person in tears BEGGING you to stop and decide they're actually in the wrong if you supposedly care about them. You are treating him like an object to be controlled.

This is not "doing the right thing". You are not helping anyone. You are not fixing anything. You are not proving anything. You are endulging in toxic, self destructive behavior. You don't even feel shame enough to apologize. I don't care what is and isn't true about Chel but it's VERY clear that you, out of everyone that could possibly be connected in this clusterfuck, have the biggest trail of harm, chaos and emotional destruction. Maybe that's what you really wanted in the end. To be ground zero of all of these people's lives.

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