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Sometimes I feel so insecure about what I look like. I just don’t feel good enough or conventionally attractive to even attempt sugaring.
Im sure you’re beautiful. And besides, this game isn’t about conventional attractiveness. No matter what you look like, somebody out there is desperately attracted to you, and this hustle is about being smart enough to recognize and find those men, and charismatic enough to talk them out of their wallets.
Your story about how you nearly died as an SB made me feel a lot better about the time I was sexually assaulted by a former SD a few months back I knew nothing could really do about the situation since the police probably wouldn't take me seriously and it bothered me it makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only one in the same predicament I know many women get sexually assaulted but I never heard about someone in similar circumstances thanks for sharing your story I admire you
I admire you too, for your strength after such a horrible situation. It’s hard for SWs because the police don’t help, and we already keep our lives such secrets so it’s hard for us to find people to lean on.
Sending you much love
Some sweet SB sisterhood. <3
AMEN
Diamond Daddy: R u very sexual
Me: R u going to give me every penny you have
Anyone who’s every interacted with more than 5 POTs will know that this is truth.
😔
Currently in a shitty hotel room. He basically made me choose, sex or get out. Ladies & gentlemen, it’s easy to be fooled and manipulated. Please remember that, if you don’t truly know someone, don’t get too comfortable with them. Don’t worry though guys, even though I’m actually VERY devastated about all of this, especially since I thought he was the perfect guy for me, I am safe. Very blessed that I had $1,000 backup money with me just in case I needed it. If I didn’t I’d probably be stuck on the streets right now. For all of the people who told me that I am a sex worker and I need to stop thinking I’m not… This guy took me on multiple dates, made me feel like the one, & I still denied him my body. So no, I am not a sex worker, and that is why I am coming to you live from a shitty hotel room. For all of you gay sugar babies, if you end up on leaugueofgaymillionaires and hear anything about a Murad Kattan(Mr. Saudi), stay far away. Although I will be calling the site to let them be aware of this man, because the site is supposed to be for real relationships. If y'all have any specific questions, feel free to ask, I’m too sad to say anything else right now.
The sugar path is no red carpet. Be safe!
Beware girls
How did you find this?? Some notable posts from the thread. Ladies these men are professionals/hobbyist. They do this for fun, for sport. It’s disgusting and frightening. Please please be careful. “My total cost after sleeping with 7 people in three weeks (all on the first “date”) is around $220 bucks. •Noticed a lot of guys mentioning how women will say how great it is to have a young attractive guy on the site. I realize the majority of women who say that are lying to stroke that ego (guilty!) But please please lie about how great the men on the site are. Don’t tell them that the men are flaky or stand you up or cheap. A question and answer-•”What do you do after the first date?”- “disappear” One user asked this question- do they bring up the “arrangement” on the first date, what do you say? This was the response- “Sometimes they do on the first date, sometimes they do beforehand. I tell them “I don’t discuss such things before seeing if we have a connection. It makes the relationship transactional. I have zero desire for a hooker.” That usually get’s them off the subject as most SB’s don’t want to be considered an escort. I use the word hooker for shock value as it is not PC in today’s world. It conveys the fact I look down on hookers with disdain, both raising my value and showing I want more than just a pump and dump. (Little do they know) And if she really is a hooker she’ll blow herself out by bringing it up again later.” - Another response - “I do essentially the same thing. “We need to see if we have a connection first.” During the date, I’ll dangle the possibilities in front of her. I’ve traveled a lot so I will discuss some of my adventures and ask her what places she’d like to visit. I’ll even ask her if she has a passport and if she’d consider taking a weekend trip with me. Of course these bitches eat it up. “We can spend a weekend in New York sometime, maybe somewhere in Europe if it’s a long weekend. I prefer Budapest and Prague over Paris; Paris is overrated. Do you have a passport?” Some chicks want money upfront. These girls are probably legit hookers and just get ignored. If she wants to talk money after the bang, then I’ll bullshit her and pretend to negotiate. Then I disappear. It’s easy to stall for a week or two and then say you met someone else, especially if you establish upfront that you have a very busy travel and work schedule. To avoid a false rape charge That night or the next day after the bang, I always send a message similar to the following: “Hey, I had a good time last night, I’m glad we met. We should set up something regular.” They always respond with something positive such as “I had a good time too, let me know when you’re in town again”. The types of chicks who go on SA seem like the type to make a false rape charge when the money doesn’t materialize. This is insurance against a rape charge. The hamster is much stronger in Sugar Babies than in most women.” - referring to women as bitches and broads - pump and dump - never actually give a girl money. Show her money, take her to fancy lounges.
Please reblog this every time it shows up on your dash because their will always be a new sugar baby who needs to read this. Please be safe girls! These man can be absolute monsters and you always need to be knowledgable of their games. Don’t ever let them take advantage of you. Always stay one step ahead and always be aware of your situation and surroundings!
Watch out for swindlers.
MOST of the men on SA are dudes who cannot afford dates with escorts. There was a whole thread on a hobby board about how guys (who have never seen escorts because they are cheap as fuck) get unsuspecting SBs to fuck them. SA is a cesspool, literally.
This is too true for me not to repost.
Update + Call for sugar babies & daddies
Hello!
How is it going everyone? It’s been a while since I updated this blog. The reason is that we have been looking for the right production collaborator, and we have finally found one. (After twists and turns, private-message me if you’d like to hear the details!) It’s an exciting news, as it means we now are marching full-on towards production!
That said, we are now looking for more sugar babies and/or sugar daddies regardless of gender orientation to be part of the documentary.
We can keep you anonymous if necessary. We want to hear your story.
This film is about mutually-beneficial arrangements–the grey area between sex work and romance, also known as sugar dating. We intend to show the nuanced experiences of those who are active in this lifestyle. We’re interested in how sexuality can be used as a tool for empowerment. We want to also explore how and why transactional relationships are stigmatized.
If these are the themes that interest you, give us a shout! We would love to hear from you, regardless of location, race, ethnicity, gender, and religion.
We already have a distribution contract from a major web publication and are now looking to film 2-3 central characters. Message us for details! Looking forward to collaborating.
Oh, spread the word if you can! Tell your friends. Reblog. Ask around. That’s how good things happen.
-Parinda
Update + Call for sugar babies & daddies
Hello!
How is it going everyone? It’s been a while since I updated this blog. The reason is that we have been looking for the right production collaborator, and we have finally found one. (After twists and turns, private-message me if you'd like to hear the details!) It's an exciting news, as it means we now are marching full-on towards production!
That said, we are now looking for more sugar babies and/or sugar daddies regardless of gender orientation to be part of the documentary.
We can keep you anonymous if necessary. We want to hear your story.
This film is about mutually-beneficial arrangements--the grey area between sex work and romance, also known as sugar dating. We intend to show the nuanced experiences of those who are active in this lifestyle. We’re interested in how sexuality can be used as a tool for empowerment. We want to also explore how and why transactional relationships are stigmatized.
If these are the themes that interest you, give us a shout! We would love to hear from you, regardless of location, race, ethnicity, gender, and religion.
We already have a distribution contract from a major web publication and are now looking to film 2-3 central characters. Message us for details! Looking forward to collaborating.
Oh, spread the word if you can! Tell your friends. Reblog. Ask around. That's how good things happen.
-Parinda
The average good stripper makes 6 figures a year.
$500 a day, $2,500 per week, & $10k a month.
If Medical School doesn’t work out, guess who’s throwing that ass in a circle?
Yes bitch, me.
I really want to see your documentary but I see kickstarter has failed. What are you going to do with the material????
Hi! I’ll write an update on the blog soon. Thank you for your interest in the project. Really means a lot to me! Stay tuned. :)
-Parinda
I want to know if Melanie has ever been tempted to revisit the sugar baby lifestyle after her first stint back in 2010, when the VF article came out.
Ask her! She’s very good at responding. :)
I’ll write your sugar profile for you.
I’m away for the next little while and want something to keep my busy - and top up my travel fund. I have noticed a lot of new sugar babies/babies in training popping up in the bowl who are trying to learn, and most of all, trying to get noticed. If you’re needing some assistance with your profile, I’m happy to help you; I’ll write the perfect profile to sell your sugar baby persona, or we can work on editing what you’ve got to create the profile of every man’s dream. Either way, I’ll help you out in exchange for $25 to my PayPal - it’s a pretty good deal!
A little bit about my qualifications:
- I have been in the bowl for about 4 years now, and have had multiple successful, long term SD/SB relationships with wonderful men.
- I’ve been running this blog (and giving advice to new SBs) for a couple of years now.
- I work in marketing in my vanilla life and can help you figure out the best way to brand yourself. I excel at creative writing and putting together pieces that capture and audience’s attention - in this case, the attention of rich men!
If you’d like some help, send me a message - and even if you don’t, it would be nice if you could reblog so this opportunity gets shared. Thanks!
I’m interested
Send me a message babe! http://eastcoastsw.tumblr.com/ask
I had real tears swell y'all. This makes my soul scream, women helping other women climb those ladders!!!! YAS! Where do I sign up!?
Omg so sweet! Girls supporting girls, always <3 Send me a message! http://eastcoastsw.tumblr.com/ask
Some real sugar sisterhood right here. :)
My son realized he's a different race than me
My son has special needs. He has autism, severe epilepsy, Intellectual Disability, and has extremely limited expressive verbal communication. He’ll be starting 2nd grade in the fall, and still communicates at about a 3-4 year old level.
Out of the blue one day, he walked up to me and placed his arm directly next to mine and said “race.” I asked him what he meant, and he put our arms together again and said “different race.” I said “Yes, sweetheart we are different races..” and he cut me off before I could continue and he said again “different race…beautiful!” and proceeded to give each of our arms a kiss, and reiterated that both of our different races are beautiful.
In seven years, my son never realized that he was biracial and that our skin colors are different. When he did realize it, he embraced it and said that we are both beautiful. I held my baby boy and told him that he is very smart and that he is the most handsome boy ever. We talked about different races, and how all colors are beautiful.
When he saw his best friend recently, he went up to her and gave her a big hug. This time though, he held her hand and looked straight into her eyes and said “different races are beautiful…you beautiful!” His friend is also biracial. She told him he was beautiful, too, and that he’s very smart, and gave him the biggest hug ever. She looked to me (all excited) and asked how he learned that, and then told me that all of us are beautiful. These kids give me hope. I cried.
My son, who can’t speak a complete sentence, who has an IQ under 70, who has difficultly with social skills, knows that we are all beautiful, and that all races are beautiful.
Racism is taught. Maybe the world would be a little better if more people would learn from my special needs son.
This is why I fuck with craigslist so hard
1. Instant response rate 2. Tons of emails in your inbox 3. Real men
For example, if you post an ad and they like it, they reply. It’s so simple. If you have NEVER posted before, chances are you will get at least 50 emails. The most before they flag it, I’d say 200.
Then after that, you have to sort through all of that mail. Out of the 200 guys that email you, you can find at least 10 suitable guys that want a mutual beneficial relationship and they are actually serious about it.
The men are real. I have found some suitable men off of there which is why I keep posting. If they happen to flag your ad, don’t give up. Be persistent as fuck and post again. You are allowed to post 5 ads a day. I’d rather do that then spam on sugar sites. I still would spam but posting an ad is so much easier.
I wonder if this is the experience shared by most sugar babies.
I admire u so much . How did u get so successful ? What are ur secrets ? :)
I’m in evil cold-hearted gold digger.
Emotions are a weak point for sugar babies maybe some won’t do the things I’ve done over morality; In my world I don’t know what that is. All i know is ambition, and perfection that’s what I focus on. Of course i’m not perfect, no one is i try to work with ideals. I try to be the “perfect sugarbaby” give the illusion of a relationship without giving too much.
For example: personalities, I’ve mastered the art of the “classy bitch” “ditzy college barbie” “mysterious” and “innocent in need” In the end manipulation all comes down to psychology. I’ll feed on a man’s weaknesses.
For example, tech savy dude: loves math and computers, he’s an engineer.
I start by breaking down the personality, ex: he likes math solving a problem makes him tick.So i play mysterious and in control. I always have him thinking he’s so close to figuring me out so I always keep him on the verge. I’m feeding this addiction, it makes the arrangement last. I’ll be far from anything he knows exotic personality basically and then i’ll hint nerdy shit every once and a while and it’s mind boggling to him he trips out and is intrigued. I full on commit to my personality, makeup, dark colors, hairstyle, the way I take my pictures etc, etc. Same for each personality.
I make myself feel like home. When he’s with me he feels comfortable, this creates an urge to keep coming back for more. Simple shit like a smell, Or clothes he likes, if i know him personally (knowing his real name, company etc anything allowing me to backtrace to his facebook and so on) I stalk my prey, i’ll find out shit about his mom and imitate that, like the same movies as him etc etc.
I’m quick on my toes, I mean quick! I see an opportunity take it. I take time to scheme.. I really study my POT.
Pseudologia fantastica: I’m a gifted pathological liar. All my stories make sense I have an answer to any possible question. I studied to be an actress when I was younger as a hobby, I learned to have a pokerface really early on and interview skills make it easy for me to assess any interrogation. I can really commit to my roles.
I’m brainy, I mean really brainy. I’m a narcissist I always want to know anything. I’ve done really well for myself with school and I’m basically a walking encyclopedia. I know various languages. This helps me lie in any occasion and look impressive.
Skills are KEY: I know my manners and my french, I learned to pole/lap dance, and I have amazing sexual experience.
The way I look, Idc what any sb says, they pretty girls get the most guys. I try to look as perfect as possible at all times. Face, body, hair, skin, makeup, clothes, shoes. I always want to look like a shiny new barbie
I’m a heart-breaker, this is just something I mastered throughout the years.. Manipulation, illusion, etc.
Drugs and alcohol. I use sparingly they just enhance me idk why they just do.
Experience:
“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” -Thomas A. Edison
I learn and pick up quickly from myself and other sugar babies.
Stalking the TAG for the past 2 years. I’ve learned new tricks, ways of doing things, advice, etc etc.
Help from experienced girls, I honestly learned so much from 3 girls. I love getting inputs.
Being selfish. I wont post on the tag too often. Every man for himself, dog eat dog world persona.
I guess one of the most important was working my way up, i escorted like crazy to build my wardrobe and get a fitness trainer & take classes in order to better myself. This gave me a better chance with higher rollers. I look and act like money so i get money. Men can tell whatsup!
Lastly..Bluntly saying I’m just honestly cut out for this. Not all girls are..
I’m just really strong & independent. My expectations in life are unreal, I’m a firm believer that nothing is unattainable for me.
Some ruthless take on the lifestyle
hello, i have been in the sex industry for 6 months now. i am really curious to see your documentary. is there any time limit to it coming out or what do you need to make it come out? :)
Hey there, I’m so glad to hear from you. How has it been? I’ll make an update on the status of the documentary soon. Still looking for new subjects actually. What’s your tumblr blog?
-Parinda
Really want to see your doc when it's out. I published a book on the subject: Sugar Babies (Champagne Books). Want a copy? Contact me, love to share it with you.
Hi there, would love a copy! How did you end up writing a book on the topic if you don’t mind me asking?
Dear Parinda -- I discovered your documentary through the HuffPost's Love + Sex podcast, via Karley Sciortino's blog, Slutever. After doing a sweep of the various social media platforms through which you have been advertising DDB and reading a couple of interviews with you, I can't seem to find word on the release date of your documentary. When is the documentary going to be released, especially given that the kickstarter campaign was not "successfully funded"? Thanks! x
Hi there, I’ll write an update on this project soon. It’s under production. Thank you so much for your interest. Keep spreading the word!
-Parinda
