Dandelion Feet

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Things don't quite work out the way you expect Don't bother asking I'll go somewhere else I am the one doesn't worry Squirm it off Go with the flow I'm flowing mama Go Fuck Your Self .

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I miss loving someone enough to get mad at them I just feel my own selfish disappointment and imposed sadness and nothing at all specifically

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I say please let me go and it says I will not.

I said go away now get out and it digs in deeper I say you are suffocating me and it says      yes of course and I know and I mean to be

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“She told me she was sad that she appeared in my story when it was already too late. Then she withdrew her hand and flopped it carelessly back in her lap I had an inclination she was referring to my marriage, but I didn’t ask what she meant because I knew that to give something a name made that something real and when something becomes real it has no other choice but to begin the slow process of death. For that reason I never told Sophia that I loved her, but as she stood above me one night in Lincoln, Nebraska offering her hand to help me out of the grass where we had been lying on our backs watching the sky, I knew that I could.”

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In my heart and in spirit I concede The things you want in life you have to really need This is a matter of life.

[a-joyfuljourney]

Renee Byrd

[nevver]

True potential

[northwezt]

Vance Creek Bridge (Nov. 4, 2015)

[bon----voyage]

[keebeeart-deactivated20220103]

Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it.

Maya Angelou (via yesforjess)

[artchipel]

Owen Perry aka CIRCA 1983 - Scottish Highlands

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Could never stay because you can't. Could never leave because what's next. Could never tell you. Could never be me. Could never be you.

[ghoulishkoneko-deactivated20161]

I am nothing but an empty shell of what a human being is suppose to be.

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Babadook

[nevver]

Territory, René Magritte

[nevver]

How the universe was created is none of your business.

[nevver]

Space

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

You Are Not My Responsibility

Can we talk some more about how guilt tripping someone for not being interested in you is a really shitty thing to do? Look, I’m sorry you’re lonely or depressed or  whatever. Those are bad things and having to deal with them isn’t fun. But I am not responsible. It is not my job to sacrifice my autonomy to make you feel better. Your attraction to me does not make your well-being my responsibility. And to use your unhappiness as a tool to coerce me into a relationship or a sexual situation that I’m not comfortable with makes you a bad person.

Anybody who’s had to put up with this kind of emotional manipulation - you deserved better. You always deserve better. And you aren’t wrong to say no.

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I’d also like to add that I shouldn’t have to defend myself when asked “What would the harm be in trying to date?” or “Don’t you think it would be a waste of time if we didn’t?” I am not obligated to develop romantic feelings for someone because I enjoy their friendship, and I shouldn’t be interrogated about my lack of romantic interest by those I consider to be platonic friends.

I value my autonomy, I love being by myself and doing things alone. This is a fact. This is not an invitation for you to think I need you, this is not an invitation for you to think that I’m alone because I haven’t realized my feelings for you. I am alone because I love it, I love myself, and I’m working on being a better person for myself, not for you.