In Between Here And There

25. living in the city, a little bit of this and a whole lot of that.

[johnnybravo20]

[indecent-obsessions]

[ottonielyanez]

[hotpr]

[prisoner5]

[fuckyeahdragrace]

[dannythou]

🌹Mi Reina 💖

[eldensage]

Bear Community Aesthetics

cargo shorts

suspenders over ratty gaymer tshirts

pizza

never combing your hair

alternatively, putting so much product in your hair it looks greasy

curling your mustache

alternatively, letting your ‘stache grow down over your bottom lip

pictures of spread asses with stained cracks

calling complete strangers “bud”, “bub” or “cubby”

dry, flaky beards

bear face

an overuse of the word “adorable”. (ie. adorably nerdy, adorably cute, adorably sexy etc)

worshiping drag queens but shunning feminine men

and  finally, a never ending sense of superiority for “not being like other gays”

[c3nric-deactivated20220627]

You forgot to mention that ugly paw tattoo they have in your much needed drag of this shitty-ass community.

[moscarelli-deactivated20181213]

Don’t forget “I’m not into black guys, It’s just a preference.”

[pineandthistle]

• One-word responses on growlr (even though they messaged you first), because evidently engaging conversation is a nuance one mustn’t trifle with if he wishes to be perceived gruff and masculine

• messages you constantly then ignores you at the bar but IMMEDIATELY messages you again the SECOND you leave

• constantly worshiping dudes with average looks and zero personality

• dates men that could easily pass as his identical twin

• a duck dynasty aesthetic with a toddlers in tiaras disposition

[notlostonanadventure]

But wait, there’s more

• craft beer • literally growling at someone they like • hugs that turn into public groping sessions • camping trips in the nude • sleep apnea • funding terrible webseries • gogo boys are “celebrities” • new balance • “I would totally fuck Chris Pratt, but like, the old Chris Pratt”

[pineandthistle]

I don’t identify with any of that except the craft beer part 😂 that’s so me though.

[hipindie]

[sleepin]

[powerbottomboys]

[bob-belcher]

[traptacular-deactivated20180125]

[plsfollowthesun]

Real

[teerofinale]

Finally got those overall shorts

[quarian]

[itsthelesbiana]

Be careful who you vent to.

Realest shit I’ve heard all morning. (via itsthelesbiana)

[only-the-seas]

fresh snips ✂️

[yourbigsisnissi]

Like What’s attractive about a man who isn’t excited as hell to be with you? Who doesn’t smile when you walk up? Who doesn’t hold your hand? Who isn’t all in? What’s attractive about a man who is too prideful to just let go and love? What’s attractive about an emotionally unavailable man?