trans positivity and love

submissions open!! blog mod: em (@catstrus) hey i know i might not be the best at running another blog full-time but i'm sure as hell gonna try. always feel free to send asks or submissions of anything, my dudes. we're all in this together 🐛

[succulentbud]

Are Ya Winning Son LGBT icons

Soft Pride templates by @gayreigen

[cyelatm]

[cold-caller-gisa]

Reblog to remove a transphobe’s skeleton

[seabastian-james-blog]

Tips for boys on their period

Don’t put a pad on boxers! It doesn’t work and makes a mess

To feel more masculine wear boxers over your //pad holding underwear//

Don’t beat yourself up, you are totally rad and cool, you’re body is doing something, but that’s okay, it’s not your fault and it doesn’t make you less valid!

If your cheast starts to hurt, don’t bind, some guys get tender breast tissue when it’s that time of the month, listen to your body, don’t push yourself!

Treat yourself to some chocolate!

Tea!!! It’s so good!!!! And green tea can help with cramps!

Advil! I use it when my cramps get bad, sometimes I get headaches and it helps with that too! Don’t take more than six though!

Go under warm blankets with nothing but your underwear on, preferably soft blankets, it makes me feel like I’m in a soft cacoon

Oversized sweatshirts! Always good! Especially for dysphoria!

Wear comfy cloths, always good to feel good

Eat warm soup, feels nice in the tum tum

Don’t eat super greasy foods, it can make your skin break you even more! And there are already so many hormones making your skin do crazy thing you don’t want it to get worse! Also it can make cramps worse

Most of all listen to your body, don’t push yourself, and try to forgive it, it’s confused and doesn’t know that it shouldn’t be doing what it’s doing

[polystyrenesoup-deactivated2020]

[lesser-flamingo]

trans men are MEN you fools!!!!!!! not girls in a phase! not confused lesbians! gay trans men are gay men! trans men with boobs are men! trans men with long hair and delicate features are men! short young trans men are men! trans men who are gentle and kind and softspoken are men! understand this and move past ur transphobic & toxic masculinity-affected views of what it means to be a man!

[queer-positive-archived]

happy lesbian day of visibility to all of the trans women who are lesbians out there. you are completely valid in both being trans and being a lesbian. i love you all

[potato-lesbian]

today is lesbian visibility day

happy lvd to…

trans lesbians❤️

nb lesbians🧡

lesbian poc💛

Jewish lesbians💚

Muslim lesbians💙

disabled lesbians💜

neurodivergent lesbians💕

closeted lesbians💞

all lesbians💓💗💖💘💝

[princess-of-positivity]

You are enough.

[blankslate]

hi i’m one of those scary Radical Trans Activists and my beliefs include Please Stop Murdering Us

[dateatranswho]

i really want to reblog all these posts but im not out on my blog or irl and people i know irl follow me :(

make a secret second blog that has 0 followers and scream into the void as much as you want without outing yourself!

[reference-database]

For height-dysphoric trans men - list of shorter male celebrities.

Posted by @ TRANSFlNN on twitter

[luxtenebre]

Anyone got something like this for trans women because like…Being 6ft tall doesn’t exactly inspire confidence in this fight

[gaypitbull]

ask and you shall recieve :)

6′0 Aisha Tyler

6′0 Allison Janney

6′0 Brooke Shields

6′0 Elle Macpherson

6′0 Famke Janssen

6′0 Geena Davis

6′0 Jane Lynch

6′0 Jeanene Fox

6′0 Jennie Finch

6′0  Kristen Johnston

6′0 Margaux Hemingway

6′0 Natasha Stefanenko

6′0 Saffron Burrows

6′0 Uma Thurman

6′1 Adriana Karembeu

6′1 Ana Hickmann

6′1 Brigitte Nielsen

6′1 Faith Minton

6′1 Janet McTeer

6′1 Julie Strain

6′1 Michelle Wie

6′1 Monika Schnarre

6′1 Pam Stone

6′1 Penny Lancaster

6′1 Tara Moss

6′1 Venus Williams

6′2 Dorothy Ford

6′2  Elizabeth Debicki

6′2 Ireland Baldwin

6′2 Jodie Kidd

6′2 Karlie Kloss

6′2 Lindsay Davenport

6′2  Maria Sharapova

6′2 Natalia Bush

6′2 Suzie Plakson

6′3 Dot-Marie Jones

6′3 Gabrielle Reece

6′3 Gwendoline Christie

6′3 Judy Gold

6′3 Kerri Walsh Jennings

6′4 Candace Parker

6′4   L'Wren Scott

6′4 Rebecca Lobo

6′5 Lisa Leslie

[bigfatscience]

Size diversity in height (and weight!!) is real and does not care about gender-based stereotypes.

[melodylamb]

what a wonderful day to remember nonbinary lesbians and nonbinary gays are lovely and valid 🌈🌻✨🌼

what a splendid day to remember that trans lesbians and trans gays are wholesome and valid 🌈🌼🌻✨

[mioxenoblade]

You don’t have to know what your sexuality is. You don’t have to know what your gender is. There isn’t a test that you need to prepare for. Sometimes these things are confusing and the only answers you have are “not straight / cis.” Don’t beat yourself up over not knowing.

[lizardsister]

trans people who talk over voice chat despite risking getting misgendered are braver than any us marine

[dateatranswho]

me, the second one of my followers sends me an ask saying they’re being bullied: (ง’̀-‘́)ง

[dateatranswho]

hi hello, im a transboy and today my crush asked me how i would have sex, she asked me if I would give it or take it. I felt uncomfortable and i really didn't know how to tell her that she doesn't need to know unless she's my girlfriend, but i told her anyways and now i kinda hate her and myself :(((

hey, i’m sorry. that’s super not cool of her to do at all. take a deep breath, you’re okay. my advice is gonna be to confront her and say something along the lines of “hey, these specific questions about sex, genitalia, and intercourse are really uncomfortable for me to answer, and i need to know you won’t ask me more. i’m glad you’re curious about the trans community, but my personal boundaries prevent me from talking about those topics on a personal level. i’d be happy to help you research and learn more from others.” and if she doesnt respond to that well……guess its time she and i Have Some Hands

[dateatranswho]

My brother just told me that people in middle school as high school that are like genderfluid and stuff are just subconsciously looking for attention, and my parents often say more transphobic things. I'm a demiboy and this makes me extremely uncomfortable and often it results in dysphoria. I'm in middle school and I'm scared I'm doing that, but at the same time I need help on how to appear more masculine, being trans and all. And people mock my preferred name at school. (It's Aris) Any tips?

tip 1- if someone deadnames you, hit them with an even stronger power move by refusing to respond or even acknowledge them until you are called your preferred name and pronouns. tip 2- find or create a social club for something relatively niche you’re into. those smaller clubs and groups are the basis of tight-knit friends who share the same ideals as you. tip 3- dress relatively neutral if you want to sort of blend in and avoid being singled out. hoodies and jeans, babey. tip 4- invite your brother to an exchange of Hands with me in his nearest public restroom