flowers on the grave.

g // 25 // jkt. i like pop punk bands and movies; that's pretty much it.

[bongjoonhoe]

Beginners (2010) dir. Mike Mills

[dianaofthemyscira]

You will give the people of Earth an ideal to strive towards. They will race behind you, they will stumble, they will fall. But in time, they will join you in the sun, Kal. In time, you will help them accomplish wonders.

[djdangerlove]

“You’re Not a Good Writer.”

I once received a DM comprised of just that sentence. Nothing else. No constructive criticism or any reason as to why this person clearly agreed with my own view of myself.

For someone who has never told anyone in their real life that they write anything, reading something like this from an anonymous user only solidified in my mind the fact that this person was right.

I’m not a good writer.

After an embarrassing amount of minutes passed, in which I thought about deleting every story I ever posted, I decided to delete the message instead. Unfortunately, that didn’t mean I could delete the feelings it caused or change the fact that I’m not a good writer.

Two weeks went by and I didn’t write anything, let alone post. Then I received a comment on a story I had posted three years prior, one I’d written after a death in our family. The comment read, “Thank you for sharing this heartfelt story. I really needed this. I just lost my mom and this really got me today.”

I stopped thinking about being a good writer after that. I thought instead, “what if I had deleted my stories and that one person three years later hadn’t read it that day?”

Here’s what I realized: no one is a good writer.

Good means to be approved of, but stories aren’t created from approval. They’re built from life experiences, feelings, and emotions Therefore, the impact of anyone’s story isn’t good or bad. It’s a million other things.

Heartfelt.

Sad.

Funny.

Inspiring.

Romantic.

So to all the story writers out there, hold your head up, write what is in your heart, and never doubt that there isn’t at least one person out there that needs to read your story.

So, no.

We’re not good writers, but why would we want to be?

[blake-belladonna-defence-force]

Holy shit did I need to read this today

[teatops]

Never doubt that there isn’t at least one person out there that needs to read your story.

[belle-of-the-battle]

And if that person is just yourself, that’s okay too. I mean it, literally the only reason I started writing is that no one was writing what I wanted to read, and let me tell you, my writing may be a mess, but it’s a lot of fun for me to read. :)

[bafflecks]

bruce wayne, never waiting for a helicopter to fully land

[kingofthepitt]

Zack Snyder’s Justice League (2021)

[amyritter]

ok but are we going to talk about how zsjl did bruce & alfred right!!! alfred fondly roasting him at every chance, bruce saying "i work for him", their general dynamic and camaraderie... the little things. you could tell alfred raised him and that they've been family for a long time and that they obviously care for each other. a++, very show-don't-tell and imo very close to their comics relationship

[verified-villain-fxcker]

Regardless whether you like the film or not, everyone should keep in mind why the Snyder Cut being released is so important.

Not because it’s a “4 hour superior Justice League” but because Zack Snyder’s daughter died, he went off the film to grieve (VERY understandably so), and then Joss Whedon came in and tore his film to absolute shreds while harassing the cast and crew to horrific extents during reshoots.

If you like or dislike the film, that’s perfectly all right, but EVERYONE should look at this and see what a victory it is for Zack Snyder, his family and the cast and crew of the film.

[dceubatfleck]

so yeah im back on therapy after a year absent bcs of the pandemic. it was a telecounseling and at first i thought it was weird (and hella expensive) but i felt like its time for a check up. 

its exciting and also scary at the same time bcs what new trauma do we have here since ive been quarantining with two people who caused me most trauma lolsssss. and yeah my therapist said i have mild depression and anxiety disorder (not surprised tbh but MILD DEPRESSION???? ive been going to therapy for almost 3 years now and my severe depression has decreased into mild depression????? YUH LETS CELEBRATE FOR THAT)

but yeah she tells me i still have to go to intense therapy at least for the next two months since ive been dealing with shitty stuff with my parents. thanks again corona. 

at some point i said to my therapist that all of these dysfunctional in this household made me feel like its just a normal one and she deadass cut me off and said, “no. its not normal. dont normalize this. what u going thru here is NOT normal. you shouldnt be in this environment. you deserve better. im so sorry, but its not ur fault. not your doing.” she kept looking at me, telling me that and i just chuckled. 

and seeing me chuckled, she repeated it again. i started to get uncomfortable and then i sobbed wtfffff that was literally a good will hunting moment for me. its insane ive never heard someone saying those affirmations back at me. its insane ;__; 

i felt so validated and theres a huge burden off my shoulder when she kept telling me that. god ive never heard someone saying those shits for me. my surrounding has always been like “yuh thats bad im so srry,” and stuff like that but never those words. and when your therapist said that to you, you know its valid and nothing but the truth. 

i know no one really read this but thank you for reading. i just want to get this out off my chest. so yeah, if you have the privilege to do so, get yourself a therapist. everyone deserves to get the professional help. im glad i did and im glad i met my therapist. it might be expensive af but its worth it. 

[mrewanmcgregor]

Ewan McGregor, Long Way Up (2020) : Episode 1 ‘Preparation’.

[choidaehoon]

[olyphant-tim]

EWAN McGREGOR for Flaunt Magazine (2011)

[thewintersoldier]

Diana Prince in Wonder Woman (2017)

[itsjustinyourwildestdreams]

Better days are coming, don’t give up!

[hunterbadbatch]

where is charlie day’s emmy

[whirlybirbs]

chanting: grim, grim, grim

[oscar-isaac]

I have to say I am an optimist. I’ve always been built that way. I’m quite a happy person. I can find joy in lots of things. I just am happy. I don’t have to look for it. I don’t have to do things to encourage my sense of optimism. I have it anyway.

Happy 49th Birthday Ewan Gordon McGregor (March 31, 1971)

[manny-jacinto]

Ewan McGregor + movies where there is ‘Diamonds Are a Girl’s Best Friend’

[starwarsblr]

STAR WARS + opening crawl (1977-2019)