A native New Yorker, and self-taught photographer shooting both digital and film (35mm, 120, instant). I shoot street, cityscapes, and concert. All photos shot by me unless otherwise specified.
Last summer, I took a crack at starting a YouTube channel, and it's been fun to make something new and to be new at something. I'm not used to talking in front of a camera like this, and my video editing is super basic, but I like how things have been progressing.
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So if you've seen the earlier post I made, I am experiencing some serious financial struggles due to being laid off in Jun 2023.
I've basically reached the end of my funds now; my unemployment ended last week, and whatever savings I had has been spent. I'm now just trying to get any little bit of income that I can, so here's where you come in. Here are a couple of ways you can support me!
The ko-fi link at the start of this post. If you like my photography and my writing, and you want to show some support, I'd greatly appreciate it. None of my work is paywalled, so just consider this a way to say thanks.
I sell prints over on Darkroom. If you choose this option, I'd recommend getting loose prints over framed ones; I get very little from the framed prints relative to its price.
If you weren't aware, most of my concert photography work is unpaid, or poorly paid, so it really isn't sustainable for me to make a living. While I figure out what to do next, I figure that if there's even a tiny chance that something can help, I need to try, so I'm putting this out there. Thanks in advance!
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I've been sending out a newsletter for the last few months and it's been pretty nice. It goes out once a month and the one for Feb will be sent soon. Feel free to follow along!
Just sharing two of my favorite photos from 2023, but I also really need to just vent a little. The past year was a trying one for me.
There were some positives, for sure, and I've already written about those elsewhere. Today, however, I want to unload some of the more stressful things. I don't plan on going into a ton of detail, but I think I need to say it somewhere because I haven't been in a good place.
Work
The biggest source of stress for me has been losing my job at the end of June. I made a big move and left my finance job of 15 years to work for a non-profit media company in early 2022, and I got laid off about 18 months later. Make no mistake here: I loved that job and all the people I worked with. It was kind of heartbreaking to leave a place that made me feel so welcome. In the time since then, I've applied to a ton of jobs, and I've had only one interview. The interview that I was able to get wasn't even through the traditional application method—I had a friendly rapport with a recruiter and managed to land an interview that went all the way to its final round. Unfortunately, I didn't get that job and it was crushing. The little bit of savings I had has been depleted, and my unemployment ends in a few weeks. Job searching is fundamentally broken and it doesn't appear to be improving.
I've always struggled to get paid photo gigs, and despite what I'd consider to be a solid catalog of work, it has been difficult to consistently get in front of people who can offer paid opportunities. To that point, I had 4 paid concert gigs last year, out of 26 gigs total. I did have a handful of photography gigs that were not live music related, and I'm incredibly grateful for those, because they've helped to keep my rent paid for a little longer. Still, these are only occasional drops of income that aren't sustainable. I don't know what to do, and I'm pretty exhausted.
Relationships
Last year was possibly one of the loneliest years I can remember. Thankfully, my best friendships are still intact and I don't see that changing. However, there were just a lot of transitions that were starting to settle in for me. Most of my friends are married and/or have children, and quite a few of them have moved away too. It doesn't mean the friendships have dissolved—they're just different now and can't be maintained in quite the same way. Unfortunately, I still find myself occasionally revisiting abandoned friendships from years ago and grieving in one way or another—usually by having a flash of anger and then disappointment.
Romantic relationships were nonexistent. In fact, I essentially swore off of dating early in the year after a particularly demoralizing experience. Losing my job, of course, cemented that hiatus for me.
Professional relationships have also struggled. My attempts to nurture new relationships with artists, editors, and creative staff for photo work were fruitless. I did have a couple of people who successfully recommended me for work, but my own personal outreach was unsuccessful.
Outlook
I have made an effort to take the time and look back on the good things that have happened. I don't have selective memory about the good and bad things, but the bad things have been a mess. I don't know how I'll pay rent next month. If I manage to pay that, then the month after that becomes the new major concern, and so on. This is worse than paycheck to paycheck—there are no paychecks.
When friends casually mention things like plans for kids and marriage to me, I no longer confidently believe either of those things are in my future. Instead, I feel unlovable.
My sleep schedule is completely upside down now, and I don't leave my apartment for days at a time. I'm tired, and I would like to have one bit of security back.
On the very, very slim chance that you've reached the end of this, I applaud you. Part of the reason this is here is because I don't think very many people will check.
I hope that whatever 2023 was for you, 2024 ends up being better.
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