Skye the detrans femboy

Skye | 28 | detrans kinkster who kinked so hard he's just a femboy now | he/him | Minors DNI | mtftfemboy

[detransfemboy]

More real less kinky post here, wanted to provide a gender update:

I've been thinking about my gender a lot, and specifically the separation of gender identity and gender expression. This has made things a lot clearer for me. I think... I'm just a guy. Probably. Currently I feel like my identity has some sort of "transness" to it but I can't place it. Typing all this out is really scary to me, so much that I just had to calm myself by calling myself s girl? Idk. I think girl is just like, a safety net for me right now. Guy is the identity I'm enthusiastic about, it's what sparks joy. But notably, not masculine. I still feel very in touch with my femininity. I feel like I'm the type of guy that's "one of the girls", y'know?

I don't know... what to do with this. I'm gonna sit on this for a bit. If I keep liking boy I'll tell all the people I'm close to (horrifying to me rn btw). I think at work and with family I'll keep being a trans woman for now, I can't comprehend a world where I change that. Cause that's the only way I'm getting my connection to femininity acknowledged in those spaces. But uh yea, I'm a man

[detransfemboy]

Yeah ok I think the real answer is my identity is Femboy. I know most people use it as a word for an expression, but to me my femininity is so core to who I am beyond just expression, it's part of my identity. But also I'm a guy. So Femboy :3

Crazy how the detrans kink actually just kinda worked lmao. Not that I think I'd ever go back to presenting masc, but I am fully embracing maleness. Wild

(also I know Rosboy exists and it describes like exactly what I want but Femboy feels easier and more fun. My gender my rules)

[detransfemboy]

Oh also! Going by Skye now, ok it's gender neutral but it's a more boyish name to me I like it :3

[detransfemboy]

More real less kinky post here, wanted to provide a gender update:

I've been thinking about my gender a lot, and specifically the separation of gender identity and gender expression. This has made things a lot clearer for me. I think... I'm just a guy. Probably. Currently I feel like my identity has some sort of "transness" to it but I can't place it. Typing all this out is really scary to me, so much that I just had to calm myself by calling myself s girl? Idk. I think girl is just like, a safety net for me right now. Guy is the identity I'm enthusiastic about, it's what sparks joy. But notably, not masculine. I still feel very in touch with my femininity. I feel like I'm the type of guy that's "one of the girls", y'know?

I don't know... what to do with this. I'm gonna sit on this for a bit. If I keep liking boy I'll tell all the people I'm close to (horrifying to me rn btw). I think at work and with family I'll keep being a trans woman for now, I can't comprehend a world where I change that. Cause that's the only way I'm getting my connection to femininity acknowledged in those spaces. But uh yea, I'm a man

[detransfemboy]

You're such a good boy, I'm so proud of you for waking up and realising you were never a girl 🫶🫶

Thank you it's so trueeeee, I never possibly could have been a girl!

[detransfemboy]

I read your intro post and this isn’t even me being kinky, I’m genuinely happy for you that you found yourself

Thank you!! Detrans kink genuinely allowed me to explore aspects of myself I never would have otherwise, and has been a huge mood booster

[detransfemboy]

Is your girlfriend cis?

No she's trans, she fully accepts me in my weird detransy state tho :3

[fakegirlfaggot]

I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl. I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy not a girl, I'm a boy

[detransfemboy]

So my girlfriend and my Goddess have removed all feminine language from how they describe me, only sometimes using they in public but otherwise referring to me with he/him all the time and it feels so fucking good ahhhhh

[detransfemboy]

I just got gender envy looking at a male character graaaah I'm a boy I'm a boy I'm a boy I'm a boy

[bimbo-on-board]

idk who needs to hear this but if youre just getting into detrans as a kink and youre playing around with the idea of actually detransitioning this is your sign to do it

[goonetteneet]

Happy Pride Month!

❤️🧡💛💚💙🩵💜

Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition. Detransition <3

[detransfemboy]

I was telling someone about a time I was called a whore recently and they replied "hey at least it's gender affirming misogyny" but that sentence made me so dysphoricccc

[cissytrapjames]

I do feel a little conflicted a the amount of people who seem to have a shame issue with this kink, and if I'm feeding something I shouldn't be. Of course I wanna see our lil corner of Tumblr thrive, but like is it many of you who feel awful about liking this in the clarity after? I never have, not even when I started, but maybe I would've if I'd started much earlier than 3 and a half years ago.

Are you needing better aftercare? I said this on my fakerbreaker blog but seek out gender euphoria when you're done if you need to, some affirmations, your favourite clothes, paint your nails (my audience is mostly transfem, you probably know best what's likely to help).

I know shame over our own kinks can be a lot. For me it was/is my little side. I hear what they call people for that, even in "progressive" spaces, I have to hide some of my self in a community I once wholeheartedly called home. This is a prevalent dynamic in one of my relationships, and much like some here discover they're not as binary as they thought, I found what I can only describe as partial age regression through it. I guess some of what helped was time, talking to other littles, seeing it's all actually very chill. I do still feel a little attacked when I see that misinformation, though, it's kind of raw.

Ny point is, manageable doses of shame can be hot, but not having it affect you in your vanilla life is kink 101. Likewise, there's a fine line to be careful of between experiementing with variations in presentation/HRT for example and using those things to self harm. This is a risky game if you don't know your limits, as much as I'm comfortable enough in mine that it barely feels like edgeplay anymore.

Just prioritise self care, it just feels a little disconcerting some of the things I read

[cissytrapjames]

For a while yesterday I felt the scariest sense of not being a girl mmmmmmm. The first time in my life of feeling "don't call me that!". It's inevitable, my tranny phase is over, I guess 30 is the perfect age to grow out of it after all. Reblogging that post ages ago really did seal my fate hhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[wonderlandetrans]

Detransitioning is so much easier than you think

Truly, you are your own biggest hurdle

The big first step is admitting you were wrong ♡

[cissytrapjames]

If we detransition into faggots, it won't be like before. It'll be okay to hold another man's hand, to be held in his arms, to hold him in your arms. It'll be okay to be sensitive and cry, to not center our lives around sex, to like faggy things, openly and proudly. What could be manlier than loving other men? <3

[detransfemboy]

I wish I JUST wanted to be a girl life would be so simple, I yearn and crave to be called a boy IRL but the idea of coming out again feels.... impossible I'm ngl. Shits scary