I’ve recently been asked at what point I realized that my little one had hit a point of no return. What was the moment I stopped seeing him as a man?
It is a great question and something I don’t think I have ever taken time to explain, so here we go.
First of all, I guess there were a lot of steps that made me realize he was embracing his new role in the house, and that he did not need to be considered a man anymore. Of course, the easy answer would be his first messy or sticky Pamp, but I’ll try to pick a few more interesting examples that clearly indicated me he had regressed to where I wanted him to be. When it all started we had both agreed that he would be regressing to a toddler’s age. It was very much exciting, but also a bit scary for him as he had no idea how or when this would be done, but of course Daddy had a plan 😉…No need to hide and pretend to be a man anymore, Daddy’s here to make it all better.
- Bedtime. At first, he always complained about his bedtime being “too early and boring because it’s not even dark out!”. After a few months, he had adjusted to it and even felt sleepy much earlier than before. Going to bed at 8:00pm is not an issue at all anymore and it makes it all easier. He gets his sleep, and I get some time for myself.
- Drooly bibs. 24/7-AB/DL is about letting go. The first step was of course to let go in his paddings, which he quickly did. But one of the very last (and quite recent) things I have asked him to do more was to let go and have a drooly chin as much as possible to “make Dadda proud”. You know that making Daddy proud means rewards… And rewards mean a very motivated little one. From then on, he started to drool a bit more, at first on purpose and then not even really paying attention to it. A large paci does help in those situations. I even had to add bibs to his day outfits as I would often find him with wet t-shirts or pajamas after a couple of hours spent in his playpen.
Probably not very comfortable, but oh-so cute!
- Babbling. When he got used to filling his Pamps, I could see that he was not embarrassed about them as much as before (and rightly so, because there’s nothing to be embarrassed about!)… but, you know I love a blushy stinker, so I had to find new ways to make his little cheeks flush a little. The solution was very easy: by adding a few simple motivational sentences such as “Smells like someone filled his Pamps in here… Daddy better hear some “babbly babbles” for a bit, or he may forget there’s a little boy in the house and forget to change him!”.
Oh you should have seen his face the first time, and the hesitation, probably thinking “Uhm…how do I babble?”. It was extremely cute, actually one of the cutest memories I have of him to this day. Then, came some tries and an adorable babble pattern that’s now unique to him!
Of course you need to remember this all took time and did not happen overnight. If you were to ask a grown-up to do these kind of things, you’d probably get laughed at. However, my little guy’s regression has been gradual with a lot of efforts from him and support from me, so that he could be his true-self again.
So yeah, those would definitely be some moments I realized my kiddo was not a man anymore, but why fight it? He’s been filling Pamps for over two years now (over a thousand in 2025 if you remember our previous blog!). He is changed, bathed, fed and dressed up by me every single day.
An early bedtime, a drooly bib or babbles are just small elements in his life. Nothing unusual anymore. Just a little boy living a little boy’s life wearing larger pajamas than most 😉.
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