dinomitegirl

20. she/they my blog exists for me

[dinomitegirl]

no matter how many kinnie rp blogs i block and mark as not interested, tumblr is convinced im the target audience for people with a fundamental misunderstanding of noelle deltarune pretending to be her responding to asks. please im begging you dont show me anymore

[fipindustries]

when youre bi you get to enjoy a good ship in stereo

[ifacethewinditsoundslikegod]

you are only alowed in my room if u love me

[homunculus-argument]

As my "I am aware that this is insane and irrational and therefore nobody can criticise me" of the day, I get irrationally pissed off by people who suck at eating.

"uguuu waah why am I feeling so yucky ;____; no I did eat today, I ate a slice of dry toast 15 hours ago, that's solid so that counts as a meal" bitch shut the fuck up if you hate chewing and swallowing that much get yourself a goddamn feeding tube. actually no I know your address, I'm coming over and I'm grabbing a garden hose from the hardware store on the way. I've never installed one before but we're about to learn together.

[poisoned-sugar11]

I think maybe you aren't a good ally to disabled people.

[homunculus-argument]

Say what you will, but I never hear people who forget to go to the bathroom get all cutesy and giggly about it. Nobody gets all "oopsie woopsie I ignored my body cues and peed the bed again 🥺🥺🥺 my little body can't hold all this pee and I'm tinkling myself every other day 🙈🫣" when they talk about having issues like that.

It's always the people who forget to fucking eat.

[poisoned-sugar11]

Right so. People with incontinence issues aren't ignoring their cues. Not how that works. Also, whether or not an issue should be taken seriously is not stored in how annoying people are about it. You're still being an ableist asshole.

[homunculus-argument]

Not my point but you're not interested in understanding me anyway.

[dinomitegirl]

i have issues with eating but i agree with op; presenting it in that sort of cutesy ‘can’t do anything yourself’ way is obnoxious and honestly the people who do that are the ones not taking it seriously.

if ive struggled to eat anything that day, the LAST thing im doing is saying “im sooo hungry but idk why i had a matcha today ^^” because people who are actually your friends will just tell you to go eat something, a conclusion which i would hope one could come to on their own.

its attention seeking behavior. i respect that they have the issue, i dont respect how they minimize it and look for pity from others for it instead of solutions.

[dinomitegirl]

can someone get caleb hearon on letterboxd i need to see his movie takes

[partywithponies]

Fascinating how what's considered feminine and what's considered masculine can change over time. The rebranding of being a horse girl into being a stereotypical feminine girly trait needs to be studied.

[partywithponies]

Look at classic children's novels. As recently as the 50s and early 60s, being obsessed with horses as a girl was depicted as strange and tomboyish, and the very concept of being obsessed with horses from early childhood and loving toy horses and desperately wanting your own horse being a "little girl thing" and not a "little boy thing" would send someone from the 1800s and earlier into a coma.

[partywithponies]

There's maybe a point to be made here somewhere about how when keeping and riding horses stopped being necessary to the functioning of society and became a more "frivolous" thing, it was rapidly rebranded as silly and girly and for women, but what do I know.

[dizzyghoast]

i wrote a paper in my masculinity studies class in college about this exact phenomenon, specifically about how high heeled shoes started as a practical way for Persian cavalry to keep their feet on their stirrups, then likely due to that association, became a popular fashion item and status symbol among the upper classes of Europe, before the Great Male Renunciation of the 18th-19th centuries, when men started shunning opulence in favor of utility, leaving them as a fashion item for women instead.

I've joked that the two genders are Aesthetic and Utility before but thats just kinda the case

[buhbahbuh]

Transfem ralsei is my daughtwr

[memorycycle]

first thing id do as a skeleton is drink red wine from a goblet and have it spill out everywhere . second thing id do is play my ribs like a xylophone

[goomyloid]

what's wrong with her genuinely

[dinomitegirl]

something i’ve noticed is that i as a thin person do not get through to my girl friends that have bigger bodies than i do when i encourage them to eat whatever they want and not worry about calories or being skinny. im really into body neutrality and i dont think anyone should be shamed or judged for their body type or eating/exercise habits. both of my friends who consider themselves “fat” eat way healthier than i do and are constantly working out/dieting because they want to lose weight. i feel bad that they feel like they have to be thinner just because that’s the beauty standard.

one of these friends is a trans woman and so there is that extra layer of wanting to be smaller specifically to look ‘feminine’; which to some degree, i can understand and sympathize with, but at the same time, women can look like anything. im happy for her that she is making changes to feel more comfortable with her gender identity, but i wish she wouldnt give herself such a hard time for having a non-stereotypical feminine body type. theres only so much calorie counting she can do in her situation especially, i hope she can be happier with her body and accept it one day.

they’re both adults and can do whatever they want, but i always wonder if my opinions about accepting themselves and choosing happiness/comfort over fitting in would be listened to if they came from someone who wasn’t naturally skinny+cis.

of course, im not against diets in general if they’re for health, i just think that people (women especially) shouldn’t feel like they have to conform or change their bodies just to appear thinner as a way of becoming ‘desirable’ or not shameful in the eyes of the patriarchy. obviously this is easier said than done but it’s just something that i’ve been thinking about

[kalliopiarts]

so girlsei nation how are we feeling about chapter 5

[ozempicofficial]

[truelovevip-deactivated20190324]

being as i am an idiot, and having been one my whole life, i just wanna say that i find it very easy to do nothing, and go nowhere. i eat chocolate late at night in the dark. i stand in the garden also. and i’m often waiting for something to happen. and i’m stupid.

[dinomitegirl]

what if we were both in the cuck chair and we kissed

[dinomitegirl]

[subwaybug]

❎ "my current mental state can cause me to be anxious, irrational, and overly reactive at times"

✅ "some sort of evil shadow self lurks within me that can only be defeated via battle of the mind combat"

[draconym]

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.