Disabled Queer

20 | Disabled, non-binary (they/them) queer | 16+ only, cis men, minors, TERFs, SWERFs, and truscum dni

[disabledqueerpainintheass]

Hey everyone! It's been a while since I was active on here (I think it's going on like...a year?). Anyways, a lot has changed. I changed my name (so, you know, hey everyone, I'm Jude), had a hysterectomy, made the decision to start t (I have my first shot on the 10th of next month!), and there's more I won't get into now. Anyways! I've made the decision to document my low dose t journey / experience (especially as a disabled wheelchair user with EDS), including answering questions and such, on tiktok. I thought some of y'all might be interested, so for anyone who is, I'm disabledqueerpita (I'll also post the link + first video below). I don't know how often I'll be on here, so if you have any time sensitive comments or anything, definitely reach out on tiktok, where I am much more active. Anyways, here's the link!

https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdS2vD95/

Also, important note, my cis men dni is waved for my tiktok so long as everyone is respectful. I am making these videos for my fellow trans folks. Cis people are welcome, but understand you are not my priority/focus.

I do just want to note that if there's enough interest, I'd consider cross-posting the tiktok videos onto here, so let me know if that's something you'd be interested in!

[memehumor]

Hmm…. What should I do ?

[catsbeaversandducks]

By @shiroganejpg​

[digitsofpie]

Don’t hide this in the tags

[bamsara]

Something I made while dealing with my own stuff and hoping drawing this would pick me up somehow. Maybe it worked.

FT my cat. His name is Mischief

[sosuperawesome]

La Le Pottery on Etsy

[everythingfox]

(via)

[sosuperawesome]

Moonflesh on Instagram

[bob-artist]

I reach into my garbage can and locate my trash child.

[somethingusefulfromflorida]

My heart hurts

[gayluigi]

your paper is very sleepy

[dragimal]

[str0kethebigtree-deactivated202]

[siren-the-gryphon]

[just-rhys-things]

Forward-facing eyes means they’re predators now

[anais-ninja-bitch]

haru is hunting down that d

[cipheramnesia]

[haloinfinite-archive]

help I’m dying

[monody-monody]

When you don’t want to code predictive aiming so you just make the projectile homing instead.

[an-apocalypse-of-magpies]

The story of this is fascinating and hilarious.

So this is, obviously, Hitman. And in Hitman you can pick up objects and throw them to cause a noise distraction. But you can also throw them at a person to sneakily take them out, particularly if the object is bladed/sharp or heavy. Now, the thrown weapon is programmed to home in on the target, but it normally moves so fast and the target so slowly that it makes no difference. Enter the briefcase. Intended for discreetly carrying weapons, but because of the briefcase’s size and bulk, it can be thrown, it has a much slower flight speed than, say, a knife or a screwdriver. But this meant that people noticed the trick, because they finally found a weapon that flies slowly enough to turn in mid-air. The devs patched this out of later games, the fans revolted - they wanted the janky homing briefcase.

Now we come to Hitman 2 (2019). The devs, as a joke, added a special variant of the briefcase to the game. So now, not only was there the ordinary briefcase, but a special version of the briefcase with minimum flight speed and perfect homing. Combine that with the one point in the game where a target can out-manoeuvre the inexorable march of the slow, flying suitcase, and you get one of the funniest gifs in modern gaming 

[anakintrashblog]

[politishaun-deactivated20230409]

Abortion Clinic Employee Shares How Some Pro-Life Women Act When They Come In As Customers

I am not surprised that anti-choice zealots would hypocritically obtain abortions, but I am thoroughly fucking shocked that they wouldn’t even attempt to hide their anti-choice views when doing so. 

[theunimpairedcondition]

So, the women’s speed climbing world record got smashed today by Aries Susanti Rahayu (@AriesClimber). 6.995 s. First posted sub 7 sec time (with a splinted middle finger!). Amazeballs!

[randomslasher]

damn. damn!!

[justeasing-1-deactivated2025010]

[eowyntheavenger]

OMG this is SO BADASS

[bluescluesposting]

I’M SORRY I’M JUST SWEATING FROM MY EYES

[itshunnib]

All beautiful, all you, all professional.

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Studies show that black women with natural styles such as fros,locs, braids etc are perceived as less professional than their straight haired counterparts.

Still ridiculous and I hope the crown act passes everywhere. One shouldn’t feel the need to straighten their hair for an interview or for every single important event. Straight hair is fun and awesome but the keyword here is “need” versus a non biased preference.

Stickers: https://ko-fi.com/s/4c3b6bffee

Prints: https://ko-fi.com/s/561c6a922a

[niambi]

I’m????

[alarajrogers]

Oh my God this actually explains so much.

So there’s a known thing in the study of human psychology/sociology/what-have-you where men are known to, on average, rely entirely on their female romantic partner for emotional support. Bonding with other men is done at a more superficial level involving fun group activities and conversations about general subjects but rarely involves actually leaning on other men or being really honest about emotional problems. Men use alcohol to be able to lower their inhibitions enough to expose themselves emotionally to other men, but if you can’t get emotional support unless you’re drunk, you have a problem.

So men need to have a woman in their lives to have anyone they can share their emotional needs and vulnerabilities with. However, since women are not socialized to fear sharing these things, women’s friendships with other women are heavily based on emotional support. If you can’t lean on her when you’re weak, she’s not your friend. To women, what friendship is is someone who listens to all your problems and keeps you company.

So this disconnect men are suffering from is that they think that only a person who is having sex with you will share their emotions and expect support. That’s what a romantic partner does. But women think that’s what a friend does. So women do it for their romantic partners and their friends and expect a male friend to do it for them the same as a female friend would. This fools the male friend into thinking there must be something romantic there when there is not.

This here is an example of patriarchy hurting everyone. Women have a much healthier approach to emotional support – they don’t die when widowed at nearly the rate that widowers die and they don’t suffer emotionally from divorce nearly as much even though they suffer much more financially, and this is because women don’t put all their emotional needs on one person. Women have a support network of other women. But men are trained to never share their emotions except with their wife or girlfriend, because that isn’t manly. So when she dies or leaves them, they have no one to turn to to help with the grief, causing higher rates of death, depression, alcoholism and general awfulness upon losing a romantic partner. 

So men suffer terribly from being trained in this way. But women suffer in that they can’t reach out to male friends for basic friendship. I am not sure any man can comprehend how heartbreaking it is to realize that a guy you thought was your friend was really just trying to get into your pants. Friendship is real. It’s emotional, it’s important to us. We lean on our friends. Knowing that your friend was secretly seething with resentment when you were opening up to him and sharing your problems because he felt like he shouldn’t have to do that kind of emotional work for anyone not having sex with him, and he felt used by you for that reason, is horrible. And the fact that men can’t share emotional needs with other men means that lots of men who can’t get a girlfriend end up turning into horrible misogynistic people who think the world owes them the love of a woman, like it’s a commodity… because no one will die without sex. Masturbation exists. But people will die or suffer deep emotional trauma from having no one they can lean on emotionally. And men who are suffering deep emotional trauma, and have been trained to channel their personal trauma into rage because they can’t share it, become mass shooters, or rapists, or simply horrible misogynists.

The only way to fix this is to teach boys it’s okay to love your friends. It’s okay to share your needs and your problems with your friends. It’s okay to lean on your friends, to hug your friends, to be weak with your friends. Only if this is okay for boys to do with their male friends can this problem be resolved… so men, this one’s on you. Women can’t fix this for you; you don’t listen to us about matters of what it means to be a man. Fix your own shit and teach your brothers and sons and friends that this is okay, or everyone suffers.

[trisarahtops-sketches]

Camouflage crew!

Get stick bugged, leaf butterflied, orchid mantised, and leaf bugged lol