[userparamore]

AFTER LAUGHTER: a videography (insp.)

[iconsyelyah]

NEW PARAMORE TWITTER HEADERS ★ by crystalforarmor on twitter and insta ★ pls like or reblog if you use or save! enjoy! <3

[dailywilliams]

Hayley Williams via Instagram.

[straylightjay]

[sunshine-on-earth]

[tsuki-dono-7-deactivated2019102]

[bigforeheadgaaal]

https://soundcloud.com/going-spaceward - support Black Artists 

[massfrenzy]

@supertimewizard

[butch-of-the-blades]

[marigoldwitch]

I absolutely love this <3

[st0kedalways]

[dailywilliams]

yelyahwilliams: my friends at @Spotify asked me to give them a video message they could post but im not sure it ever got posted? considering i was highly delirious and still managed to get it done, i can’t let it go to waste:

[praying]

[von-snow-deactivated20240101]

I think one of the most important things in being involved in a FWB arrangement is respecting the person enough to understand that ya’ll can be friends without the benefits too. A good FWB friendship consists of respecting that that person can vibe with you without the bindings of a relationship, and possibly the withdrawal of sex if either party wishes to do so. Physical/Sexual attraction in a friendship is manageable as long as ya’ll communicate, agree, and respect each other on the right things.

[von-snow-deactivated20240101]

And if the relationship is purely about sex, that’s fine, but thats not FWB. That’s a fuck buddy imo. A friend should be someone you enjoy talking to, making jokes with, and generally enjoying their presence or conversations with or without sexual or romantic feelings. The benefits can be brought in, but clear communication becomes essential for it to not collapse into something that causes stress to either party. And sometimes it can turn into both parties never talking again, but that can occur with ANYONE you choose to share your presence with. People come and go, and while it sucks to see someone go, understanding that no one is obligated to be in your presence forever and vice versa can save you lots of frustration and stress. Doesn’t mean you can’t appreciate that person for the time being, and if it turns into something long term, then all the better. If not, then you’ll be just as fine as you were before you met them. It’s all about communication and being secure within yourself. It doesn’t have to be overly complicated.

[hauntedmushroom]

“light as a feather, stiff as a board"

The Craft (1996)

[witchinghour]

As Above, So Below (2014) dir. John Erick Dowdle

[beasteatrr]

Forgive yourself for the choices that fear and insecurity made for you.

n.j.

[explicitcherry]

What's your sexuality

stupid

[brioniquex33]

[joli--coeur]

we can’t fast forward our lives to the good parts, and maybe that’s a good thing.

we get to go through the highs and lows of life. we get to learn lessons and gain knowledge from the hardships that we go through. we get to pass this knowledge along to those in need. we get to grow and learn, and become better people through the ups and downs life gives us. we get to appreciate the good moments after a bad moment has passed.

though fast forwarding to the good part of my life seems tempting, i like where i am right now. i will relish in the unknown, the tides, and the light. when those good times come, i will be more appreciative...and ready.