just a reminder not to bring your kinks into public, especially with BDSM. that stuff stays in the bedroom. like queerness, BDSM is nothing to be ashamed of. UNLIKE queerness, BDSM is inherently sexual. please donāt get someone to chain you up to a bike rack or tug you around on a leash near taco bell. sex positivity is good, but make sure youāre still practicing sex safety - and that includes making sure children donāt get exposed to stuff thatās legitimately confusing and hard to understand!
also, for survivors of abuse?? donāt do this because survivors are in public spaces? because you have no way of knowing who has or has not survived an abusive relationship and by exposing them to things that traumatized them you are actively BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND HARMING THEM? because not being āashamed of your kinkā is not an excuse to throw it in peopleās faces?
because forcibly involving or exposing unconsenting people to explicitly sexual acts without permission is sexual abuse
bolding for truth
bystanders have not consented. Bystanders have not consented. BYSTANDERS HAVE NOT CONSENTED TO BE PART OF YOUR SEX LIFE, SO YOU DONāT INCLUDE THEM IN IT.
It is not edgy or cool or interesting to make non-consenting, non-interested people uncomfortable with your kinky shit
